NH.90

THANK YOU !

I felt the need to clarify all these points, because you do not know who I am, or the facts which is because I haven't given them all.
I was the only person who supported him when he told me about his gender issues, even when it broke my heart to do so. I always wanted him to be happy.
I DID NOT attempt at all to teach my daughter the word Daddy, we were watching a TV show and someone was teaching a baby and he suddenly turned to look at me very angry and told me ''DON;T YOU DARE TO TEACH MY DAUGHTER THAT WORD''
He laughs at me and tells me that the man I fell in love with was a lie, that he never existed. Laughing while saying something like this, is CRUEL.
You are speaking of me as if I haven't researched anything about his transgender issues, you do not know how far I've gone to help him deal, to be there for him. I am only using male pronouns here to not confuse people, but I respect who he wants to become. I am not a close-minded brat, like you are making me feel. I have endured the worst of treatments, every morning I wake up (after having been awoken by baby 2 times at night) and I make him breakfast (when we have food in the fridge,which at the moment we don't) , I have the clothes ready and his make up on place and everything that he might need to get ready and he still is mad at me every morning and always finds something to yell at me for.
I am sorry that he had the parents he had, because they never left him express himself, I am not against what he is doing, is his treatment of me, that you might not consider abusive, but believe me, having lived like this for as long as I have, is not easy.

I would never use his gender reassignment as the grounds for the divorce, it's the abuse that kills me. I have texts of him being abusive. This is not about his sexual orientation, is about the emotional torture.

But I'm not an american citizen and I'm afraid what he would do when he finds out I hired a lawyer.
Are you serious? Did you read the whole thing?

I felt the need to clarify all these points, because you do not know who I am, or the facts which is because I haven't given them all.
I was the only person who supported him when he told me about his gender issues, even when it broke my heart to do so. I always wanted him to be happy.
I DID NOT attempt at all to teach my daughter the word Daddy, we were watching a TV show and someone was teaching a baby and he suddenly turned to look at me very angry and told me ''DON;T YOU DARE TO TEACH MY DAUGHTER THAT WORD''
He laughs at me and tells me that the man I fell in love with was a lie, that he never existed. Laughing while saying something like this, is CRUEL.
You are speaking of me as if I haven't researched anything about his transgender issues, you do not know how far I've gone to help him deal, to be there for him. I am only using male pronouns here to not confuse people, but I respect who he wants to become. I am not a close-minded brat, like you are making me feel. I have endured the worst of treatments, every morning I wake up (after having been awoken by baby 2 times at night) and I make him breakfast (when we have food in the fridge,which at the moment we don't) , I have the clothes ready and his make up on place and everything that he might need to get ready and he still is mad at me every morning and always finds something to yell at me for.
I am sorry that he had the parents he had, because they never left him express himself, I am not against what he is doing, is his treatment of me, that you might not consider abusive, but believe me, having lived like this for as long as I have, is not easy.