Jump to content

Hopelessgal

Members
  • Posts

    20
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Posts posted by Hopelessgal

  1. The moment your marriage doesn't exist anymore, the conditions that got you the "conditional" Green Card, being married to a US citizen, do not exist anymore. The law requires you to file for Removal of Conditions immediately. If your husband notifies the USCIS that the marriage is over, they will eventually come for you.

    Now . . . since you left the United States two weeks (?) after getting your Green Card and have not returned since (?), you will have a hard time proving that your marriage was flourishing until things went sour. In addition, the Certificate of Annulment, if it states "fraud" as the reason, will stop you like a fist in the face. Immigration fraud, if signed off by a judge, means you will not becoming back to the United States in this lifetime.

    actually I lived in states for six months after receiving my GC and I left when I received the annulment notice because I was scared hurt and had no one there .
  2. I am trying to find out what happens to two year GC after annulment ? I am not in USA and I am looking at options if I want to come back and start my life there , he applied for annulment and fraud bases an do left country after two weeks without fighting or responding to it . Now I am regretting , I should have fought . Is my green card invalid due to his accusations ?

  3. Hi everyone ! I need to know few things

    I left the USA after my husband filed for annulment . I didn't sign any papers or anything . So I want to know what does happen after 30 day respond period ? Do we get annulled automatically ?is there anyway to know status of annulment ?

    I read on few sites that I can keep my green card but I won't be able to get the 10 year one . Is it true ? I don't want to believe it but its better to ask something rather than staying confused . So if he didn't report to uscis what are my chances for getting a visitor visa ?

    I will be filing for divorce in few month in my own country . He wasn't worth a tear. I hate him and I can never think of being with anymore

  4. I posted about two weels ago that my husband has sent me an annulment letter.Apparanetly he still wants to stay married but wants me to live back in Pakistan not here which i dont understand why ? I mean why even stay married ?? Long story short i am leaving the country in a week . I have no interest in fighthing or even looking at his face. I have two question if yiu guys can help i will thankful

    1- How annulment effect future visit to USA? can i come on same visa or will i have to apply again as visitor ? He says he isnt gonna report to USCIS or immigration and etc

    2- We are Muslims , so if marriage is annulled here in USA , do we get automatically divorced Islamic way or will we still be married ?

    Thank you guys for all your support <3

  5. First, getting a divorce is not about getting revenge, so everyone needs to understand this. The lawyer only wnats to deal with facts, and what will get the quickest and fairish out come.

    This is a very young marriage with little time invested, therefore why would anyone spend thousands of dollar to get out of it.

    Again, if it makes you feel better, see if the language can be negoiated, both parties will have to go in front of the judge any how so the judge can and will have the final say.

    Ask to have the papers sealed, that way no one but the courts can every see the divorce language. This infromation wouldn't be printed on the divorce creed either. Don't make something out of this that it isn't.

    Everyone will write all the hype about what they would do, but the bottom line is what is it that you want.

    I was angry and wasnt thinking rational. I am going through so many emotions right now. Anger, sadness, hatred , pity , revenge and so on. I dont want to suffer nor i want to waste my parents money since i didnt have a job here and i dont have any saving, I will try to choose a path which is not painfull

    Oh oh.

    This.

    To me that is the ultimate payback.

    Thank you , i will see what i can do to get language changed on the papers and leave . I cant waste my life here when i dont have single good memory

  6. I feel for your situation and hope all works out for you.

    I have few questions to understand your situation.

    1 you said you were married in 2010, over 2 years. It was an arranged marriage. Presumably it took place in pakistan., am I correct?

    2 that means he sponsored you at some time later to bring you here. That means you went through you went through AOS process, is that right?

    3 That also means you entered the country on IR1 status, right?

    IR1 status gives you a ten years valid Green card on your arrival here.

    The large question I don't understand, then is, how come your green card is still a conditional one. Is your husband a Citizen or he also has only LPR status. If he only had LPR status, how could he bring you in within 2 years. Dont you think It would have taken more than two years to get your visa current based on State Departments Visa bulletine, for country like Pakistan :innocent: .

    On the other hand if your husband is a Citizen then you came in as immediate relative which gave you a ten years GC at arrival. How can he file for annulment when you already have a ten year valid green card, if you indeed went through the AOS process.

    I am trying to understand

    1 you said you were married in 2010, over 2 years. It was an arranged marriage. Presumably it took place in pakistan., am I correct? YES

    2 that means he sponsored you at some time later to bring you here. That means you went through you went through AOS process, is that right? YES

    3 That also means you entered the country on IR1 status, right? CR1

    We got married JUly 2010 , and my arrival here was in MAY 2012 so i got 2 yr GC because I wasnt married for two years when i arrived.He is a citizen. I hope it clears up most of your questions

    Hi there! I know how you feel -- and hopefully you could soon be out in this situation. Your husband does not loves you and I'm glad that you still know your self worth. If you still opt to live in the states in the future, then I think you should clear yourself of the accusation especially when it is NOT TRUE. However, if you intend to come back home and not interested in living back to the US again, then, the earlier you have the annulment approved the better for you so you can come home and start building your life again with peace and love of your own family. Let God handle it for you -- I'm sure your husband would face his own Karma for doing this thing to you.... just do good -- God knows the desires of your heart and for sure will bless you in His name and goodness! Be patient and always look up to God, He will give the right man for you -- don't stress out yourself and just move forward in life -- God knows best for you -- things happened for a reason. America is a nice place to live, but it should also be a place where you become happy living as well. It's not the place -- it is the person who you are sharing your life with that makes you happy. God bless !

