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Hey Tammy and Wendy! Can't wait for this grand moment when your husbands our in interview and we are praying all together for a visa outcome. I agree with everyone, it's all in the delivery. Like if they ask what is your favorite color in underwear, tell him to just say red or whatever and it's how he gives it to them. If he kind of stalls a lot on a lot of the personal questions, then they will think its for immigration purposes only. Good luck! Wendy girl, my phone is available for you all weekend, lol.

Andrea

And here's the other one by KBJ or whatever it is, can't remember, darn. She's the one that started this all by posting all the drama to Jackie.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry1060144

The original post I thought was a woman, but all the other posts sound more manish and broken english.

It was some dang good reading though

Angel, you're back. What did you have, a girl or a boy? What's his/her name?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...mp;#entry104803

Here's the other post by Unique Love. Now she's a man. LOL

You got it girl. Maybe she should be reported to the Captain.

LOL, WOM!

I think it's good for people to vent, such as my girlfriend Jacque. I think it's also good for someone to post their horrible experience over the green card, and I don't disagree with her. But she is now continuously posting every where and we got the message the first time. Now it's getting on some of our nerves when you are constantly repeating Arab/American marriages don't last and your being used for a card so they can go back and marry someone else and f--ck us! We got the message, JP, so this is why all of us are kind of getting edgy on these posts. Not only that, but she has posted elsewhere on how many american women are overweight and the age difference between themselves and their spouses. What's it too her? Looks like to me, someone is out to search for info and who knows...write a book on it.

How do you know its the same person?

I know it's the same person because you can track people by going to their profiles. Now unique love is the same person and that jkb..whatever and broken heart is new, both just signed up to VJ. Unique love and that jkb are the same person and she just signed up on vj, broken heart just signed up today. So where these women are coming from just to make green card comments, I mean it's good to get a warning like we didn't already know, but we are in it, so now we have to take the risk. Mine is up for his AOS interview. I told him already, you want to leave after the green card, do it. I mean, I've gone in this so far now, stupid to turn back the other way. If he does leave, well then I got used, won't be the first, sure it won't be the last. It's so tricky, you just don't know what to do. Right now I live with my husband and love him. If that ends, well...Im the stupid one, got burned and will never do it again. But what if I truly believe all of this, don't go through the AOS, pull completely out and he returns to Jordan and I find out later, he really did love me and planned a life of lengevity with me. So either way, the arrows are confusing. So most of us here decided to just live with what we commited to and take the grain with the salt. On the other hand, what happened to Jackie really pisses me offfffffffff!

Sorry I was giving her the benefit of the doubt because Broken heart said she was married to an Egyptian and the other was married to a Jordanian.

Either way, no one should be offended. Just ignore it.

LOL, I think they might be two different people or they can be one in the same just posting under other names and diferent marriages/culture. But Unique Love and this other sbjl whatever, is the same person.

Hi all, I've been in Jordan for about 11 days now. Still not married. Catholic church was a dead end. After giving them every paper they asked for they finally said no because my previous marriage and divorce was from the government, which is funny because before they said that was a good thing because if I had a church wedding they would never allow me to marry in church again. In messing with them I've come to the conclusion that they will never let any usa citizen marry in the catholic church in Jordan. I wish they had just told us from the beginning, no matter what you do we will never give permission.

We are trying the baptist church now. His brother works there and Sehrab was baptized and is on the books as being a member there. We will meet with the pastor on Tuesday. I really hope we get this worked out soon, I'm getting tired of sleeping with his mom..lol. I'm so glad I have as much time as I do here.

I haven't really had much time for sightseeing yet even though I've been to Amman almost everyday this week. I've been meeting his family and friends and everywhere we go they want to FEED me. I've never ate so much food in my life. He thanked me the other day for respecting his culture. He was afraid I would come and make fun of everything..lol. I love it here. It really is another world, everything is so different. Not having much luck understanding arabic yet. His mom's lessons are not going well. She speaks so fast and it all sounds jumbled to me.

