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Thanks everyone for your insight..I definitly can see where most everyone is comming from here. And i would give the same advice if i was asked about this situation. and here it comes the but. We have been together for 4 years i helped her a lot thru those years in heard times finacially and emotionally. But something interesting is around the time something was going on she wouldnt accept any financial help from me..none.

Anyway, Im taking a chance probobly the biggest of my life. I'm putting my faith in her that she is not trying to scam me. I just cant let this go if there is any chance i accept responsibility for whatever happens to me. If she keeps that baby i dont see much chance for her being able to come here. Time will tell all..Oh btw approved yesterday August 6th..LOL

Thanks everyone again you were very helpful even if im as stubborn as an ###.

I definitly hear you on the cheating. Your right on all counts.

I cant even imagine having to explain something like this to a C.O...i cant see how that could ever end well.

She has said she is considering an abortion...thats her decision. I do not want to try to make that for her.

IF she chose this route how would that effect her medical? I wonder because she went to a doctor and that is how she found out...so would they see this in her medical records when she was to go for her Medical stuff? Just something i thought of and wondering

I'm not even sure where to start with this.

I guess that i am looking for what my options are in this situation...so heres the situation.

Finacee and I filed our 2nd attempt at the K-1 process ( first failed due to a paperwork mistake) Our NOA 1 is March 28th. 2013

We have had troubles as everyone has with our relationship..always worked thru them. I had a feeling for a long time somethng was going on that she was seeing another man. On her last visit she was different than on our first...simply put i would she seemed distant. Im very sensitive to any changes so i pick up on everything...this was huge. I did my research, found evidence confirming my suspicions.

Confronted her about it finally..she made excuses that he was a friend who was in love with her and chasing her doing all that stuff. I have faith in her so i accepted that..yeah i know.

Alright so cutting out all the gory details fast forward...i again found evidence something as going on. Finally got her to admit she was screwing around. Ok i can accept that we all make mistakes..so we worked thru it but still i was getting big negative vibes.

So yeah last night i told her i was wanting to come to Lithuania to see her. (she had actaully suggested it a few weeks earlier) She said i shouldnt. Here it comes....i asked her why and she told me she is 6 weeks pregnant. x_x. by that same guy.

She said she made a huge mistake that it was accident etc. She said she loves me and still wants to be only with me.

I still want to make this work. I really do love her with all my heart and soul.

My question..what are my options now with my petition potentially being approved soon?

I guess im asking what do i do now? with a pregnant fiancee with not my baby how does this change things in the process.

My brain is fried so im having trouble figuring out things myself..really need help.

Thanks everyone

TylerDurden,

I'm a bit late finding this (only 2 days ago). I just want to say how you and all those involved actions are appreciated beyond words by me. I can't thank eveyone enough for your time and your sacrifice.

You and your team and everyone at VJ (especially pachacuti) fighting for each other will always have my utmost respect and admiration. You have refreshed my faith in the individual to come together as one and tame the beast.

It's sad to see the decion made here but its not the end by any means.

If you have made a video and sent to USCIS i would you be releasing it for VJ members or those interested to view?

You will always have my support

Thank You

Well Done, and Thank You for your hard work! I"m posting a link on my FB page. Cant stop here. Make more and refine even more. Maybe a collage of people with newly born babies/children some of whom have never met their father/mother. Things such as this. Visuals are key, illustrating how we suffer and transfering those feelings to the viewer=win.

This video is about people who were brought to the US as children by their parents, by no choice of their own. As adults they face all kinds of problems trying to integrate into a country they grew up in and the only place they know as home. These are the people who are eligible to apply for residency because of the Dream Act, I say they deserve a chance, just like everyone else. Just to remind you what the Dream Act is: The Dream Act provides conditional permanent residency to certain illegal aliens of good moral character who graduate from U.S. high schools, arrived in the United States as minors, and lived in the country continuously for at least five years prior to the bill's enactment.

Time and time again I see people on this site complain because their petition may be delayed because of Dream Act applicants. It is disgusting to think that people in this country are so self centered that they can't for one single moment imagine what it would be to in their shoes, faced with deportation because of something they had no control over in the first place, being brought here by their parents as young children. I can bet that the majority of people don't actually know what the Dream Act is. So before you whine about how slow your petition is going, and blame it on the so called 'illegals" that caused your so called delay, watch this video and then tell me the few extra weeks you had to wait was in vain. These people deserve a chance to stay, just like your husband/wife/fiance deserves the chance to be reunited with you.

http://www.upworthy....h-school?c=ufb1

if this is in the wrong place please move it for me...thank you

I cant beleive this... USC and their bennificiaries have EVERY right to be angry with DACA petitioners. They are here illegally. ILLEGALLY. It doesnt matter when they came here what age, i dont care. They have their parents to thank for that. In the mean time they have been able to take advantage of our economy, jobs, educational system (not sure if thats really a good thing), social saftey nets..the list goes on.