    Thank you , i needed these words. I believe in God and i believe in karma. He didnt only hurt me but also my family

  7. Hope, you can nogeatiate the language in the annullment, so just ask to have some of the language remove, you sign along with the ticket for 1st class flight and move on with your life. If that's what you want to do, but you keep asking about ROC. So that leads me to believe that you still wants more out of the deal.

    to be honest i dont want to stay one more day here. I will see a lawyer on monday and lets see how it goes

  8. He is trying to dodge owing you spousal support or division of property.

    YES ! its also mentioned in the document also he was the one who didnt want kids for sometime . I mean i didnt even see it coming. To be honest i am not interested in his finances or anything . He only provided shelter and food. He was dating other women while i wassitting home alonr for weeks,I wish i had some proof to make him suffer

  9. The marriage outside of the US was it a real marraige, you did indicate that it was arranged. What is he basing his fraud statement on?

    What did the lawyer write in the annullment to base their statement on a fraud marriage?

    yes it was arranged and i also answered same when i had my interview.

    it says

    Grounds

    The husband would submit that grounds of FRAUD exists and avers that wife entered into a mmraige for the immigration visa purposes that the wife has offred indignities to the spouse's person as to render the spouse's position intolerable and thereby forced the spouse to withdraw qnd in teh alternative husban would show that the marriage of the parties are irretrievably broken pursuant to state code

    I dont understand why would he do that , we never fought and he never brought this subject that he is planning to leave me and i cant imagine he will do this , he never thought that i am alone here and know nothing about the USA law

  10. Nope, if you'll do an annullment than the orginal marriage never existed. Do you have a 2 year GC? Then you will need to initate a divorce if you wants to stay and ROC. But, I thought you stated that you had no one in the country to assist you.

    I hate when the story changes, your other post stated you had only been here 6 months. Am I missing something?

    I came here in may 2012 but been married since 2010. I have a 2yr GC

  11. Nope people says all kind of things in a divorce, unless there is conceret evidence, the US government doesn't even care. Didn't she say it was an arranged marriage, so will she now say she was in love. She came because it was an arranged marriage.

    This is what she should be doing right now :dance: :dance: :dance::dance::rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

    also i have clear history with no background .I dont have any loans, or accounts . It means i was living on my parents cash. Can i fight annulment to clear my name as fraudulent person which i am not. Can i apply for removal of conditions ? what can i do ? i will see a lawyer maybe on monday

  12. I received a notice of annulment today , i was surprised since he came home last night for few hours and didnt mention anything and everything seemed perfect. Now i have no interest in living in this country but i want to fight because i want my name to be clear.his grounds for annulment is based on fradulant marriage that i came here for immigration. Please note that in these five months i have not opned any bank account , dont have a credi card, no loan, no car, no job or taking advantage of govt . I want to clear my name and then leave forever. What can i do ? do i have any options.I dont have anyoen here to talk or cinsult

    details upon my relation c ould be found in this thread http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/392743-i-am-lost/

    P:s we have been married for two and half years

  13. I am sorry to see this happen to you. Its a sad aspect of these arranged marriges.

    Reading this I think what you need to do is simple yet difficult. You know this will never work out to benefit you. The past become the present while indicating the future.

    Go back to a life you understand where you can find support.

    You can stay with him but why would you do that? If you do, do not complain and prepare for this to get worse.

    You can stay here and divorce him. That can be done but you will experiance a lot of pain for many months.

    You are not a citizen. You are a legal permanent resident. Still you have certian rights under the laws.

    See option # 1

    Sorry i meant LPR. My parents are also suggesting me to come back if it goes like this

    I am so sorry you are going throught this. Is there a local masjid in your area where you can go talk to the Imam or another sister in the congregation that can help you and they give you advise?

    I am not sure, there must be one around . I am not familiar with area but i will try to llook

  14. I know most of you might think me as an idiot for posting about my personal life here but i needed some support and advise.

    My story - Came here on spouse visa about 6 months ago. We got married in july 2010. I came here in june. All these months so much has changed,I got to know he is having affair with two other women. He leaves me alone at home for weeks and says he is goin on official trip alone, but apparently he is with a "colleague". when i asked him totake me with him, after all he is renting a room and we both can stay but he declines. He never got my health insurance done, never took me for dmv, no bank account for me, no credit card, i am blocked from his facebook, he never or hardly calls from his 'trips". Never metions word "we" , "our" .He said he doesnt want kids for atleast 6 - 12 months , Infact he went outside USA for a month and he never called, never gave me any money , I am spending money my parents gave me.he expected me to stay at home for 30 days , he doesnt want me to work . We only go out once i two weeks, Usually he tries to buy grocery so i dont go with him.Never took me out alone for dinner, went thrice and his office female friend was with him , which i found out was dating him. If i called he had nothing to say. I am a pakistani girl , so our marriage was arranged , i love him. He doesnt love me, He is a liar , a bad one so his lies get caught by me. i have accepted this fact. So i have three options

    I can go back to pakistan

    I can stay living with him like this live under house arrest

    or can i stay here if i leave him ?

    I dont know about my right as permanent citizen .

    I dont mind goung back but i donbt mind having options.

    I dont feel like , am a part of his life. It will never matter to him if i am around or not.I dont wnat what to do , any suggestions will be appreciated.Please avoid leaving harsh comments. I am already hurt and i cant take rudeness

×
×
  • Create New...