Humble bee

And how do you think she does that without a car, money, or any resources whatsoever? This is a classic forced-dependency situation. He doesn't want her to be independent. If she wasn't interested in working at all, I might be singing the same tune as you. But when the husband actively prevents her from getting employed or otherwise bettering herself, alimony is warranted. That's partly why alimony exists. Her requests are totally reasonable. A little pocket money while he spends money going to a bachelor party? Give me a break. If money was tight, he wouldn't be traveling to a bachelor party and going to bars.
If my future wife asked for something, and I told her we couldn't afford it right now - well that's one thing. If she asks for something and I say no, but I'll by myself a gift instead - well, that's another.
It's a pretty negative outlook on marriage when the breadwinner gets to do as he pleases and the woman has to sit at home alone, with no friends, no transportation, and no means of caring for herself.

You filed just over a month ago, and you are being processed at the CSC. You need not be stressed. Some have been waiting 8 months for an approval you will get any time now.

Terri. I'm going to be real with you.
Granted you may not like a single thing I'm going to say here, but here goes.
I don't really care if your story is legit or fake, okay? I'm not one to question whom one falls in love with and the differences they may encounter.
You have consistently posted misleading and evasively contradictory statements. As this is a site where people generally care about each other and want to help: there are things that YOU need to clear up or this will not continue in a positive manner. Help people help you. Or don't. If you don't then no one will be able to help you or continue taking you seriously.
I can guarantee to you, that the United States government does not care one iota about your hardships or difficulty, how good you think your photos are (real or photoshopped), or the circumstances regarding why you can't be in the same room or have to stand below a balcony with a person you say you want to be your husband. They don't care about roses or towels or love stories. They do not care how much you think you love him and how much you think you can make this work. They don't even care about the money you sent with your application either.
What they care about is fraud, people becoming a burden to their system, and the protection of their citizens.
Under the theme of fraud - many things you have stated raise red flags. Severe red flags, that I don't believe a person viewing your petition would be able to overcome positively without more information. Reality can be painful and harsh, but that's the way things are. The people who have sent petitions in here, and have been waiting for months and years to be with their loved ones, they have endured extreme hardships, painful separations, differences in cultures, and scrutiny. Don't think for a second that people don't understand the reality of hardship, because they do. This is something we take seriously. No one here wants to be hostile with you, but you're making it impossible for a person not to react that way.
I've had my say now, and I think what I've said is fairly reasonable and polite, if you are willing to calm down and actually start answering questions that do in fact pertain to if your case will be successful or not. Because trust me, it isn't about who's uncle ran off with whom right now, or even religious differences that you even need to be concerned about at the top of the list -- it's a whole host of other things. As it stands now, there is a high likelihood your case will not be successful. Sorry, but that's how life is.

While the TSC is a joyous experience for all, we shouldn't forget about the lucky ones who receive an RFE. Remember- this is a golden opportunity to either ignore USCIS' request, or just send them a reply thanking them for all the bliss they've given you so far. If you treat them right, they'll deny your petition, and you can re-file to start the experience again from the beginning!

Your comment bashing Chinese Nationals and other foreigners is small minded and against TOS.
This is an immigration site and nobody will stop their petition because you failed to adequately understand the culture of your wife.
I have not read one thing that says she scammed you, you had a big fight about her son moving in which should have been discussed
and agreed upon but to not picking him up from the airport and her walking in the cold to pick him up is lack of responsibility on your part
and plain childish.
YOU should never again marry a foreigner, because YOU don't get it.
Was I scammed before ? Yes, by Americans ! I am also a naturalized citizen and take it as an insult for you to say don't marry a foreigner.
Be accountable for your own poor choices and stop generalizing and stereotyping.
You should make sure your communication skills match that of your spouse when you chose one or have the patience to work on it with her
and understand the culture that comes into play.

yuna628 is being polite. They really mean FAR, FAR, FAR, FAR slower than CSC.