As far as worries about being deproted...PLEASE!!! Biggest line of BS. There are sanctuary cities in nearly every state. 100% safe for them no worries. I bet they could walk up to an ICE agent declare they are illegal and nothing would happen.

You say "These people deserve a chance to stay, just like your husband/wife/fiance deserves the chance to be reunited with you." Well excuse me! last time i checked they HAVE been staying here for in many cases more than a decade, surrounded by family. My finacee i only get to see one another once a year and it has a finacial impact on us both. She being a student struggles to find a job where she isnt working 15 hours a day for peanuts. She doesnt complain about it we work thru it together long distance. So i have every right to be angry when govt. and illegal aliens whom are using everyone here as a door mat to wipe their feet on for being responisble law abiding individuals.

your right everyone desrves a chance. Do as the Law says be DEPORTED or LEAVE, wait out your ban. Then fill out all this wonderful paper work and get in line like the rest of us!!!!!!!!

DACA (Delay All Citizens Applications)

Two very good posts..i agree 100% with both. I have gone thru a feeling of guilt and uncertainty about if it is the right thing to bring my finace to the USA. I'm worrying that i will only be bringing her into a life of future hardship. 17 trillion in debt and counting..is just the start of it. I cant even recognize my own country. I know, i dont need to be preaching to the choir on this. But this is for you loved one to be together and meet what struggles may come together is very powerful...your powerful. So I decided yes its worth it for her to come because im going to fight to save my country for my future families sake.

It's time to push back, we aren't the governments kick dog, they work for YOU. Time to support each other, contacting your congressman about this CSC bs is you civic duty INMHOP.. Letting them get away with it is just embolding them.

Last I heard of CSC it became a multi-story Mexican Restaurant...

Really? I heard it was a goat farm where they use our money and petitions as feed.

i understand your point. It would seem odd to trust strangers. But as i see it I have more faith in the people here who have a common struggle. The govt. so far has never proven itself to be helpful to me. USCIS lied to me multipule times costing my fiancee and i months of our time. Yup i made a mistake on my petition i accept responsiblity for that. But doesnt give them authority to lie.

Thank you Inky

Hi,

I thought they increased the fee for Filing the K-1. I paid $340 last October and remember hearing they were raising it? Their website says $340 still but i dont trust it, need confirmation please.

Thank you

Yeah, i had been thinking about it and decided that a complete new Petition filing is in order as you suggested. As for cost I'm not at all tring to save money that idea never crossed my mind, time on the other hand is precious to me. Yup it was my mistake that caused this, but USCIS was extremely unhelpful by by falsly stating i was speaking with Tier 2 supervisors. A blunt response to send a complete new petition would have been appreciated. The little shred of faith i had in the govt. is gone now i know 100% its not risking ever putting your trust in them.

I already have a complete petition on standy evidence and such, all forms are filled out all just needing signature and the updated date. For her being upset, we have endured much harder things. Yes, she is a hardass and we are both stubborn, but it's just some of the million things i love about her.

I apprecitate finally a staright to the point awnser.

thanks

Hi everyone,

On December 1st I mailed Our K-1 petition. January 7th Recieved NOA1 and a I-797-C because of the incorrect address. From this point i realized there was a porblem the NOA1 has the incorrect information on it. 100% incorrect names addresses birth dates. From here I make the connection The names look familiar and i relaize that I mistakenly printed out the "Sample form" here on Visajourney i was using as a refrence on how to properly fill out the I-129F and just the first page (the incorrect page) ended up mixed in with the other 2 correct pages.

On January 12th I called and explaned the sitaution. They told me to write a letter of explanation and mail to them. I made 2 calls on the 2nd i talked to a Supposed tier 2 and I updated all the incorrect information person to person over the phone with the supposed tier 2. Also i mailed that letter with copies of the NOA1 mailed a letter of explanation and the correct forms to California Service Center.

January 20th i recieved a Service Request letter with a copy of the incorrect I-129F they have on file. In that it states "Due to the numerous incorrect information contained in your petition, we cannot verify the contents thereof, so we are sending you a copy of the petition filed for your information. Please fill out a new petition, date and sign it and return it to us."

January 23rd i mailed a copy of the Service Request letter and another corrected I-129F again to the address on the letter which was CSC.

February 15th I called to inquire if my new I-129F had been recieved. Talked to another Tier 2 very unpleasent person. She qtold me i had the wrong recipt number because my actual name and that on the recored did not match. So i said yes i know and proceeded to read off the names she was seeing...John Jerry Smith, Jane Joan Doally etc. addresses and birth dates. She told me they had nothing new, no updates. and to call back in another week. Week later called back same thing.

Today I called talked to another Tier 2 explained how things happened..again was confronted with the "this is not your case you have the wrong reciept number. Again i said yes i know and started reading the names she had. She did not like this and insisted she would not tell me any information about the case because it wasnt mine. Told her i had a Service Request gave her Referal numbers ans she said that none of the people i talked to in the past were Tier 2 and they werent to do what they did giving info on the case etc. Awsome. I told her i sent the new corrected petition as requested with copy of Service Request To CSC. She said i should have sent it to Texas Lockbox. Seriously? OK so i sent everything where i had been told apparently to the incorrect place wasting months. Also the S.Req letter says nothing about Texas Lockbox.

