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Stephen&Lica

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  1. It says received and notice sent. This is our second time applying. Approved the first time. At the second interview he was given a 221g. From May 22nd until January 20th we were given the run around. They kept saying that they were working on our case. Finally January 20th they said 'It's expired, you need to refile.'!!! It expired June 14th, 2014! They played us for 8 months! Nothing was being done on our case :-( So to now have this unexplained delay... Well, you can imagine how we're feeling :-( It seems that we would've received an RFE by now if there was something wrong or missing. :-/ I should add that the first time we had not yet met in person but this time we have. Seems that an approval would be even easier this time??

  2. Again, thank you all for your input. I could try to further explain our relationship and our circumstances but that would only serve to stir more questions (for more details) and/or comments which would in essene cause me to be consumed with trying to convince you all. That would be pointless in so many levels...so I won't. I really do appreciate the time and energy you've put into responding...even more than I'm willing to put into this string and forum. Part of that is the simple fact that none of you are able to have an impact on reality so it's not fare for me to waste anymore of your time.

    My desire for all of you is that if your relationships are genuine, then your process will be quick and smooth. If they're not genuine (which likely means one off the parties might even be being deceived) then I desire for God to protect you for your own good. I always ask for this same blessing in my relationship with Stephen.

  3. Thank you everyone for your input, your respectfulness and your maturity. I had no idea this would be such a mess :-( Since when, as an American does someone else get to make life decisions for me? It's sad to learn. If I believe his heart and intentions to be genuine, who is someone else to have the right to question it? It simply seems very wrong :-( I'm not referring to you guys or even looking for a response for my short rant. Just expressing. It makes no sense that they won't even allow him to come here with the understanding that if we decided (for some strange reason) not to marry then he'd simply go back. It won't do me any good to try to express the things and reasons I believe him to be genuine to you guys so I won't waste your time (I'm not saying you doubt us). I really appreciate your help and advice. I'll keep you posted. Not feeling like such an American anymore....Lica

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