jessiepatt

Nice comment. Very nice.

Thank you, so very much, Kathryn41. What you wrote is pretty much the sense I have. Has been making my head spin! We have a common Christian faith, love of music, children, and close family relations. That could be a good place to start. Proving our relationship is real? That seems so odd and vague to me. Love IS what we are experiencing, but love is sort of an invisible spirit. So that's why any and all advise is so helpful right now. Thanks again.

So...gotta go back, cause I surely cannot change our age gap!

You guys rock. THANK YOU!!! I'm breathing a sigh of relief and I really appreciate the great explanation, especially your clear technical definition, Eboluwa! ?????

(sorry, I meant Ebunoluwa)

The financial burden is on me. It is an opportunity of a lifetime for both of us, in different ways, but I'm just not sure how to proceed. Prayers are in order, decisions are to be made. For sure...this forum is enlightening and has opened a shelf full of canned worms! ? In God's time, I pray - in God's will, I strive.

Another visit, it seems is the hot topic! YAY!!!! Now I have more than just my aching whining to speak to him about!!! Sharon&josh