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He told my husband he didn't believe we were a bona fide marriage, we married alone in Cairo, we met on the net which the Co didn't mention if not mistaken. We only have one picture together because I hate having pictures taken and after years talking when we met we decided (we had talked about the possibility) why wait didn't want to leave each other and we married. I'm not rich either and can't just hop on a plane every three months to Visit my husband then or now. I don't know what they want from us, I lived with my husband for almost two years before I had to come back to take care of my parents. If I could have only stayed this might be another story. I'm devastated and I'm sorry if I can't answer everyone individually right now.

Know I love and hold in my heart every single one of you and am in your debt for your prayers and friendship.

I'm lost I don't know what to do, back to NVC, I'm lost! How can we fight, Denial 212 a 6 c 1?

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He told my husband he didn't believe we were a bona fide marriage, we married alone in Cairo, we met on the net which the Co didn't mention if not mistaken. We only have one picture together because I hate having pictures taken and after years talking when we met we decided (we had talked about the possibility) why wait didn't want to leave each other and we married. I'm not rich either and can't just hop on a plane every three months to Visit my husband then or now. I don't know what they want from us, I lived with my husband for almost two years before I had to come back to take care of my parents. If I could have only stayed this might be another story. I'm devastated and I'm sorry if I can't answer everyone individually right now.

Know I love and hold in my heart every single one of you and am in your debt for your prayers and friendship.

I'm lost I don't know what to do, back to NVC, I'm lost! How can we fight, Denial 212 a 6 c 1?

i sent a pm

oh my God sylvia, i am so sorry. Did the consulate say if he eligible for a waiver(i601)? I am so upset right now, it is unbelieveable

EBUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU my precious friend it's been so long, so very happy to see you my dear. I pray every night that you and your family are well and happy.

Thank you so much for your prayers you know how much they mean to me and I am so grateful for them and for you my sweet sister.

Spoke to Samreen the yesterday she is doing great and is very happy now that she is with her husband just adjusting to life in the US and Austin I don't think comes here anymore at least I haven't seen him nor has he been to this thread. But heard he is doing great and very happy.

How are you my angel how is life treating you and are you enjoying it here?

As always my prayers are with you and our EOC God willing she will have her Visa soon.

I do think my husband it trying to kill me he was late by half an hour and they just let him in he is number 42 so I'm guessing he will be there all day long. OMG what was he thinking! I'm usually an hour early to everything 30 hr at the worst so I'm praying all goes well but only God knows.

Love and miss you little sister!

Oh my dear, you must be on pins and needles. Thank you for always being so kind and sweet. I can't wait to hear APPROVED and VISA ISSUED!!!! I am glad you are in touch with samreen, you won't believe i haven't left yet. My dad was not feeling well so i had to stick around. i should leave by next month God willing. I would have been calling you, believe me if i was already in los angeles. Eoc(elizabeth) is still on AP, but she is travelling soon on a romantic getway with her husband. She is very happy about that, and i am happy for her too. i really hated to see her so unhappy. My friend Sylvia pm me with your email, in case you are mia. love you my dear friend

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Hi Sylvia, i am so sorry i have not checked to see how you were doing? I am truly happy for you that your day has finally come. You have always been in my prayers, i know your husband will be approved with flying colors. You have been a stong woman, who has endured for almost two years of this harsh process. God will see you and your husband through it all today, my dear friend and sister. Have you heard ftom the others samreen, austin, etc. My love/ thoughts always, i will be watching this blog all day to hear the good news.

Heheheee your so cute but no worries your time will come and as they say, God has his reasons.

Happy New Year my dear and I pray 2015 is a great and joyous year for us all. And yes I hate all of them USCIS, NVC and all Co's they suck and they know it!

ENUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU My beautiful sister, Happy New Year to you and yours. Please let EOC know we all miss her and are praying for her. God willing soon she will get out of AP along with the others.

Please everyone don't forget to keep us all in your prayers and we will keep you in ours.

Special prayers for ........ EOC, SharksBelow, AmeriDutch, BRosa, Maria&Abdo, Natasha&Noor, Maharosa! Thank you! If I forgot anyone or your out of the woods please let me know.

Yes I will, it seems more people from Nigeria, Ghana, and even Gambia are put on AP. So sad hopefully this year will bring much needed joy to each and everyone going through this dreaded journey. My dear sister my thoughts are with you.

HAPPY NEW YEAR SYLVIA, AND ALL VJ FRIENDS

Thank you my beloved sister, WOW so happy you'll be home very soon and yes I bet you have ton's of luggage. I can only imagine how much your leaving behind, I'll be praying for a safe and non eventful journey home.

I've never been in Business class I go for the cheapest hahahaa I figure I can use he money to buy lovely stuff so I can take a 22 hour flight I think I'm including time waiting for he transfer to another flight but what the heck. Wish there was a non stop from Egypt to LAX. I'll go first class here and back if I win the lotto. .

Please pray no AP after that I think we are home free. Love you!

Oh God's grace no ap for you, you have suffered enough. 2015 will be much more smoother than this horrible 2014 amen. Believe me I am being cheap, my sis and friend are cashing in their frequent fliers from Delta for my dad and I. Yes papa is coming along with me. I also wish their was a non- stop flight to LAX, but I have to stop at Atlanta first, then to LAX. Many people flying from Nigeria, prefer to stop in Europe, WHY? I don't know, it is a lot more expensive. Plus I want to fly straight to the States, no detour for me. Anyways Sylvia, I am so glad it is,almost over for you, more blessings this new year.

Awwww baby girl, I would think it takes a while but just hug your husband when you feel that way. At least you are done with the nightmare everything from here on is Gold.

