little white guy

you seem a little sensitive to me ..maybe, you need to seek some help instead of throwing out slams at others.....no charge...dr. dean

Realy..So you dont mind a jerk making fun of something you say right?..

It would seem mr. pampers and almaty were born from the same breed.

Completly brainless, no common sense, no brain whatsoever..

Slams get thrown to those who are stupied enough to give them.

It's clear you types cannot reason..Your best bet is to deligate

all thoughts no matter how simple to someone other than you.

Also you do need to understand that (words mean things).....

And what you say just might need to be explained further.

In a real way..Don't put words you can't back up.

Easy to type much harder to back up what you say..

You clowns are all the same, make sure you slig your #######

to someone that dont care what you spit out................

Just might find one you need to answer to.

(ONE) great big woman

I'd hide this description from your wifey........

Ah come on..It means great respect for her..

And yes she is the brains of our little family.

Extremly smart woman with a family in

China welcomed me with open arms and

a whole lot of the best home cooked food

full of love any man ever had..Picture urself

in another country be you man or woman.

Maybe it's ur 1st time ya even left the state

you live in..Off you go to a place you have

only seen on a tv or heard about on from

your .gov..You don't know what to expect,

all you know is this one person..........

On your flight you take in everyting around

you, take in people on your way in a plane

you have never seen face to face........

Everything is new to many of us, even simple

things like a couple hours waiting for ur next

flight in another country if you take the time

to see it for real it's not a get pissed off cause

your flight is delayed..It's just like your flight

up to this point..A time to experence life and

people from some where other than (mytown)

USA..Think about it, why would jokes be made

about what happens to you or others in real

life..I think it would crush you as a person to

have something you said from your heart joked

about.....................................................

I am sorry I go from one thought to another,

sometimes it's hard to (stay within the norm).

Fact is if anyone finds a need to joke about

the hell we are going through book a spot

in ur local comedy club..........................

I know i'm not alone in saying somehow, someway,

in my case no not on a date site, I found my better

half 8,000 miles away...Nothing more than pretty

much nothing.More or less one of a few billion normal

people never even knew anything but the state we

live in..One day for whatever reason we find ourself

leaving to experence a world we only knew from a

tv..When you set your feet in this new world, what

did you see?...What was going through your mind?

When your wife or husband said (I have a surprise

for you), what did you think?..I am a man yes but

all I knew was my sweet Amy, thats all I knew..

So without saying this yep (big woman) is my guide.

All my trust is placed in her, what more can you do?

My wife I guess is not what many call an average woman.

She built a very good life of her own, she has not needed

me for $, She is real in the dollar sense, and I envy her.

How proud of her, the life she made for herself in China

I can't find words to say..................................

Somehow, some way find that one person you might

never even wanted to find, but one day you did...........

Find yourself leaving a very small world you know for

a place you thought you would never know, a woman

or a man you thought was only a dream................

When you get there find yourself surprised by her

or his family with open arms, even before you

get there you are loved..My wifes family is very poor,

Wifes dad (my dad) lived through more than any of us

can even understand..These people only knowing me

from my sweet wife from the second we walked up

5 floors in X'ian made me feel like some kinda king.

All I could think was why?..I am not worthy of this..

I am nothing specail, to me you are, please don't

see me this way. it's me that has this honor.........

Understand this, my dad in China lived through

the cultrural revaltion how ever its spelled, he has

spent most of his life not able to do much of anything

for his self for many many years..Once he even knew

english back when japan invaded china..(see your history)

My wifes dad is in his 80's now, mom and dad have seen

and lived more than most of us will ever know.

What in gods name gives you and Mr. Pampers any

right at all to uter one word...............................

Make a joke without any thought or a god given

thing called common sense expect to be questioned.

Your (big woman) quote made no sense........

As a woman what was meant you should have known..

That split pumpkin, dang what can I say............

As far as fancypants..You have no problem filling

your pampers just how full of sh7654t you are...