I'll try to keep everyone updated on my Journey. Time does not move the same for me here..lol. Here is a link to a slideshow of pics I've taken so far. Family and friends. My first week in Jordan

Very nice pics. I know what you mean running around and trying to get married. When I first went to Jordan, my God, it took my entire stay to get married. I got married 3 days before I had to leave. Had to run to the embassy, then to the jordanian govt, then here and there and medical and man, it was so hot there too. I married at the end of August, you there in July. You have to be baking! How long are you staying there?

I think it's good for people to vent, such as my girlfriend Jacque. I think it's also good for someone to post their horrible experience over the green card, and I don't disagree with her. But she is now continuously posting every where and we got the message the first time. Now it's getting on some of our nerves when you are constantly repeating Arab/American marriages don't last and your being used for a card so they can go back and marry someone else and f--ck us! We got the message, JP, so this is why all of us are kind of getting edgy on these posts. Not only that, but she has posted elsewhere on how many american women are overweight and the age difference between themselves and their spouses. What's it too her? Looks like to me, someone is out to search for info and who knows...write a book on it.

How do you know its the same person?

I know it's the same person because you can track people by going to their profiles. Now unique love is the same person and that jkb..whatever and broken heart is new, both just signed up to VJ. Unique love and that jkb are the same person and she just signed up on vj, broken heart just signed up today. So where these women are coming from just to make green card comments, I mean it's good to get a warning like we didn't already know, but we are in it, so now we have to take the risk. Mine is up for his AOS interview. I told him already, you want to leave after the green card, do it. I mean, I've gone in this so far now, stupid to turn back the other way. If he does leave, well then I got used, won't be the first, sure it won't be the last. It's so tricky, you just don't know what to do. Right now I live with my husband and love him. If that ends, well...Im the stupid one, got burned and will never do it again. But what if I truly believe all of this, don't go through the AOS, pull completely out and he returns to Jordan and I find out later, he really did love me and planned a life of lengevity with me. So either way, the arrows are confusing. So most of us here decided to just live with what we commited to and take the grain with the salt. On the other hand, what happened to Jackie really pisses me offfffffffff!

Wow, I pray that your husband will get off that name check and on to his visa. And take care of your baby, it's yours and his and stay strong. Don't let them send you off the deep end.

Kewl! I didn't see it. Anyway, I love Wendy, just had to say something.

I think it's good for people to vent, such as my girlfriend Jacque. I think it's also good for someone to post their horrible experience over the green card, and I don't disagree with her. But she is now continuously posting every where and we got the message the first time. Now it's getting on some of our nerves when you are constantly repeating Arab/American marriages don't last and your being used for a card so they can go back and marry someone else and f--ck us! We got the message, JP, so this is why all of us are kind of getting edgy on these posts. Not only that, but she has posted elsewhere on how many american women are overweight and the age difference between themselves and their spouses. What's it too her? Looks like to me, someone is out to search for info and who knows...write a book on it.

Wow, you surely do like to post. I think we all got the message from jackies post, yet you started another one and now another one. You have also posted on the K1 site asking them there is any of them were overweight and how much older they were from their spouses? I don't know what you are trying to achieve here, but I believe all of us our pretty happy with our husbands. Now you did bring up some good points and we have taken them as pointers just incase, but I don't think you need to keep bashing Arab men and making American women look stupid. We are all taking a risk by marrying our loved ones, whether they are Arab, American, Chinese, European, Japanese...etc. Every marriage has a risk. If it's not the green card, it will be love affairs, or financial, or whatever...no marriage is perfect. Let us live our lives and if we get hurt or burned, then it's our problem.

I was just thinking of Queen Noor and the late King Hussein. She was American and He of course, King of the Hashemites. They got along great! Now I'm sure they had some problems just like any other marriage. Even though she had Arab blood, she was americanized!

