amanda1005

...I was really offended..we just talked about it earlier and I can't stop crying when I think about it...Well,maybe because I really don't think about it "him and me"getting a divorce ..the only thing I think about now is to be with him!!!and then boom all of a sudden I get this kind of conversation from him...But I understand him as well...and I am not marrying him for his money so thats fine.thanks

Hi Merrytooth
So I can add my terms????so that means it is not only him who will decide on whatever is to be written in that agreement?

This message is for TINMAN

I know that this discussion will fall under "money"...I just want to make sure I am clear here...I am not upset or sad because the prenup agreement will leave me nothing...
I,from the very start is not after my fiance's money...I may not be rich but I live comfortably...I am educated and I can survive...The reason why I was hurt is because I didnt expect that this kind of situation will happen to me....(complicated)

Now giving bad comments is like being an idiot..I guess we are here to help each other.
You even mentioned this:

"Don't be selfish. If it wasn't yours, it belongs to someone else!"
My answer would be:

Tinman,I am not selfish..the reason why I am asking for opinions is because this is new to me....I think you have bad experiences in the past...Think before you react!!!!!!Okay?don't be such pig!

November 9th VSC filer.... Patiently waiting for our noa2.