Seems ur small lifes full of putdowns, bashing and

general typical just plan #######..Not seen you type

Dr. Laura or Dr. Phil yet..Maybe you should consulate

with a pro, whatever political view

I hope to soon mail in my I-130 for my Dominican spouse, and would appreciate some help with a particular issue: Documents needed to prove a family relationship (in this case, marriage). My concern relates to the "additional evidence" of the bona fides of the marital relationship, some examples being documentation of joint ownership of property, joint tenancy of a residence, or co-mingling of financial resources. We have none of these things, although some are in the works. I obtained two notarized affidavits (example I. of this question on the I-130) from people with knowledge of the marital relationship during my most recent trip to the Dominican, but I am concerned that this is not enough. Example J. on the form includes "any other relevant documentation" establishing the union; what are some examples of this?

Are the affidavits, in addition to the required evidence (marriage certificate, photos, etc.) sufficient? What are some other things I might be able to include? Thank you!

Other things could be like if she was on your life insurance or in a will, or basically any official thing a married couple might have together. But you should be fine with the two affidavits. There quite a lot of people who have ignored that section of the instructions and not had any problems at all. Also, they realise when the couple doesn't live in the same country or have children, there isn't much to show yet. So, don't sweat it!

So true..Don't sweat it...1st get into all this .gov lingo it does look complicated..

Add to don't sweat it, don't be a bundle of nerves..Take time to realy read the

instructions..Something don't make sense ask it here..So many caring people

on this site I have seen..Many of us has found that interview day is the day

all you have would be best to bring, pictures, letters, emails, im's..etc...........

Even then can't be sure what the person will ask to see..Maybe just simple

things like how did you meet?..What does he do for a living?..How old

is he/she..Other than that might not even take hard look at other things..

Just wanted to say hello to everyone my Fiancee has been here one week now and its has been just great to have her next to me after seven months. Her POE was Detroit and everything went great even with 1hour 45 min connection to Hartfort, Conn. So Just wanted to say thank you to everyone here that posted information to help guide us through the long tough immigration process. Her smile is forever imprinted in my mind when I saw her get off the airplane.

Thanks Everyone.

That POE day is heaven on earth.

No way to put in words that moment

in time..Just no way...................

Sincere Congradulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry bad spell...Conradu..aw heck you know

Just wanted to say hello to everyone my Fiancee has been here one week now and its has been just great to have her next to me after seven months. Her POE was Detroit and everything went great even with 1hour 45 min connection to Hartfort, Conn. So Just wanted to say thank you to everyone here that posted information to help guide us through the long tough immigration process. Her smile is forever imprinted in my mind when I saw her get off the airplane.

Thanks Everyone.

That POE day is heaven on earth.

No way to put in words that moment

in time..Just no way...................

Sincere Congradulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hope to soon mail in my I-130 for my Dominican spouse, and would appreciate some help with a particular issue: Documents needed to prove a family relationship (in this case, marriage). My concern relates to the "additional evidence" of the bona fides of the marital relationship, some examples being documentation of joint ownership of property, joint tenancy of a residence, or co-mingling of financial resources. We have none of these things, although some are in the works. I obtained two notarized affidavits (example I. of this question on the I-130) from people with knowledge of the marital relationship during my most recent trip to the Dominican, but I am concerned that this is not enough. Example J. on the form includes "any other relevant documentation" establishing the union; what are some examples of this?

Are the affidavits, in addition to the required evidence (marriage certificate, photos, etc.) sufficient? What are some other things I might be able to include? Thank you!

I just sent in the certifided copy of our marriage licence and that was it there were no questions

True..What they realy want is legal proof of marriage.

If one of you has been married before make sure to

include the divorce cert..Other than the basics thats all for now.

See the instructuions for I-130 under

"What documents do you need to prove family relationship"

1. A husband or wife, submit the following documentation.

A...................

B...................

C..................

D..Etc...etc....