I felt I wanted to post this. Wendy and Tammy's husbands are coming up for interview in Amman, Jordan Monday morning, Sunday night our time. Jackie has been overwhelmed and I wanted to give her a hand here. The Slumber Party will be Sunday night the usual time. See you all there to bring in the visas!

Andrea

Congratulations on the reunion together.

LOLLOLLOL Good one on the West Side Story!

LOL LOL LOL

Family is wonderfull but ARAB or American or any culture live farther and enjoy the visits. It is a rare thing to have one big happy family.

I also wanted to open another can of worms?

This is not intended as a racial thing but would you not think that most cultures do better if they marry thier own kind?

We are talking same music food family religion ect...

Everyone hates to say those words because we live here in a big melting pot but if you do marry your own kind it is less likely that you will divorce.

Look at the world as a whole in other countries the divorce rate is low. Maybe Arabs no something we don't

This whole topic was sensitive and by no means am I saying these men don't love thier wife. I beleive in my heart mine loved me but he thought with his head not his heart. And he married someone who would bare his children not stop who would never leave him and would love him no matter what.

It is almost a 100% garuanty that if you marry your own kind it will work. They take a very big risk marrying one of us, and alot of flak from family.

I mean you go to america to make money and your family is expecting once you make it to the top you come back build a huge home and marry an arab girl.

Back in the middle east a wedding is thier whole life and foundation. that is what they live for!

We as americans look forward to bigger better house,car and vacation.

All they have is a wedding no matter what the income one day they will celabrate a wedding.

For the mother her sons wedding is more important then her wedding day.

These women are kept in the house for the most part but on a wedding day they can dance have fun go shopping for thier dress. I mean this is a big event the biggest in a man or womens life.

Like I said before it took me a very long time to realize other cultures do not think like us we are different.

We will marry a women who has been touched or even has kids and be proud to call her our wife.

We marry who we want who the hell cares what our family says and if our mother dont like our wife to bad our kids and wife come first.

In middle east they will not marry a women who has been touched or has kids and the mother has a big influence on who the son marries and you better beleive his mother comes first, It is islam.

I am not bashing any of it some of it I personally think is good but not when it happen to me.

I love it that my own son babies me.

Please understand when you marry someone from another culture that is why it is called culture.

I lived for many years hearing "back home back home my family I miss them back home we eat sleep ect like this"

I also have many friends who are middles eastern and I respect them and thier beliefs they are good family men.

This is a good point, and being that I knew the culture way before I married my husband, a lot of truth holds in what you just stated above.

But if any of you have any doubt the best thing to do is the next time you speak with your sweetheart tell him "Honey I bought a ticket to come live with you in the middle east I miss you so much and want to be with you and I found a job at an american hotel"

Now this is a good point! I did ask my husband once while he was waiting for his visa, that I wanted to come there and live coz i missed him that much. He had already moved in with his sister, as it was getting very close to his interview, and it was crowded there, that I did know. But he said, he couldn't support me there and what kind of life would we have there together. I said I would look for a job, but he didn't agree. He did however say to come, but we wouldn't be all that happy. When he arrived here in America, one day he said to me, what if i don't get the green card and I have to return home, would you come with me? At that time, I said no. He said then he didn't want to go back either. Then recently, I was looking at pics of Jordan and missed it terribly. He came home from work and I said honey, I miss Jordan. I want to go live there. He said to me, really, do you really want to live there? I said, yes. Then he said, then let's go. I know he misses his family too. I said I don't want to go for anoher six years coz it woudl be a hard adjustment for jess, our daughter. He left it alone. So in the beginning, I thought he didn't want me there, he just wanted the visa to come to America. And over there, he was confused, not knowing what was a better life for the two of us. I think they think of us as, we have to get use to a life there, wearing the hijab, coz I would have to wear one out if I lived there. And many other cultural reasons.

