Meant2B

Hi all, 

Sorry 8f this has been asked and answered already. If you've sponsored a spouse on a CR1 visa and never filed the I751 and the CR1 expired a year ago. Are you still financially responsible for them? I did an infopase with USCIS in 2017 notifying them that I don't know the person whereabouts. They said ok just bring copy of divorce decree. Been trying to serve it but they're in the wind so no clue where to find them. I just want to be done with this person once and for all. 

I'd wait,  who knows what Trump will sign next. He's trying to clean house to flex his.muscles. You don't want to be in mid travel when another executive order is signed. See the chaos it's created.  They do randomly check (profiling) for domestic flights. 

I've got to be strong. I've got  daughters and don't want them to think it's okay for a man to use you. He's been calling asking me to buy him a ticket back,  I'm not. He only calls when he wants something. Wherever he's at they must want him gone since no job. He tried to bring up Trumps order,  guess he's fearful since he's only got a passport with expired Visa in it will get him deported. Funny he kept saying Trump was cool when we're all saying not to vote for him lol. I'm not allowing him to use me. I told him I need a man,  not a child who's a user and hung up the phone. Didn't even give him chance to say it's my fault he lied,  cheated,  got caught in it all. He made his bed now he must lie in it. 

You've got to decide if you want to take the chance of her getting her papers and leaving or cut your losses and divorce her. She will tell you anything you want to hear to get her greencard, etc. so Are you willing to take the chance is what you need to ask. You can't delay anything. My spouse lied from the beginning I now know and I am stuck with the liar until I get divorced. Just have to admit you were played for a fool and move on.

Update. The lying scum paid for the greencard and I guess he thought it would be sent where he's at (didn't happen). He calls me from a blocked number after I told him I don't answer those he unblocked it (tried to tell me he has no phone but he's on whatspp and IMO all night long, he blocked me, but I've got other phones I can check with). He now knows and all of a sudden he wants to work things out and come home. Had the nerve to ask me for money, when I said no, then a plane ticket (I'm not doing that). His recent actions solidify the fact that he's after a greencard only.  I reported everything to USCIS but they don't seem to care. The agent I met with in person did tell me that he's flagged in the system so he will have trouble trying to file the I751 alone (it's not due until 2018) since he's flagged for possible fraud. The agent also said they are going to question how he lived with his spouse for less than 4 months and he has nothing showing a bona fide marriage since he got here. He even tried to say he was abused by me (found out that lie won't work since no reports). He had the nerve to tell me I need to make things right (he lied from the start and I'm wrong) and pay for him to return, I didn't get him where he's at so hell no I am not. Let whomever he's with take care of him and his mother (I'm sure he's wearing out his welcome since no income and always need something and his mother always need money since she doesn't work). Even the most genuine person gets tired of taking care of an adult. he said God above sees all and boy I know that's true because he's sure watching him. I was good to him and he did this to me so Karma will handle him. Oh and had the nerve to get mad because I was at lunch with a man when he called, lol. Now I'm just trying to get the money together for the lawyer to get the divorce done so I can be done with the lying scum.

Thank you all. Yes I've got lots of proof and I'm going to make an I forays apps. When I called USCIS the lady wasn't helpful she said to just let it go smh. I also found out yesterday he was trying to get an apt (guess to leave without my knowledge) but it was already rented. The fool can't afford it anyway since he's only working pt. I prefer an annulment so I can just move on with my life. I have also learned from his aunt and cousin he lied about a lot more and his mom seems to cover from him. She had the nerve to as me not to do anything if he'd pay the rest of his fees himself. Screw them all.

Thank you all. Yes I've got lots of proof and I'm going to make an I forays apps. When I called USCIS the lady wasn't helpful she said to just let it go smh. I also found out yesterday he was trying to get an apt (guess to leave without my knowledge) but it was already rented. The fool can't afford it anyway since he's only working pt. I prefer an annulment so I can just move on with my life. I have also learned from his aunt and cousin he lied about a lot more and his mom seems to cover from him. She had the nerve to as me not to do anything if he'd pay the rest of his fees himself. Screw them all.

Thank you all. Yes I've got lots of proof and I'm going to make an I forays apps. When I called USCIS the lady wasn't helpful she said to just let it go smh. I also found out yesterday he was trying to get an apt (guess to leave without my knowledge) but it was already rented. The fool can't afford it anyway since he's only working pt. I prefer an annulment so I can just move on with my life. I have also learned from his aunt and cousin he lied about a lot more and his mom seems to cover from him. She had the nerve to as me not to do anything if he'd pay the rest of his fees himself. Screw them all.

Thank you all. Yes I've got lots of proof and I'm going to make an I forays apps. When I called USCIS the lady wasn't helpful she said to just let it go smh. I also found out yesterday he was trying to get an apt (guess to leave without my knowledge) but it was already rented. The fool can't afford it anyway since he's only working pt. I prefer an annulment so I can just move on with my life. I have also learned from his aunt and cousin he lied about a lot more and his mom seems to cover from him. She had the nerve to as me not to do anything if he'd pay the rest of his fees himself. Screw them all.

Thank you all. Yes I've got lots of proof and I'm going to make an I forays apps. When I called USCIS the lady wasn't helpful she said to just let it go smh. I also found out yesterday he was trying to get an apt (guess to leave without my knowledge) but it was already rented. The fool can't afford it anyway since he's only working pt. I prefer an annulment so I can just move on with my life. I have also learned from his aunt and cousin he lied about a lot more and his mom seems to cover from him. She had the nerve to as me not to do anything if he'd pay the rest of his fees himself. Screw them all.

