jabumere

I agree Eric Tasha, the process is long and very expensive. We had three children that we applied for at the same time. So multiply yours time three and we had just applied for my husband eight months prior to that. We just bless God because only He will get the glory out of this. The results are worth the wait. We just wish that they could speed up this entire process!

That could be a good thing . My kids VISA status changed three days in a row and the fourth day it went from Administrative Processing to "ISSUED" . We bless God!!! I pray that this means the same thing for you.

Just be sure to look the CO in the eyes and answer truthfully. They look for confidence and consistency. I will be praying for you!!!

Congratulations on your very near marriage. Yes those items will be enough to prove a bona fide relationship!

I am so sorry for your loss. I think that you were obligated to come to the U.S on the visa that you were approved for. There was nothing false or any type of deception on your behalf. Besides if you desired to come to pay your last respects to your wife who knows if the other visa would have been granted on time. I know that the consulate is strict but I don't think that they will fault you for this. I would advise you to make some phone calls to try and find out how to proceed.

That is normal , my husband's did the same thing and he was able to pick up his passport with visa included in a matter of three days from the date it said issued.

Hello, no question is ever stupid. If you don't know then you should ask. Now to answer your question. The Visa will have a date on it that will let you know that you must travel before that time expires. They usually have a length of 5 or 6 months on it

Sorry to hear that you and your family are having such issues. You don't need to make this a difficult situation. What I mean by this is that the marriage is not and haven't been for a long time it seems a marriage built on love and trust. In order for your relationship to work both persons have to want it. Your wife has been so focused on her well being that she has forgotten how to be a good mother and wife. You need to keep the video as proof of how she has treated your son who needs to remain with you. If I were you I would allow for her to continue just the way that she has been and you prepare yourself for a divorce and a custody battle. As long as you have the video proof there is nothing she can do to you. You just be careful that she doesn't take your son and leave . You might need to get a little more footage of her abusing him, yes slapping and hitting on him the way she does is child abuse. You can get custody of your son. I pray that all goes well for you and your son. Be blessed.

You are welcome, God is in total control!!! Please do not let this process discourage you it is all worth it in the end. This is a process that we as married couples should not have to go through, but thanks to others who did not follow the correct procedures our time takes longer. I know that you and I both will reap the blessing from this. My husband has his interview on Wednesday and we will continue to pray for all the people here on VJ. The scriptures say "what we make happen for others, the Lord will cause to happen for us"!!!!!

Hello, I am so sorry for you having to go through this, this also happened to me. I also was devastated. I began to pray and went about getting all the information together again. I was told that all our papers had been lost. I began to call them all day everyday late into the night and I also emailed them until I was able to speak with someone. I was told that I could wait for them to locate the documents or that I could resend them all. I chose the latter. I resent them all and I sent them over night by express mail and I had someone to sign for them. I knew by doing it that way someone had to be responsible for getting them. I had to wait 30 days all over again from the date of them receiving the documents. It was stressful but the Lord will strengthen you throughout this entire process.

Yes it has to be signed right now or they won't even process it.I scanned ours to my husband , he printed it out , signed it and scanned it back to me.

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!! I pray to have the same report in a few weeks. Enjoy !!!!!

I also sent my husband a package that they asked him to pay customs fee, but on the internet the item had cleared customs. My husband was very upset about this. I told him to leave the post office and calm down and return on tomorrow . I told him to pay the 7000 Naira that they were asking and let me handle the rest from this side. I pray that they give it to him. The box only has more phone records and a nice shirt that I wanted him to wear with the outfit I had chosen for him on my last visit. I told him ,no Wahala, we do not stress over such simple things. Jehovah has the final say!!! Pay the fee and let it go. If they need the money that bad.

Congratulations!!! I pray traveling grace and mercy over your husband's travel. You guys enjoy!!!

This is a no brainer sweetie. He is showing and telling you what he will do now and will continue to do throughout the relationship. You have your entire life ahead of you. You need someone that will be committed enough to respect your feelings. He is still in his growing up stage from the conversation that the two of you had. You are ready for a serious relationship and he is not. You need to focus on school and allow for the Lord to send the right man to you. You do not want to move to another country just to realize that the person is not the one for you!

I pray that you find happiness!!!

Hello,

I filed for my husband and I sent in copies of the civil documents. He does have to have the originals for his interview which is next month. I did not even use an attorney. I simply read what needed to be submitted from others who had gone through the same procedure and I began to follow that same path with only God ,who is the Alpha and Omega, my husband and myself. I do not know why your lawyer is asking for the original documents knowing that they are being lost everyday that is why they will take the copies during processing but you must present the originals at the interview.

I pray that this helps you.

Be Blessed, JAbumere

This is a normal reaction.It is the feeling of the unknown , the waiting and then finally you have an answer to the lingering question.Now it's what is next? You have nothing to worry about!!! Let go and let God , He will cause for the right things to happen for you. My husband and I felt this same exact way last year this time but now we are waiting on our interview date and as it draws closer we are more excited and anticipating our future together.

Yes we also had this to happen we just sent in what they were requesting and it was added in a matter of two weeks and our case was back on track.