I feel your pain, But please don't waste a year like I did. This is my story,

I also was with a man from jordan I am muslim smart attractive funny. I loved him and thought he loved me. I waited for him for almost five years during that time I sent him money took care of his family when he came ect...

You name it I did it. I look Arab I speak Arabic and I cook Arabic I took on the role of being the perfect Arab wife.

I been around the culture my whole life trust me when I tell you this I did nothing wrong.

I went to see him every year his family loved me everyone treated me with respect and kindness inviting me for dinner going shopping with me ect...

We I thought where in love. He alwasy told me how much he loved me and I was his everything.

Behind my back last year I found out he got engaged to another women in his country!

When I first heard of it I thought the person telling me was jealouse of me because she is not happy wiht his brother so I thought our relationship made her jealouse.

When I comfronted him I was laughing and told him what she said.

And that is when I found out it was true! I could not beleive it! And even after I found out he said "I was his love blah blah blah"

I hung out even after that thinking maybe his family put presure on him ect...

Well he just had his wedding and I did nothing but feel misserable for almost a year thinking it was not true because he continued to lead me on making me think that he was not going to go through with it.

I am telling you those men from Jordan will lye cheat steal anything to come to the USA. And the sooner you realize it the faster you will be able to move on!

I have a hard head and I could not believe someone would use me like that. I also thought I am very attractive smart have a little money know the culture religion why would he not want me??????

But it is true they marry thier own kind no matter what and if they do stay with an american women it is because papers then the kids come and they are very loyal to thier children.

I was married before to a Palestinian that is how I know so much about the culture we had 3 children together whom I raised muslim and when I ended up divorced he was on a plane ASAP going back home to marry a women from over there.

Let me put you in the head of a middle eastern man

They are raised in an enviroment (remember I lived over seas for two years) watching the fatther go off to work all day long and left alone with the mother (Arab women have a hate for american women just like some black women do for white women because they feel like we take thier men) So the kids are at home being raised by women who dislike american women then they are raised seeing the mother never leave the home not even to shop. In thier country women do not leave the home unless she is older or escorted by a man. And most men do not want to escort their women out because they don't want to have a problem with other men.

The men are raised that women are below them and women are here to serve thier needs.

Now this will raise eyebrows but I am telling you this is a true statement (remember I am muslim) But the islam they practice in the middle east is to thier likeing.

They think of american women as slutty and they will date have fun with us but when it comes to staying married long term(unless you get knocked up when he is trying to get his papers) they want to marry thier own kind.

When they marry thier own kind they know the women will take care of them cook clean ect...and never complain.

They then have affairs because they look at the wife like the virgin marry who is the mother of thier kids so it is kind of hard for them to be sexually wild with the mother of thier kids.

If you look at the culture unless your blind you will see most Arab men secretly have affairs but will never leave thier wife.

Because they know 100% thier wife will never leave them it is thier culture and if she does her family will not accept it she will be an outcast.

The Arab women will cook clean take care of his mother bare his kids carry heavy thing and never complain!

She is bread like that. I know I live thier thier husband is thier life they are not a real women unless they are married.

And the women know if they do not do what they should he will take another wife.

They dont like american women because we dont listen.

If you want to go back to him start kissing his butt and he will take you back.

In the Holy Quran GOD promissing them virgins in heaven that is the ultimate heavan so what do you think then they want on earth???

Trust me when I tell you this I am telling you because I have a very very big heart and I hurt and had pain for almost a year living in a fantasy and it took me a real long time to get it in my head that this man used me.

The last words I had with him I was crying and told him I heard he was getting married this summer and he said yes his whole family was there for the party, laughing eating having a good time and then he said could he call me later?

I said no I want you to be happy good bye.

And that was that after five years of my life of doing nothing but giving and doing.

It made me sick to know that his family whom I did everything for and acted to me like I was so special behind my back was finding him a wife.

It made me sick to know that all his sisters and mother where dancing at his wedding and everyone laughing having a good time why I was hurt and crying.

