azndrew2

Green Cards.

A better life, a green card, a way to support family, to escape poverty.

I agree. Explain your situation to the good folks at USCIS, I'm sure they understand, they are very nice people!

Hmm...or a troll.

i believe that this is an issue based on bad publicity, track record, and common sense. obviously this is only just an opinion, but i read about a girl that is 21 and her husband is 65. let your common sense kick in here. in 20 years he will be 85 and she will be 41, that is a statement that speaks for itself. there is no explanation needed to tell you what is wrong there, and of course the lower the age you go the less of an issue it is. now everyone has there own line to draw at making that determination, i PERSONALLY think that anything over 12 or 13 years is pushing what society deems as appropriate, and obviously this is my OPINION and i DON'T CARE who gets married and i know i WILL BE FLAMED to hell in this thread, but this is my opinion so DEAL WITH IT but seriously though if you 2 are TRULY TRULY in love that is SOO AWESOME and i wish the best for you both. if that girl or guy is playing you like a Jim Belushi on a harmonica then that is the lowest life form on this earth and needs to be truly unhappy for their entire lives. again this is only opinion and even though i think that 20 year difference is CRAZY who the hell am i to you? nobody. so don't worry about the naysayers and live your lives. i know i will.

Yes, that is exactly what she's saying that's reality. Ask your fiance if she know someone in her age who got married with an OLD PINOY, or better ask her if she will still marry you if you are an OLD PINOY.

hey u kno what, I totally agree with ilovehim30. I'm the petitioner and Filipino as well and my fiancé is filipina with no age gap. I understand the whole concept with young filipinas going with older white Americans. I was born in the ph. so I kno the drill wen you see a interracial couple that looks to be what u think it is. most of the Filipinas going with older white men are just in to have a better future, love is just 2nd to them. even my fiancé agrees.

hey u kno what, I totally agree with ilovehim30. I'm the petitioner and Filipino as well and my fiancé is filipina with no age gap. I understand the whole concept with young filipinas going with older white Americans. I was born in the ph. so I kno the drill wen you see a interracial couple that looks to be what u think it is. most of the Filipinas going with older white men are just in to have a better future, love is just 2nd to them. even my fiancé agrees.

hey u kno what, I totally agree with ilovehim30. I'm the petitioner and Filipino as well and my fiancé is filipina with no age gap. I understand the whole concept with young filipinas going with older white Americans. I was born in the ph. so I kno the drill wen you see a interracial couple that looks to be what u think it is. most of the Filipinas going with older white men are just in to have a better future, love is just 2nd to them. even my fiancé agrees.

if age doesnt really matter would you let your own precious daughter to be with someone as old as you?
if that doesnt matter then you would highly recommend it to her,will you?

That is the truth though.People will never believe that its all for LOVE even if you both know it is.
And people wont tell you that theres an issue with your age because filipinos still tries to be nice and hospitable.
why am i saying this stuff????
i have talked to a lot of filipina that is with old guys,
i asked if that is what they wanted and they say you know why im doing this.just understand.
some told me that i just want to get there and see what happens.
some says i dont want to do this but i have to.
the best question is do you think your wife/fiancee will date you if she is already here in the US????