Hi, not sure where to begin. What can I do to be unhitched from a sorry dog who I now know used me and committed fraud. They are already in the USA but I haven't paid the fee for the visa and sure won't sign for any removal of Conditions. They are here on a CR1 and yes I've got more than enough proof that they were playing a game that can be shown to immigration. Only serious advice, tired of the jokes about this.

Tell the court that if they won't give you the order of protection you want it documented for legal reasons. This way is something happened, your family has proof. Get away from him fast.

Well at least they will know your relationship is real <pun intended> lol Your case should stick out to them for sure, doubt anything you can do now, kinda like the net it's out there it's gone.

First welcome o VJ!

They send emails,not snail mail. I did CR1 and I knew about the appointment before my husband. i got an email before 8am. The did cal him, then me when they didn't get him to advise about physical, etc. Checklist was attached to email I got so I registered DHL,got things together. They must be backed up because all week they've been emailing me someone else info, even after I advised them they are sending someone else case info to me. smh When we went for interview it was super crowded in there. Guess folks getting ready for holiday travels.

Going to bed. Will look again for any responses tomorrow. You guys have a GREAT forum with HUGELY helpful people that have CRITICAL things to share about a RIDICULOUSLY complicated topic. Thanks again for the help I/we have received.

Very happy you found the info. It's a long aggravating process but trust me it's worth it. CR1 takes longer but is cheaper and more beneficial up front (spouse can work). Good luck and keep us informed how it goes. We are all here to help one another as we can create what we re gong through better than those who are not.

It seems like the OP is getting angry with all here for just stating the truth. If OP came here seeking advice on how to lie/fraud USCS they are in the wrong place. Maybe they just need to tighten that noose and earn the hard way with a ban placed upon them for their choices. This is a friendly place where those who have either experienced or know of others whom experienced similar situations to help one anther along on this stressful journey. Just as someone posted we learn from mistakes. Many of us want our spouses with us faster than 1yr but have to deal with the reality we are faced with. I too got married and have to wit 1 yr for my marriage to begin. I saw people get hung up in lies during their embassy interview that made it past NVC only to get bumped down and have to start all over again. One couple was married in USA and failed to disclose but the interviewer had knowledge (not sure how) and they were told they are denied and paperwork being set back to US with some type of ban.

Don't omit they will find it in the background check. The they can be banned and you don't want that. They are doing those checks very thoroughly with ll that's occurred.

It sounds very shaky what you want to do. You said you filed for the marriage license and had ceremony. They may check since she's visited here. Also you are playing with fraud by lying. It seems safer/wiser to just do it legal have the officiant file the paperwork and go for the CR1. Yes it will take longer but you've already done the ceremony and that's the legal way. It seems you are asking us here for advice on fraud and that's a no way. Were you married by a minister, justice of peace (if done in a courthouse, there's definitely a paper/computer record of it)? They keep paperwork so it can come back to bite you later.

Better submit the request now. Time is ticking away fast. Keep us posted how it goes. I'm curious as we want to get mother in law a visitors visa but I'm t sure if it will be approved since she does't work and my husband is her only child. She's got no desires to live in the USA but it looks to me like she's got no ties to go back (if I were the interviewer). But hey you gotta try, you never know.

Check the reviews of your country of those who've had their interviews so you can get an idea of what they will ask. There's no guarantee they'll ask you the same questions. If you know your spouse and have pictures, proof, etc. should be fine. Just be honest and if you don't know something be truthful about it don't panic or lie. My hubby couldn't remember the year I was born but they then asked my age and he knew. So just relax and be honest.

Here's the one I used (mine is currently waiting to be delivered) it's also they they gave when we went for the interview (for those who hadn't registered for DHL yet).

https://ais.usvisa-info.com/en-jm/niv/users/sign_in

It will auto cancel out as they're approved at the same time. I actually did both and got both approvals on the same day s they just filed the 129F away and processed the I130. Hope this helps.

Knowingly overstaying is intent to commit fraud. Just file for K1 and do it legal to prevent any roadblocks down the road.

it depends on the country norms and the interviewer. If your relationship is solid and yo have proof then no worries. I'm older than my husband but the men tend to go after older females in Jamaica from what I've seen. Men date younger woman all of the time. If you were 20+ years then worry 11 yrs doesn't seem like much. i know married folks in the states who have the witht he female being the eldest. Just have your proof, relax and you'll be fine.

It sounds like you are seeing revenge. If you've divorced him then it's just time to move on. Nothing immigration can do. It sounds like he's living his life so you should try to do the same. If he was as bad as you say then you are lucky he's someone else problem now.

I went to my husband interview and it made a huge difference. He got his approval with oe question and she said we were her favorite couple!

Just jumped on to say interview at Embassy in Kingston was long but went well. Not sure if I had the one everyone talks about but went to window 8 and she said we were her favorite couple of the day. Approved pick up visa monday. Bring DH home finally! !!! Will review when I reach stateside!

Just jumped on to say interview at Embassy in Kingston was long but went well. Not sure if I had the one everyone talks about but went to window 8 and she said we were her favorite couple of the day. Approved pick up visa monday. Bring DH home finally! !!! Will review when I reach stateside!

Just jumped on to say interview at Embassy in Kingston was long but went well. Not sure if I had the one everyone talks about but went to window 8 and she said we were her favorite couple of the day. Approved pick up visa monday. Bring DH home finally! !!! Will review when I reach stateside!

You can but it will get approved the same time as the I130 for the CR1/IR and then just go away. They don't use them at the moment since they've been processing the I130 within time frame.

Congrats to all who will have interviews in August. I've got 14 days until ours yeah! So ready to bring him home.