This culture is monster have no feeling for man kind. I am not the only one that this has happen too. I just thought I was specail because I was muslim and I looked Arab but I am telling you the family will pretend to like you just to get what they can.

Thier whole purpose in life is to come to america! I lived in the middle east I was all over the middle east they are very very poor culture imagine you live in poverty where you are living 10 people in a house no one making decent money you will lye cheat steal to get what you want.

I beleive his plan was to marry her come here live with me and us work here make good money so he can support his family there.

I know a few Arab men(remember I been around the culture 20 years) that are married in thier country and living here in america with an american women that has no clue!

When the american women goes back home they send the wife to her mothers house!

The Arab women does not care because she is convinced her husband loves her and using the american girl.

Arab women are bread from little on to STAND BY YOUR MAN! They will never question him they are just happy to have someone take care of them.

I have arab friends now that are men and they tell me even though they are married when they go back home the mother is begging them to marry another one.

The women themself beleive they are not worthy they are convinced that they are nothing without the husband and they will do anything in thier power to keep him happy including letting him marry another women.

When I was over sea's my sister inlaw had 3 kids she went home one day and found a young girl in her home her husband married and told her to bad deal with it.

She left but ended up living in a very poor situation with her father and mother who where old so she ended up going back and accepting it.

When this happen all the women in the family where extra nice to thier husbands for fear it was going to happen to them.

PLEASE REMEMBER don't try to think like them they think different we marry for love they marry to reproduce!

Thier love thier life is not a women it is thier kids!

And they marry a women for her to bare kids and take and raise them to be good muslims.

If you go back to the middle east you will see the men have tons of male friends women are not thier friends we are just to bare kids.

They hang out all day with other males go home at night eat have another baby and then go back to work and to hang out with the guys.

Once a week they will stay home relax and family members will come to visit.

Think about it when ever you see an arab man here in this country he is with his friends and if he is with a women she is walking with the kids and he is rushing her through a shopping mall ect...

You will never seee them holding hands walking hugging. It is a rare thing and if you do you better beleive they are young or just got married.

I feel bad for you but I wrote all this in hopes that I help you because I was stupid and I really thought that he loved me.

I cannot beleive that another human being could use you but they can they are not like us american people have compasion for life.

God will protect you and will give justice you will be ok.

GOD BLESS YOU!

this was not intended to offend you I am trying to help I wish someone would have told me instead everyone did not want to hurt me so they kept telling me he loves me but is confused. In the end that only hurt more because I lost allot of good oppurtunities waiting for him.

GOD BLESS AND IF YOU NEED TO TALK SHOOT ME AN EMAIL

Hello. You know I was thinking, we don't know your name and according to your profile, you just jonied today. I added you on my yahoo messenger but it says that you are on my ignore list, but you are not. I know you were in love with a Jordanian, but you are not telling us your purpose of joining us here on MENA or if you are married again to another Jordanian as it says on your profile. Please tell us about yourself.

Andrea

Hey JP! You're a married woman now! How does it feel? What's new, long time no see here on VJ.

well most of the ones who complain are the younger ones. Yes, they do rant and rage but not like we do, sorry, they are in check or they might just get hit. I watched my husbands sister, he would be at work, she was home watching the kids, making his dinner or he would have a fit. She does work becaus ethey both need to work in the house, but there lives are not like ours.

Well mine is good at saying he loves me, but at the same time, he can be distant too. He's gotten much better and has recently told me he will never leave me, that i will see. I said, never say never, this is when God will test you. But i have seen too many marriages come to and end after green card. This woman has really spoke a lot of truth. Possibly a lot of us dont' want to admit it. She's very right about the culture. It took me a long time to marry my husband coz i believe it was for the green card. I know how badly they all want out of their countries. And I have heard many stories about a fiance or wife back home while he's married to an American or European woman, not the first time i've heard this happen. I found out my husband sent a lot of money home to Jordan. I mean a lot, and all behind my back. She's right also about the complaining part. Their women do not complain like we do. I don't know. I just don't know. There is always this wonder. Wonder too when there friends start coming here too, or their counsin, etc. Please, not all of this is for love.

