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Hi. I went through the same thing years ago. I wasn’t able to obtain a police clearance as well. $600 for this is already too much money i wanna say you’re being scammed obtaining a police clearance in China won’t even cost you more than $50 

when does your tourist visa expire ate? i suggest uwi ka na muna

17 minutes ago, RLA said:

And a strong connection makes for more and better sex.  It's a chicken-and-egg thing. 

true. but that's our opinion  

Best thing to do is to talk her. After all, communication with honesty is always the key. 

1 hour ago, bogrob said:

I thought about it  but I'm not sure how useful a marriage counselor would be. 

 

That's what I'm thinking but I feel like I need to give her the benefit of the doubt since everyone needs some time to adjust to a new place. I'm her 2nd boyfriend in her life so as stupid as it sounds, I think she doesn't know how to love someone. 

Hi! If you have marriage counseling im sure, the sessions will end in suggesting for you to be in separate ways. Relationships needed connection, sex gives strong connection to couples. When you are in love, the actions, the words, the feelings etc comes out naturally... she doesnt know how to love someone? how about her family? she doesnt love them? her friends? 

I understand how she felt about the last name, i felt that too, i was too attached and was very sentimental about it but you know i realized it would be a big disrespect to my husband if i kept my father's last name, my father told me "imagine what i would feel if i your mother didn't take my last name?" plus i love my husband so much and i want to be marked as his  I agree with what the others said. she's here for the gc.  

Hi. Can someone share how you were able to obtain a police certificate in china? i am so desperate. please help me. thank you in advance!