T & K

January: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AsvZPBxJt8H4dHRxT0J1MlRRV0Z1d2NPQjZJYmwtdmc#gid=0
February: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Anpi244OAt_IdHFuNUs4ZHd4LUU1cW1jN1Y1cXBNbFE#gid=0
March: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Anpi244OAt_IdGJxVU9tVVpXRkVZVlVMcjVwMGowOUE&usp=drive_web#gid=19
April: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Anpi244OAt_IdENRYm1EZW1KVS1lUC1qaXh6Q09ReGc&usp=sharing#gid=0
May: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Anpi244OAt_IdHotcTd6dmNNTkh6QlJ1YTRkWDZUSEE#gid=0
June: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Anpi244OAt_IdDBlVllzeFdwSWxqamJFLUxaNjJzUGc#gid=0
July: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AqbNd1-VjCT-dDhTSDFVcGJOSE5tMmR5dkRYUk9mYUE&usp=sharing#gid=0
August: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AsvZPBxJt8H4dDdiM2tUS0ZsTGhtbGxSN05uUGF5WGc#gid=0
September: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0ArFCcHLV9HyydE1UZkNVM0RGY0x1ejRmY1J4TEFLM3c#gid=0
October: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0Avyw59HrFr8VdHFlTFNKU3FMSHo1OW9OUnNTZVZreUE&usp=sharing#gid=4
I think that we may need to create one for January, and August is probably coming up next.
Putting this here as a reference for anyone who is looking for the spreadsheets. I'll update the post as needed.
Btw, perhaps we can come up with a master spreadsheet that combines all of this info?

Since he already has a green card, nothing you can do about it - he can remove conditions on his own but you're still on the hook for repayment of any means-tested benefits he uses. That all would stop once he is a USC, has 40 credits of work, you die, he dies or leaves country. Divorce would not take away from your responsibilities as his primary affidavit of support sponsor.
You can notify USCIS of your suspicion that he married you for a green card by sending in a letter with his A#, your testimony of what you've witnessed, found out or gone through and asking them to include it in his A# file. No guarantees that anything would be done or you even notified that they're looking into it, but you'd have some sense of closure I guess.
What you can do is write to his commanding officer as based on his married status he receives BAH (Basic housing allowance) which is supposed to help your family out. http://www.defensetravel.dod.mil/site/bah.cfm
I'd think you can also report him for infidelity as per UCMJ he's supposed to be a well-behaved and model soldier.

Thank you for your response and this is K writing. You were right that my case was totally different but I was sharing my PERSONAL experience applying for the visa. We provided the sponsor at that time because I was going to school for my Master and I had no income. Lastly, when I said 'There is nothing to be afraid of' what I meant was if you do your part then you should not worry about the result because approved or not is uncontrollable and unpredictable.