Big huge announcement, yes thought it would never happen we have an interview

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Oh Sylvia, I am so totally happy for you, it is about time you start seeing some joy in your life. Believe me the way the months are speeding up, your husband will be with you in no time. Sorry I have not been on, preparing to get out of dodge on the 4th of Jan. I never knew I had so much luggage. Well I guess I am going to spend slot on excess luggage. I read someone's comment on using business class. I definitely am using business class, 12 and a half hours to Atlanta is no joke. Anyways I am so happy for you my sister, your journey is coming to an end. My love always, such a strong woman

That's not true, I have a friend who was,approved I601 and I212 based on her child been an adult with autism.

Hi solenta, sorry about the bull...t from nvc, they did the same thing to me. But guess what my embassy never even asked me for Aos. What nvc puts one through is so unfair, many times the embassy doesn't even ask, or care about it. Don't worry my dear friend, your husband will be okay. Please don't stress out, you have been through alot, don't let this break you. All my love.

Hello everyone, i had my interview in us embassy manila last sep 2014 for IR5 & received a refusal letter 212(a)(2)(A)(i) & i dont know what to do next, can anyone help me what to do?

Did the visa officer say you qualify for waivers? if so he/she gives you a white paper stating so, then you file an I601 and I212

good luck,!!!!! and tell the truth always, even though the questions might be embarrassing, or evasive.

Thank you! You are probably right. Congrats to you too!

Thank you my dear, now get the hell out of dodge( nigeria)!!!!!!!!

congrats, I bet that is the same visa officer I got. Such a sweet guy, very nice.

Hello guys, can any one give me an heads up about the lagos medicals. Which of them do you have a good fast service and how much it cost for the cr1 medical ? Thanks

quality life is much cheaper, and faster. 32thousand naira and you get results back in 4days.

That was the dumbest move I have heard. Why in the world would someone who is going through AP even consider or do such a thing. They are checking him out for the validity of his relationship and he moves in with a single woman. Are you kidding me.

Oh well may God be with them,. Just shaking my head.

And by the way he is sending the wrong impression. I mean he is married he is living with a single woman. You don't or he doesn't see how bad that looks. The spouses permission. I doubt that she probably had no say so in the matter. What she going to do drive by every night from the US.

I am sure they are watching every move he makes. What do you think they do with a contact list....let me stop this just gets me more pissed off just reading it.

Dwheels, I couldn't have said it any better. you see why Nigerians are always treated like fraudsters when we go for interviews. Damn when I read this yesterday, I was so pissed off. This is stupidity to the highest degree, wow please I need to stop before I sound too mean.

EBUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU thank you my angel, yes I am as best I can . I thank you so much for your prayers you have no idea, you always comfort!\

God bless you and your loved ones.

You are welcome!!! You are indeed a strong woman.

Hi Sylvia, I hope you are keeping the faith, my dear friend. I am praying and sending you positive vibes. You time is coming very soon, my thoughts are on you always.

Soloenta and everybody. I m shaking with excitement and shivering. My AOS has changed to n/a!!!!! I was crying and shaking when I called my husband. We just confirmed it with Nvc. I called them and the girl Carla I think was so sweet. I almost started crying and she said we r still scheduling for dec and I have my fingers and toes crossed for u that u get a dec interview. I m so so so happy I can't tell u all. Soloenta I have u in my prayers!! Cuz I think that's what worked including mine. I love u so so much and I want ur cc this month really!!! I still have tears falling and I m feeling too emotional. My scan date was sept 10 or 11 if anybody doesn't know it yet lol!!

oh omg!!!!! I am so so happy for you samreen I knew this week will bring good news to you. God bless you and Sylvia. I am glad you will get an interview in December. Now Sylvia you are next, I know before the month's end your good news will come too. Oh I am so thrilled for you samreen your journey is almost over. so happy yipeeeeee!!!.

I probably shouldn't respond to this since my mood is not the best at the moment....but since I am one that "checked in" I will. Checking in for most of us is like a roll call . Just saying hey...I am still with you all even if I don't have a lot to say at the moment. I am not good at giving out technical info about the immigration forms or process but that is what the guides are for .I come here to NOT feel alone is this crazy stressful process and congratulate or commiserate with fellow VJ members or to glean little bits of hope. Your comment gives me pause as to whether I will "check in" any longer and that is not fair.

I for one totally agree with everything you said. I wish people will understand and be a little tolerant. Thanks Ameridutch.

Congratulations.

Hang in there sweetie, all this immigration nightmare and torture will soon be over and very soon you will be with your husband.

You can say that again my friend. Hopefully by God's grace after my interview we will get to celebrate together this weekend at a nice restaurant.

Girlfriend please don't stress yourself, you will do just fine by God' s grace. Calling you tomorrow to wish you good luck, and I will again at 10:30am the day of your interview. I have been putting you in my prayers.

EBUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU hehehee so true, I may have to wait a while but I'm just happy I'm not at USCIS and God willing at the end of NVC.

Lol!!!! the way the days are going fast, your cc is just around the corner.

Hi everyone hope this week brings good news to all. checking on other forums brings a smile to my face the way people are so scared of checklists. It reminds me of when I was a child and scared of the boogeyman. I can't believe the less important agency is causing so much panic attacks and pain, how ironic.

EEEEEEEEEEEEBBUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU! OMG I'v missed and and love you ton's girl your so sweet to come back and say hello to us and wish us well. Your prayers mean the world to me and I hope and pray your right. God bless and keep you safe my sweet sister!

Love you to girl! You will get your CC this coming week. [/quote

you are welcome my dear sister, you are so next. Oh also I dislike cilantro, I only like it in a burrito, nothing else. I tried it in menudo soup ewwwww!!!!