As far as the proof part thats all ya need for now

Our case was a lot more complicated than yours (I won't go into detail). We did it all by ourselves, and were approved one month ago.

If you're more or less educated, and can read and pay attention to detail, there is no reason for you not to be able to file successfully without outside help. Information is available to everybody - the same information that is available to lawyers. There is no reason why you couldn't take advantage of it as efficiently, if not more so, to help your case than someone who has less personal interest vested in its successful outcome

I have decided to go with hiring a lawyer, although it is so costly and i feel quite suspicious everytime i speak to one. However, i feel my case is complicated as my fiance is illegal in the country i met him in (UK) - illegal from beginning to end (got smuggled in the back of a lorry type of illegal, fake documents - the whole shebang). My initial consultations with attorneys seemed to me that his status in another country doesn't really matter, especially if he will be doing the interview in his native country, but i still think that gathering the necessary information might be tricky because of his status in the UK. Our relationship has been going on and strong for three years, so there is no problem proving it. The problem is that it occured in a country he was staying illegally. And we plan on being completely honest with all of this information during the process, so i would prefer to have the backing of someone who at least knows better than me.

Anybody have any comments? Lawyer or no lawyer? any good ones to recommend? I might be going with John F Roth http://www.arctec.com/. $1800 (expensive!) but he refunds your money if you dont get the visa (provided you were up front and legitimate with all the information) which i believe is a good sign and deal, especially since he is about 2x as expensive as anybody else.

Exactly right!!!!!!!!!!!

Takes a little effort but the best

lawyer is yourself..A www connection

and common sense is all ya need

Hi

Some of you may know about our case, im about to fill in my timeline once I gather all my info. Here is my older post. To some it up, I'm from Ireland visiting Canada so I can be with my wife, she is visiting me in Canada. We hired a bad laywer in December 06 (didn't know he was bad at the time) to apply for CR1 visa for us. He said we can have our interview in Canada, but I have since learned that it has to be in my home country. The lawyer already made mistakes on documents sent to the NVC, during the summer, delaying us about 2 months. We took over the lawyers work in September and got the NVC to transfer our case to Ireland. The lawyer has done nothing since September, we have been the ones calling the NVC and the embassy in Ireland (at 5am in the morning) for weeks to get this all sorted out. All the lawyer was doing was calling Montreal, who never had our case, to try to get them to move it to Ireland. Plus as far as I know you cannot call Montreal.

After alot of international phone calls, very late nights and emails we have finally got the interview scheduled in Ireland for November. I have paid the lawyer loads of money for this CR1 visa application (which they have made a mess of) , also paid him twice to get my Canadian visa extented.

I informed the lawyer that our interview is scheduled and they replied "Oh good, so Montreal got my voicemails and faxes" ??? . Since I informed them of the interview, last week, I have got a new bill from them for $500. This is for stationary stuff, photocopies, certified copies of certificates (birth, marriage etc), and faxes. I have got more communication from the in the past week (asking me to come seem them to settle the bill) than I have for the whole year.

I am outraged and p*ssed off. I will be reporting them to every company and association I can think off so people can stay away from them.

I need help now, I'm gathering all my information together and need proof and documents etc. Where can I find some information (preferably on a US government website) that states 3rd country nationals, such as myself, cannot have their cases pending in another country? In other words, something official that states cases and interviews for US spousal visas can only be processed in the beneficiaries home country.

All help is greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Is this lawyer in Canada?

There should be a .org or something

like that (it) should have to answer to.

The truth was always known to me as far as a government can not define each individual person, nor can the media.

The world is too complex to stereotype humanity through media or perceived media or politics.

Everyone marches to the beat of a different drum, even when put under the umbrella of prejudice by people who like to stereotype and fit countries in their own little box.

Here ya loud and clear.

Seems some were not born

with common sense, the

ability to think outside that

box..Make a joke about what

we are dealing with to be with

our loved one's..Very small mind

is what they have, if any at all.

