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I'd rather be responsible of my own mistakes than have to blame a third person for doing something wrong. Yes, there are good lawyers but there definitely are bad lawyers - communication is the key.. Also, I do not need to spend any more money in this whole process than what is necessary and hey, I can also allow myself to be proud of my capabilities - I'm technically doing what a lawyer is, and so far it's been going smooth!

People keep saying if you love her...#######,marriage is not just about if YOU love someone, but if the person loves you and respects you as well. In my opinion she is using you big time.We are our choices, you can embrace to be used as a bank or kick her out of your life.It's your call.

Yes you can

My husband asked the same thing when we went through the K-1 process. I didn't get many responses (http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/451793-with-a-k-1-visa-in-process-can-you-also-put-your-name-in-the-diversity-lottery/#entry6483537). We had been waiting a long time, and he wanted to speed up the process...plus he felt he'd get a green card faster and he wouldn't potentially be as big of a burden on me if he secured the diversity visa. I think he ended up applying but wasn't selected. He's now been here a little over a year, and we still wait for the elusive green card .