Thanks for the heads up Michael. I know you're just trying to be a good person and prevent something bad from happening but you've never even spoken to the guy and you're 99.9% sure he's a scam and leading me to doom. Again, it's only sexist if the age difference is okay for men and not women. Btw, he got a vasectomy when he got here. If you're not sure about him wanting kids later. I'm really grateful for the fraud warnings, of course I had to clear that up with my family and friends.