Yes what you said makes sense. I think. I think you are saying that you once had a certain vision of China based on media, etc., until you met your SO. Now you can see there's so much more to the people of the country beyond the government.

I agree, but I suppose I've always viewed things that way. I'm a card-carrying member of Amnesty International and have been since the Nelson Mandela, apartheid days. I lived in Spain for 5 or 6 years, and all over the United States, as well as visiting South America, Europe, UK/Ireland, Canada. I've also taught students from all over the world. So I've seen firsthand that people are not their governments and they are not stereotypical in many cases (though, sadly, some people do live up to their unflattering stereotypes).

I think most people here are open-minded about other cultures or we wouldn't be here.

Yes, but not just China.You, me and people on this site have had a chance to see

for ourselves what other people from other countries realy are like..

It's sad most people in this country as well as other countries form thier thoughts

around the tv news or what thier .gov said..Realy don't understand whats

in some peoples mind..Wal-Mart has real cheap poop scoops..

Not good with words, hope makes a little sense

Nope. How about just posting pictures instead?

Seems them pants must be full of something

I keep thinking how many of us little humans cut on the

tv news and here all the ####### this .gov said about another

.gov said..Or what your countries .gov said about this

.gov..One thing that keeps coming to my mind is all us

little humans out here are the majority and the truth is

they are few but hold you and me in thier grip..............

Maybe I to had a one tract mind about little humans in

other countries before (ONE) great big woman in a bad

country called (CHINA) re-wrote everything I've been

trained to think from my tv news and my .gov...........

How has your better half (wifey) (hubby) re-trained

in a way how you see all those little humans you have

now got to know for yourself?..How much different do

you see yourself now..Or was the truth always known

to you?..Just needed 1 specail person show the way.

Not good with words, hope makes a little sense

Thank you supernova.. =) I will celebrate your approvals too... Congraulations on your approvals!!.. You will be able to see your loved one soon... I hear the NVC trip now takes 5-6 weeks just to get there??.. At least you can prepare your Packet 3 now... I wish everyone a good reunion soon!!

Gogo, ur a bundle of nerves..1st ur wifey is from China.

Not exactly a favored country, for us it may take a little

more time..Matters not what anyone says the country

can make a difference..My sweet china (real woman)

was even able to come here 1st and we married....

Since then I've been there 6 times for the same reason

as you, just can't live without her..She is here know yes

but we spent two years in hell apart, even now we are

still caught in this dhs trap..Theres nothing we can do

to make this wait faster, it's .gov not much we can do

but find our own way to deal with time..Have you

heard of (italkbb)?..My wife and her family can call

and talk all they want..Only cost 25 bucks a month.

Need a broadband connection but ya get a dedicated

chinese phone number wifey could wake ya up at 3am

when she misses you and won't cost her a dime.

Take it easy man, we know it's hard...........

The grounds you've cited for annulment don't apply. You were an adult, and unless you were coerced or non compos mentis then you did so of free will.

If you are outside the US at this time, how do you figure the out-of-status time will play out?

My parents went to the USCIS office and they told her I had to fill out an I-824 and my I-130 status is still approved.

What country are you in right now? My understanding is that with the approved I-130, you would still be subject to the availability of a visa. Have you checked to see if the visa priority date is current?

I'm in Mexico. How do I check to see i the visa priority date is current? The way I know that it was approved is by the case status online at USCIS.com. It only states when it was approved in 1998 and it was updated in 2002 (based on my online filing account at USCIS) so I'm not sure what the expiration date it might have, does an I-130 have an expiration date? My mother went to the USCIS office in the states and they had her file for an I-824 to request copies of the approved I-130.

