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Contact the embassy and inform them that you want to cancel it. If you have a future petition you may get scrutinized more for it
so you want everything documented. Doing nothing is not a good idea.
You two should have a face to face talk and determine what you both want in person.
It sounds like she had an online romance mentality that now is becoming a reality and she is afraid. Pre marriage counseling may help.
Figure out why you fight and implement change to learn constructive communication.
I can't tell you how many times I have read these stories and then later after the K1 expires the couples start all over again with
another petition because they determine they do love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together.
This process is rough and tough and the distance extremely challenging and tempers can flare but need to cool down for the survival
of the relationship.
What things do you fight about ? Everything or the same things ? Fix it. Really listen to each other.
If she does not wish to be married you go back home.
This wishy washy stuff is for the birds but then again better to know what you want before you marry.
She needs to make up her mind and have some follow through either way. She knew you fought long ago right ? Or is it just
something hapening now ? It is not fair to you to make you hang in this predicament and she should have stopped the petition long ago
unless there has been a new developement in your relationship and she is fed up.

It feels like Christmas Eve when I was a child! Since I got the tracking # yesterday afternoon I've been checking it and finally this morning while I was at school, it showed that it is out for delivery to destination. Today around 3:30 -4:00pm I will have my GC in my hands finally!!!!!!

No,if u file i-485 u dont have to pay.

hi
correct, there is no cost when filing concurrently with the i485

Iris
This is the design I did. The translation was certified by my brother in law. Check the links. I did it on illustrator.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B933BCZKgmgbNWNtc09LUTFPejA/edit?usp=sharing (Original)
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B933BCZKgmgbZkFtUXRjTEZkcGM/edit?usp=sharing (Translation)

Hi Iris,
I understand your feelings it is a great adventure you are in now
Your marriage certificate doesn't necessarily need to state your married name. If you wish to change it for your green card and your work authorization you will need to fill the paperwork with it. Whatever name you use in the forms is the name that will be printed on your card. My marriage certificate didn't declare my married name and I used a combination with my husband's and my name. All my paperwork has been processed like this. Some forms like the Biographical information has a separate spot to fill "Others names used". This is where you will put your maiden name. If you want to change it after GC you will need to pay $450.
You don't need a certified translation for your birth certificate. I had my brother in law which is fluent in Spanish and English do the translate for me, and then I created the document in illustrator (It has to be an exact copy: stamps, lines, signatures, etc). It also has to have a box where it says that the document has been translated from spanish to english and it's accurate and has to be signed by the person that did it. It cannot be signed by yourself or you will get an RFE. (A request for a new translation).

I didn't send any pictures with the original package. Since it says that the package required initial evidence I sent:

- Joint bank accounts
- Cellphone bills with call history (showing how much we call each other)
- Marriage certificate.
At the point of my application, I didn't have a lease agreement because we were living with his parents. Now we do, and I will take it to my interview.
Please check our guides for further reference on filing your forms http://www.visajourney.com/content/i130guide2
If you need any help don't hesitate to ask.
EDIT: Do you need a police record from Spain? As far as I know, this document is not required for the application. Only your birth certificate. I didn't file one since your background check will be done with your biometrics appointment and the FBI.