Update: My husband came to America and I applied for his 3 girls which they to came to America. After that all hell broke loose. My husband started beating on his kids and myself. After I was sworn in as an Officer, my husband stop beating me but mental started abusing me. His 2 oldest daughters moved out of our house and got them a job and their own apartment together. Since I work long hours, my husband started sexually abusing his youngest daughter while I was at work. During the trial, I found out he raped his daughter in our home, tried to scare her from not telling me or anyone by telling her he will send her back to Africa. Long story short: my husband which will soon be my ex husband is serving 15 years in prison and his green card has been revoke and he will be detain from ICE and sent back to Nigeria after he serve his time. He also cheated on me in Nigeria with his wife that I didn’t know about and caught HIV which he did give to me. I am fine, taking my medication and I torn down the house we shared and built a new house. All three girls are doing fine and is happy their father is in prison. Learn from my mistake, get hiv test for your spouse or fiancé and do your research on him or her.
So depress right now, I called the NVC and the lady on the phone tells me they havnt started the cr1 interview dates yet for nov but looking at this site, people that are in nigeria have nov dates. I'm calling them back and asking for a supervisor.
I feel your discouragement, but it is only going to frustrate you to call every hour and they have the same shift of people working. Wait a few hours...pray, read, listen to some music...get out of the house, but get away from everything for awhile.
