Jjbarlow74

Hi Everyone
Here we go. I met my wife thru family friends in Vietnam in 2013. We married in Vietnam In 2014. I traveled back to Vietnam in 2015 to go with her to the us embassy interview. I haven't had many relationships (I'm shy). So I thought her lack of attention to me was just how Vietnamese women are. I was told by people that the Vietnamese do not show much affection. I thought as time went on she would get more affectionate. She would never initiate sex.
Well she arrived in the US 17 days ago and her attitude had not changed. She was always on the phone with whom I believe to be her relatives that live in a different city. She spent more time on the phone with them than she did with me. After 2-3 days she got a cold and I tried to take care of her the best I could. This cold persisted for 6-7 days until she said she was feeling better. Well I was leaving the next morning for work. 2 days later I had 3 beers and was texting my wife. We had an argument. It escalated quickly to where we both agreed she would go back to Vietnam. The next day after I was of clear mind she was still adamant about going home. So we bought her a ticket and my mother took her to the airport. My mother got a pass to go to the gate to help her. My Morher said she went on the plane but then tried to get off but it was too late. Later that night my mother had a visitor who wanted to know if my wife had gotten on the plane. Turns out this lady was at the airport waiting to pick up my wife. My wife was not going to get on the plane But she didn't expect my mother to go to the gate with her. I did not know my wife knew anybody in my city. They are friends of her relatives that live in another city I found out later. Since my mother had the confirmation number I tracked her luggage and it said when she got to her 1st stop that the luggage was diverted to a plane coming back here.
Now I am thinking that she was planning on leaving me to stay with these people all along. I found out that she was complaining to her relatives about me. I came home early from work because now I am very worried about what is going on. What is she up too. Since I knew the flight she was on I went to the airport and there she was with the family I assume will be helping her out. I went up to her and said "hi honey" and she looked shocked. She gave me the cold shoulder and then I was walking away and the police stopped me. Said something about a possible domestic so they had me wait until a Vietnamese translator arrived. We had always mostly communicated on Viber. I was paying her to go to English class in Vietnam but her English was still bad. There must have been 9-10 police and also a customs agent there. I thought I was going to be arrested. But they let me go. The cop said to not make contact with her.
So as I look back in the past there are many things that happened that should have been a red flag but I wanted this so badly. I am worried she is going to get a restraining order and claim abuse maybe to stay in the US and make my life hell. Her SS card just arrived but as far as I know her conditional green card has not. In May we will have been married for 2 years.
I think I need to get a divorce lawyer and contact ICE and USCIS about marriage fraud. Anybody have any advice? Thanks