this is the third time my state in the site change
today i found this message:
On January 29, 2014, your Alien Registration Number was changed relating to your I130, IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN. Please check our website at www.uscis.gov for further updates on your case. Please wait until the end of normal processing time before calling customer service at 1-800-375-5283 for live assistance.
During this step, USCIS initiates the background checks of the applicant/petitioner and identifies issues that may need to be addressed either during an interview or by asking the applicant/petitioner to submit additional information or documentation. USCIS reviews the applicant's/petitioner's criminal history, determines if there are national security concerns that need to be addressed, and reviews the application/petition for fraud indicators.
Aproval please come on!! :((
i'm sorry to hear about this bad news,but insted of thinking about all this,you need to discuss gently with your husband,be sure he got you married first time because he loved you and he spend his money on the visa and wait for you to come to him for love as well,it must be something happning that made this relation worse,think about the good days about him and try to struggle for this relation,you reach a level where we are wating painfuly to reach it which is your interview date,you need to do istikhara ,i'm sure you are muslima and you know about it,ask Allah about this decision before taking any step,go to the interview and take your visa,and wait for him and give time to your relation and love to get back,then decide to go to your husband,i don't think that it is imposible for you guys to save this marriage,everything comes with discussion and anger can damage good relation if you did not controll it,you just start your marital life and the begining which is the hard part because you get to know each other manners and personality,if you pass the first years then life will be easy.
please sister take my words seriously,i'm like your sister and don't wish you to break all this and get divorced while you can be patient and save your marriage.