You say you are intent on following through with your family-based petition by way of your father's petition, rather than a marriage-based one, and that is due to the fact that your marriage, by your own admission is not viable and you are headed towards divorce. I think, unless my information is not accurate, if your father petitioned for you as an LPR (even if he subsequently upgraded the petition once he became a US citizen) you're considered Third Preference category, since you have married and are over 21 years of age. So, according to the bulletion issued by the Department of State, you've got quite a wait. The current priority date is 08JUN92 for Mexico. Of course, you should confer with an immigration specialist, since we don't know all of the details that might be pertinent. I'm inclined to believe that it would be wise to confer with an immigration attorney to ask if any time spent in the USA over 180 days could possible cause a bar to admissibility.

Other parts not sure of.

One thing you can count on is yes a divorce is

your path..You must do it in the state you married in.

If you don't and try to file with dhs in the future your

marriage (divorce) will be known.........................

One thing am not sure about is does dhs check records

in all states, the 1st address you gave them yes they do

check local records, county records and state.

Yes, put your SSN on any and all forms that ask for it. Its yours for life.

Usually most folks can do the paperwork on their own and don't need a lawyer. If you have no criminal record, and no other circumstances that would require legal attention, the paperwork is fairly straightforward. Save your money for something else. Like a root canal. Way more fun than a lawyer!

Hey Reba..Have ya heared of a law firm here in raleigh

called Cheatem & Cheatem?.................................

No joke was one here called that, not sure if they got

bonked or not but its no joke

Yes, put your SSN on any and all forms that ask for it. Its yours for life.

Usually most folks can do the paperwork on their own and don't need a lawyer. If you have no criminal record, and no other circumstances that would require legal attention, the paperwork is fairly straightforward. Save your money for something else. Like a root canal. Way more fun than a lawyer!

Lawyers are really a waste of time unless you need one. They file the same paperwork using the same process as everyone else who files without using a lawyer does. Additionally, cases with lawyers don't get any special or preferential treatment by USCIS. So basically, unless you have a special legal need (i.e. overstayed visa, criminal record, deportation) then the paperwork and instructions are all pretty self explanatory

Yup..Not sure whats worst that root canal or 1-800-if-ur-hurt

Either way it be a pain in the butt.

If anyone can help on this I will be so grateful.....

I am a UK citizen married my US wife in UK in July 2004. I have recently entered US on K3 spousal visa and been issued with I94.

We were led to believe that I could work as soon as I entered the US. My wife is a singer / actress.

I need to be working immediately..... I have now been told that I have to file my AOS and EAD and it will take upto 90 days for this to go through.

Can anyone advise if there is a way that I can get EAD very quickly?

How long does this process REALLY take....???

If I cannot sort something out very soon my wife and I will have to seperate and I will have to return to the UK to work. With a K3 being a "one entry only" visa I do not know if our marriage will survive the time it will take to re apply....

Please, PLEASE, if someone can help me out here we are in urgent need of help

Thanks in advance

Richard

We just filed for EAD without an approved P2 for I-130

Even went through Biometrics just to be denied..........

Reason given was no approved I-130 for K3.......

K-3 is a pain in the ASH on many levels. What is the hold up on the I-130?

little white guy where is your timeline? Curoious as to your timeline. Yours: http://www.visajourney.com/timeline/profile.php?id=20268

Hey Dan...Remember ya from CFL.

Scotty had timeline beamed up,

transporter seems was a bad day,

DNA got sent to the Borg so its kinda

like here I sit broken hearted, came to

s*&(t but only farted.......................

Hey have ya seen that ice road trucker show?

If anyone can help on this I will be so grateful.....

I am a UK citizen married my US wife in UK in July 2004. I have recently entered US on K3 spousal visa and been issued with I94.

We were led to believe that I could work as soon as I entered the US. My wife is a singer / actress.

I need to be working immediately..... I have now been told that I have to file my AOS and EAD and it will take upto 90 days for this to go through.

Can anyone advise if there is a way that I can get EAD very quickly?

How long does this process REALLY take....???

If I cannot sort something out very soon my wife and I will have to seperate and I will have to return to the UK to work. With a K3 being a "one entry only" visa I do not know if our marriage will survive the time it will take to re apply....

