Ron&Wenwen

Hi Darnell,
Thank you for your time and advice. I have already filled out the second I-130 and have already dropped it off at FedEx for overnight delivery, so it should be there Tuesday morning with an attached expedite request.
Thank you,
Ron

Atlanta airport can be a beast, but very sign friendly. There are two important things to remember in Atlanta airport for foreign travelers.
1. Get on the correct train rail car that goes to International baggage. If he gets on domestic baggage claim, it can be awful.
2. Make sure he goes to Internaational Baggage claim.
I am sure there are plenty of nice airport personnel who can help him if he has trouble. Good luck and congratulations on your husband arrival.

If you read my first post on this topic when Mick first posted, I was very careful and understanding of his feelings:
All I was saying is that there are always two sides to every story and its strange that all of this has happened, but
we only has his side of the story. Many are passing judgment on his wife without knowing (Let me say it again)
the complete story or his wife side of the story. He could be a wife beater and his wife could be just a plain cheater.
Posted 27 March 2014 - 11:13 PM
I totally understand your pain and how you truly feel. Unless someone has really experienced this shock to the system, no one can truly feel you pain.
My first wife from China also cheated on me after 4 years of marriage. I was hurt, mad, angry and wanted to send her back to China, but really after
such a long time being here, there is nothing USCIS or immigration can do. I do highly recommend that you contact USCIS and figure out what you
need to do to remove the affidavit of support. From a visa or immigration point of view, this is your only course to cover yourself moving forward if you
decide to file for divorce.
On a personal note, everything you are feeling, the hurt and anger will go away sooner or later. Please focus on your child and her well being. You must
continue to be the loving father I suspect you are.
What got me through my ex-wife cheating was to find forgiveness in your heart for her. I know you love her and want to be with her, but in your mind you
will always wonder. Sometimes in life, it is better to let some things go.
I am truly sorry for your pain and heartbreak. I wish you the very best moving forward on whatever you decide to go.
Good Luck,
Ron

@ Ebunoluwa
Point well made and understood.

I guess I should be lucky that my March 27th post was not removed. I understand the language was harsh and I apologize for some of my words and semi-personal attack on Mick.

I totally understand your pain and how you truly feel. Unless someone has really experienced this shock to the system, no one can truly feel you pain.
My first wife from China also cheated on me after 4 years of marriage. I was hurt, mad, angry and wanted to send her back to China, but really after
such a long time being here, there is nothing USCIS or immigration can do. I do highly recommend that you contact USCIS and figure out what you
need to do to remove the affidavit of support. From a visa or immigration point of view, this is your only course to cover yourself moving forward if you
decide to file for divorce.
On a personal note, everything you are feeling, the hurt and anger will go away sooner or later. Please focus on your child and her well being. You must
continue to be the loving father I suspect you are.
What got me through my ex-wife cheating was to find forgiveness in your heart for her. I know you love her and want to be with her, but in your mind you
will always wonder. Sometimes in life, it is better to let some things go.
I am truly sorry for your pain and heartbreak. I wish you the very best moving forward on whatever you decide to go.
Good Luck,
Ron