I feel your pain, But please don't waste a year like I did. This is my story,

I also was with a man from jordan I am muslim smart attractive funny. I loved him and thought he loved me. I waited for him for almost five years during that time I sent him money took care of his family when he came ect...

You name it I did it. I look Arab I speak Arabic and I cook Arabic I took on the role of being the perfect Arab wife.

I been around the culture my whole life trust me when I tell you this I did nothing wrong.

I went to see him every year his family loved me everyone treated me with respect and kindness inviting me for dinner going shopping with me ect...

We I thought where in love. He alwasy told me how much he loved me and I was his everything.

Behind my back last year I found out he got engaged to another women in his country!

When I first heard of it I thought the person telling me was jealouse of me because she is not happy wiht his brother so I thought our relationship made her jealouse.

When I comfronted him I was laughing and told him what she said.

And that is when I found out it was true! I could not beleive it! And even after I found out he said "I was his love blah blah blah"

I hung out even after that thinking maybe his family put presure on him ect...

Well he just had his wedding and I did nothing but feel misserable for almost a year thinking it was not true because he continued to lead me on making me think that he was not going to go through with it.

I am telling you those men from Jordan will lye cheat steal anything to come to the USA. And the sooner you realize it the faster you will be able to move on!

I have a hard head and I could not believe someone would use me like that. I also thought I am very attractive smart have a little money know the culture religion why would he not want me??????

But it is true they marry thier own kind no matter what and if they do stay with an american women it is because papers then the kids come and they are very loyal to thier children.

I was married before to a Palestinian that is how I know so much about the culture we had 3 children together whom I raised muslim and when I ended up divorced he was on a plane ASAP going back home to marry a women from over there.

Let me put you in the head of a middle eastern man

They are raised in an enviroment (remember I lived over seas for two years) watching the fatther go off to work all day long and left alone with the mother (Arab women have a hate for american women just like some black women do for white women because they feel like we take thier men) So the kids are at home being raised by women who dislike american women then they are raised seeing the mother never leave the home not even to shop. In thier country women do not leave the home unless she is older or escorted by a man. And most men do not want to escort their women out because they don't want to have a problem with other men.

The men are raised that women are below them and women are here to serve thier needs.

Now this will raise eyebrows but I am telling you this is a true statement (remember I am muslim) But the islam they practice in the middle east is to thier likeing.

They think of american women as slutty and they will date have fun with us but when it comes to staying married long term(unless you get knocked up when he is trying to get his papers) they want to marry thier own kind.

When they marry thier own kind they know the women will take care of them cook clean ect...and never complain.

They then have affairs because they look at the wife like the virgin marry who is the mother of thier kids so it is kind of hard for them to be sexually wild with the mother of thier kids.

If you look at the culture unless your blind you will see most Arab men secretly have affairs but will never leave thier wife.

Because they know 100% thier wife will never leave them it is thier culture and if she does her family will not accept it she will be an outcast.

The Arab women will cook clean take care of his mother bare his kids carry heavy thing and never complain!

She is bread like that. I know I live thier thier husband is thier life they are not a real women unless they are married.

And the women know if they do not do what they should he will take another wife.

They dont like american women because we dont listen.

If you want to go back to him start kissing his butt and he will take you back.

In the Holy Quran GOD promissing them virgins in heaven that is the ultimate heavan so what do you think then they want on earth???

Trust me when I tell you this I am telling you because I have a very very big heart and I hurt and had pain for almost a year living in a fantasy and it took me a real long time to get it in my head that this man used me.

The last words I had with him I was crying and told him I heard he was getting married this summer and he said yes his whole family was there for the party, laughing eating having a good time and then he said could he call me later?

I said no I want you to be happy good bye.