Please, PLEASE, if someone can help me out here we are in urgent need of help

Thanks in advance

Richard

We just filed for EAD without an approved P2 for I-130

Even went through Biometrics just to be denied..........

Reason given was no approved I-130 for K3.......

I filed the I-130 for my wife back in June and then the I-129F in late June. The I-130 has not been touched since June 19th and the I-129F has not been touched since August 1st. I'm concerned because I am supposed to go home on R&R in January. I want to travel to Colombia and fly back home with her, because she has not yet met my family. Does anyone think that she could realistically get her visa by the end of January?

Has anyone else filing in June received an NOA2 or had their paperwork touched recently? I thought she would have it no later than November or December. Now I am getting nervous. I have not seen my wife since May, and I want to spend what little time I have with in January having fun, relaxing, and introducing her to my family.

Also has anyone called the Military line at USCIS and received any helpful information or even talked to an actual person there? Can the process be sped up in any way?

I know I have a lot of questions, but like I said I'm getting a little nervous and crunched for time.

Thanks for any help.

Ur a bundle of nerves right?..Even us (old folks) in this mess feel the same way,

we just find our own way to try and deal with it..One thing we know is unless ur

GW Bush theres not much can do but find ur way to deal with the time it takes.

The best way for me to deal with this s#$%^t is to see it as a very small amount

of time considering how long it took to find this treasure, gods gift if u will..

Someone many humans never find..In this we do whatever it takes, no matter

what the cost or the time it takes..We didn't find our soul mate next door so since

our individual wants and needs don't matter to whatever .gov we have to answer

to our life in this is ruled by them, not much other choice we can do but find our

own way to deal with this.........Not that it matters but with my wife 8,000 miles

away told me one night on yahoo..I am scared man, sometimes I dream and

even awake think I will grow old and die alone without you..........................

Don't let these thoughts way on ur or her mind..Always be positive for you

and her..Chill out man.....You two have many out here exactly like you

Hi all,

I'm about to leave for the US within a month.

I'm just curious:

Once me and my fiancee are married, do I get some kind of ID to proof that I'm no longer there as a fiancé? I know getting the greencard after the AOS is filed can take quite some time, so what do I have to carry on me to prove that's I'm in the US legally?

My Dutch passport only has the K-1 visa in it, so that doesn't prove anything beyond being a fiancé.

Thanks

True, your i-94 and visa covers you, follow the K1 guide for the rest.

As far as an ID contact the state divison of motor vehiches, whatever

its called there..In this state thats what its called..What you need

for a picture id you can find it there, each state is different in this

so get the phone book or find ur states web page

Sorry but unless each state has thier own law about getting an SSN,

You will be told at ur local SSN office an EAD has to be appiled for

1st..Just make a phone call or go in person to them, thats always

the best way

Hi all,

I'm about to leave for the US within a month.

I'm just curious:

Once me and my fiancee are married, do I get some kind of ID to proof that I'm no longer there as a fiancé? I know getting the greencard after the AOS is filed can take quite some time, so what do I have to carry on me to prove that's I'm in the US legally?

My Dutch passport only has the K-1 visa in it, so that doesn't prove anything beyond being a fiancé.

Thanks

True, your i-94 and visa covers you, follow the K1 guide for the rest.

As far as an ID contact the state divison of motor vehiches, whatever

its called there..In this state thats what its called..What you need

for a picture id you can find it there, each state is different in this

so get the phone book or find ur states web page

Okay...so here's a bit of a weird situation that my good friend is in and I told her that I would throw the scenario out to all my fellow VJ'ers because you guys are amazing with knowing all the in's and out's of this immigration process.

She married a guy in Central America and lived with him for awhile down there. Things turned out bad and she decided to come back home in the U.S. He ended up coming over the the U.S. without ever talking to her about it and just sort of showed up. He snuck in so he came across illegally. My friend does not want to be with him but he just won't go away. He's desperately trying to get her back and fix the relationship but she is just over it. So now, she doesn't know what to do. The local authorities don't do anything about illegal immigrants in our area and she doesn't know who else to turn to. Can you just call somebody up? I mean, people won't just come over and pay for someone to go back where they came from...right?