She told me to send a Cover letter explaing the sitation that i recieved a case that was not mine. etc.. This is where im a bit confused she implied well really falt out said that i should say that it was their mistake and i had already paid and shouldnt be penalized for that. I dont really feel comfortable with that, it was my mistake i sent that wrong page i admit that, Your opinion? So the list of things to send: Cover letter explaining situation, Copy of the NOA1 and I-797C, Copy of the Service Request and a corrected I-129F.

I'm wondering how i should explain this in my cover letter. It seems extremely difficult to explain to people that i mailed a "sample/refrence page" accidently. Also the for expiration Date on that form are 2006 for that first incorrect page and 2012 on the other 2 correct ones. I was thinking of including a link to that sample form so they can see it, good idea or bad?

Im not looking forward to telling my fiance..she going to be devestated. I think i will have her send all documents with updated dates in preperation for total K-1 melt down. So i can start all over.

Losing 3 mothns is beyond painful I'm totally stressed out i really need help/advice mainly with cover letter.

Thanks everyone

Hi everyone,

So on USCIS website my status is telling me "Post Decision Activity" for about 2 weeks. I have read and read looking for what the meaning of this is and all i can find is that it's meaning NOA2. Honestly I cant believe this could be true, something must be wrong. So fast? I havent gotten anything new in the mail..haven't heard a peep about any NOA2. I have to believe this is some kind of mistake, if i get my hopes too high that this is NOA2 and its not it will be very upsetting. Everyones thoughts?

I just got a letter requesting to send a new I-129f. The orginal that was sent was completely incorrect. I realized this upon recieving NOA1 Jan. 7th. I wrote a letter of explanation..and included the correct I-129F and mailed it the next day. After also calling USCIS, soon after finally was able to get ahold of a tier 2. Explained the situation and he took down the correct information for both my fiance and I. My question is should i just immediatly send another I-129f even though i already mailed one before their request for it?...Which i have no idea if they accepted or not. Also what should i include with my new petition if anything. Maybe a copy of the letter they sent me? In the letter they say "please fill out a new petition, date and sign it and return it to us."

Another question maybe stupid..but is it ok to fold the I-129f and put in a normal envelope? Personaly this bothers me since it's an important document..the corrected one i sent i used an big envelope so as not to fold.

I really want to get this right, no more mistakes.

Thank you very much

I did get a case number. In that letter was My NOA1 form I-797-C with the form AR-11 (Alien's Change of Address Card) on this form they are telling me to mail to:

U.S. Department of Homeland Security

Citizenship and Immigration Services

Attn: Change of Address

1344 Pleasents Drive

Harrisonbur, VA 22801

Should i send this seperate to that address or include it with my explanation letter and new I-29F? Also Im assuming they want me to put MY info on this form despite the name Alien Change of Address Form. Right?

Thanks everyone for your help

So here might be a first. Some how i printed out the sample version of the I-29f on VJ and that form ended up getting sent to USCIS instead of the correct one. How this happened i dont know because i triple checked everything. Obviously i'm an idiot. So today after calling with no luck, I recieved a letter in the mail with incorrect name John J. Smith. Inside it requested address update form AR-11 So they sent it to address that didnt exist and finally it found its way to me..guessing return address. So everything is wrong on the sent 1-29f form...this is exactly what they got... My link

I called them again and they told me i should write a letter explaning the situation and send to Cali Service Center..and wait for them to send back instuctions. Wish i could just send the correct i-129f and letter all in one shot but they said not to.

So opinions on how screwed i am?

I know i win the idiot of the year award.

Thanks everyone

called...waited they told me their system is down and to call back Monday.. x_x I think that music killed some of my brain cells while i was on hold.

My check to USCIS for k-1 was cashed on 12-11-2012. I nave not recieved any notification of NOA1 and have been trying to wait patiently. Wanting my case ID # I tried looking on the back of my check but that isn't available. I called my bank and they said that it was electronicly withdrawn and there is no way to view it. The check cleared fine on 12-11 and the $340 withdrawn. Anyone else have this happen? I guess my question is, is it worth my time to call them and ask for my case ID. Or will they just tell me to wait the 45 days? :/

Thank You

Adam and Giedre.

I sent my I29-F November 30th. Delivery Confirmation December 5th. Check cashed Dec. 11th. I havent heard a thing since. Kinda worried. good luck to you.

thank you, i will continue my puzzle project

Hello everyone,

My fiance on her last visit tore up her boarding passes because she didnt think much of keeping them. I realized as today as i'm collecting and organizing evidence for my I-129F, that i still have those pieces. So my question would be: how would it be looked upon, or isn't it even an option to carefully tape these back together and include them in my package? Or should i just forget it.

thanks much,

Adam