And that was that after five years of my life of doing nothing but giving and doing.

It made me sick to know that his family whom I did everything for and acted to me like I was so special behind my back was finding him a wife.

It made me sick to know that all his sisters and mother where dancing at his wedding and everyone laughing having a good time why I was hurt and crying.

This culture is monster have no feeling for man kind. I am not the only one that this has happen too. I just thought I was specail because I was muslim and I looked Arab but I am telling you the family will pretend to like you just to get what they can.

Thier whole purpose in life is to come to america! I lived in the middle east I was all over the middle east they are very very poor culture imagine you live in poverty where you are living 10 people in a house no one making decent money you will lye cheat steal to get what you want.

I beleive his plan was to marry her come here live with me and us work here make good money so he can support his family there.

I know a few Arab men(remember I been around the culture 20 years) that are married in thier country and living here in america with an american women that has no clue!

When the american women goes back home they send the wife to her mothers house!

The Arab women does not care because she is convinced her husband loves her and using the american girl.

Arab women are bread from little on to STAND BY YOUR MAN! They will never question him they are just happy to have someone take care of them.

I have arab friends now that are men and they tell me even though they are married when they go back home the mother is begging them to marry another one.

The women themself beleive they are not worthy they are convinced that they are nothing without the husband and they will do anything in thier power to keep him happy including letting him marry another women.

When I was over sea's my sister inlaw had 3 kids she went home one day and found a young girl in her home her husband married and told her to bad deal with it.

She left but ended up living in a very poor situation with her father and mother who where old so she ended up going back and accepting it.

When this happen all the women in the family where extra nice to thier husbands for fear it was going to happen to them.

PLEASE REMEMBER don't try to think like them they think different we marry for love they marry to reproduce!

Thier love thier life is not a women it is thier kids!

And they marry a women for her to bare kids and take and raise them to be good muslims.

If you go back to the middle east you will see the men have tons of male friends women are not thier friends we are just to bare kids.

They hang out all day with other males go home at night eat have another baby and then go back to work and to hang out with the guys.

Once a week they will stay home relax and family members will come to visit.

Think about it when ever you see an arab man here in this country he is with his friends and if he is with a women she is walking with the kids and he is rushing her through a shopping mall ect...

You will never seee them holding hands walking hugging. It is a rare thing and if you do you better beleive they are young or just got married.

I feel bad for you but I wrote all this in hopes that I help you because I was stupid and I really thought that he loved me.

I cannot beleive that another human being could use you but they can they are not like us american people have compasion for life.

God will protect you and will give justice you will be ok.

GOD BLESS YOU!

this was not intended to offend you I am trying to help I wish someone would have told me instead everyone did not want to hurt me so they kept telling me he loves me but is confused. In the end that only hurt more because I lost allot of good oppurtunities waiting for him.

GOD BLESS AND IF YOU NEED TO TALK SHOOT ME AN EMAIL

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW. We Americans don't want to hear this, but I have to tell you, most of what you wrote is true. This is why it took me so long to marry my husband. And I still fear it. Many tell me to go on, just live my life with him, but I can't fully. I have seen just way too many marriages for the green card only. Even though many will not want to read or listen to your message, it's good that you did post it. It also hurts to read the truth. Now, I almost feel like I don't want to go through the AOS again with my husband in September. Now, I almost feel like I want a divorce. I don't know about others here, but to find out my husband only married me for the green card would be a blow to my ego and a knife to my heart!

Andrea

LOL! We havent had our interview yet! I wish i could say YEAH WE GOT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You're a week early Anreda, lol-

COME ON, MAUREEN! POST THE NEWS ON YOUR AOS INTERVIEW!

Oh man! Stupid me! Well now you know how excited I am for you guys. Good Luck! For some reason, I thought it was July 17th. Oh well.

Andrea

COME ON, MAUREEN. TELL US THE OUTCOME OF THE AOS INTERVIEW!