Anyways...if you have any questions, please ask and I'll try to get them answered if I don't know the answer already. I know a lot about their past but not everything. He's from Guatemala and she lives nearby me in South Texas. I'd love to pass along some better and more informed advice to her, so if you can help out...I know it would be appreciated.

Thanks a bunch!

Sounds like Days of our Lives, Young and the Restless.

So he pops up here on what type of visa?..Or is that

required south of the border?..What state is this don't

know what to do with illegals?..Harrasment?..Abuse?

If this is true tell her to call her local county Health

Department, Social Services someone there can take

it to another level..Has to be reality though.

Banks in two different states have helped me set up joint checking accounts with my wife, even though she isn't here yet. Both have issued ATM cards that she uses that have her name (not mine) on them. If your bank won't cooperate with you to set up joint accounts, then find a cooperative bank -- perhaps near a University near you, and move your banking there.

Both banks required the picture page of my wife's passport for identification. My SSN was good enough for tax purposes, especially since those checking accts didn't earn interest anyway! My current bank was even savvy to help us fill out the required IRS forms so that she can be joint on interest-bearing accounts even though she doesn't have a SSN or ITN yet. Banks are there to provide service in exchange for your lending money to them -- that is what checking and savings accounts are, after all. Find one that serves you.

Thanks - I've had a checking account with Citibank for the last 7 years, hopefully they will work something out with me, will go and ask. They even have a branch with limited service in Kathmandu, near the old US Embassy - something I found out when an ATM machine ate my card last summer.

Pushbrk & Laura are 100% right, don not for any reason tell an un-truth no matter

how small it may seem, it can and will come back to haunt you..........................

As far as evidence goes say what ya will legal paper work (95%of the time)+/-.

On interview day is the major concern (from your country as well as his)..

Maybe I'm wrong in this but from all I've seen and gone through evidence

is of course a factor so bring it all..Legal Documents and simple things like

questions at the interview appear to matter the most..Yes it seem questions

that are asked at interviews even though they have a guideline can depend

on what side of the bed that COF woke up on that day..No one can say that

is not a factor, it is..Be yourself,make sure he knows to be as none nervous

as he can..Make sure he knows things about you that ya would never think

of, ie....whats her favorite food?..Whats her favorite hobby?..Where does she work?..

Do you own or rent?...What about her parents?..How did you two meet?........

Well, you get the picture right?

Make sure when ur hubby walks in that room he is his self, not a bundle of nerves.

(COF)....ur interview guy or gal

Thank you all for the Congrats, and thank you edp333 for noting the timeline and noticing our 1st anniversary is 3 days after we return to the USA. And, yes Mrs. Scott, I sleep much better now. Your husband's interview will be soon. Good luck to you!! November is a very good month!

David, Make sure you two leave real early if interview is AM.

Gz traffic is a mess depending on how far away you guys

are from consulate, theres a very nice park across the road

can hang out in, also an IKEA can eye shop and get food also.

Have a wonderful time, treasure every minute

Don't know where to post this so do it here.

Wife filed for EAD, AOS not yet filed for, I-130

still in the works..Online case status says..

(we mailed you a decsion)..................

Be a couple days before it gets here and

right now shes in tears thinking its denied..

I know don't know for sure yet but has anyone

been denied this?..For what reason?...

Sorry guess I jumped the gun.

To give up is not an option for me.

But guess thats how's gonna be...

1st time ever felt old & so tired..

Wish everyone here godspeed..

Wish you all everything LOVE

Should mean.My time to give up

now..Never knew this feeling till this day.

Some words from a song play in mind now..

Forgot my woman, lost my friends things

i've done and where i've been........

I sleep in sweat, the mirrors cold see my face

it's growing old, Am scared to death but have

no reason why..I just want to go home..

Thanks all