We are writing this letter to tell the story of our foundation for our love for each other. I joined a dating website called www.pof.com. I was looking for a true foundation of a relationship. I choose originally to look overseas for a relationship because I wanted to explorer a different way life to understand different customs and values. When I first came across Thadsamalee profile I liked what I read about her profile. I choose to contact her. Ms Thadsamalee contacted me and gave me her email address to chat with her on msn instant messenger and also using the cam option on it to begin seeing if we had true feelings for each other. We began chatting and started talking about what we had in common. We were looking for true love to find our soul mate. We enjoy each other’s company and talking about the most simplest things in life together such as cooking different foods, going to markets, shopping and enjoy singing songs was the start of our foundation. We communicated on 2 different programs because of the time difference one was a program called line and the other one was msn instant messenger.
This was the beginning of building our foundation to earn each other’s friendship, trust and respect. I wanted to express my feelings for her and show her that I was falling in love with her so I wanted to send her something that would put a smile on her face because that would bring joy to my heart. I sent her a gorgeous arrangement of roses through a website called www.flowerstothailand.com. The reason why I started falling in love with Ms Thadsamalee is because I felt that she was honest, sincere, caring, kind, humble and down to earth. Knowing that we are on two different parts of the world her living in Thailand and me living in America we both wanted to see if what we had online would be even stronger in person. We talked about it and she wanted to introduce me to her parents and home that she group up. I wanted this also because it would give me the opportunity to get to know her family values and beliefs. Ms Thadsamalee also has a sister in another part of Thailand and I wanted to meet her also. Having never done this before and knowing that I would be traveling alone for about ten thousand miles away from my home and I have to admit it was a little over whelming because of being so far away from home. So I booked a flight for August 13th – August 22th 2012 to meet Ms Thadsamalee I informed my parents about what I was doing and traveling to Thailand. Both were concerned and scared for my well being and safety which I understood. I purchased a phone service call Allvoi to stay in touch with them as I travel outside of the USA. They both gave me their blessing understood that I had to follow my heart to see if there was a true genuine connection through the internet and how we would meet and react in person. I booked the following Itinerary in Thailand to stay at the Pullman resorts in Khon Kaen, Thailand on Wednesday August 15th, 2012 – August 20th, 2012. I wanted to meet her sister also I booked a flight from Khon Kaen, Thailand to Bangkok on Friday August 17th, 2012 and we would be traveling to Kho Chang Island which is in South Thailand. I kept my booking at Pullman because I didn’t want to travel with my entire luggage for only going away for a few days. We Stayed at a beautiful resort on the island called Ramayana on Kho Chang Island,Thailand. I booked 2 rooms one for us and one for her sister. Then on Sunday we would be traveling back to Bangkok and fly to Khon Kaen, Thailand. I arrived in Khon Kaen, Thailand Wednesday at about 7:30 pm and Ms Thadsamalee was waiting for me in the airport. She took me to my hotel to check in and we went to dinner. The feelings for our companionship, friendship and love for each other words can’t describe on how the way I feel about her. The next day Ms Thadsamalee took me to meet her daughter Chatcha and then her parents in Munjakiri. I got to see her home and way of life that she group and met her father and mother. I wrote a letter to her parents which I have included for you. I wrote it in Thai which took me about almost 2 hours and English. I asked her parents for Ms Thadsamalee hand in marriage and they approved for her hand in marriage. The next day we traveled to Bangkok then to Kho Chang with Ms Thadsamalee sister.
It was a very long day for us from 7 am to about arriving at 8 pm at night on the island. I have included a couple of photos of us there. We travel back from Kho Chang Island, Thailand to Bangkok then caught a plane to Khon Kaen, Thailand. We went site seeing around her city and truly enjoy each other’s company.
I, Ms Thadsamale , would like to explain to you why I want to spend the rest of my life with Mr. John. I joined www.pof.com because I wanted to find someone to love and care about that I could spend the rest of my life with. I was looking for a relationship with a different culture other than in my country. Mr. John contacted me on www.pof.com and I gave him my email address on msn to chat with to get to know more about him. We began chatting sharing time together I truly believe that Mr.John is a genuine down to earth gentleman because he is very caring to his family and takes care of his parents. Mr. John was up front and honest to me and didn’t hide anything as we both wanted a relationship built on honesty and trust for one another. He makes me smile and laugh. When we are not together I often think of him. I believe that Mr. John truly loves me and can cares truly about myself, my daughter, sister and parents. I started falling in love with Mr. John on the internet because he is a very romantic person. He sent me flowers twice once in the beginning and then again for mothers day in Thailand August 9th, 2012. I introduced Mr. John to my parents and he asked them for my hand in marriage. My mother believes that he can take care of me and my daughter and she wants me to be happy with my life. She believes that Mr. John is a truly good guy and approves our hand to spend the rest of our lives together. I introduced Mr. John to my sister. She believes that Mr. John is a great genuine guy and that he truly loves me unconditionally.
Our Plans for the future our I would like to exercise the option of the K-1 visa because I would like Ms Thadsamalee to meet my family. I want to show my home to Thadsamalee and her daughter Chatcha and see my way of living in America. I would like to spend more quality time with her on USA soil and get her to know my values and way of life. After a short time of living together about 2 months we will get married. I have not purchased a ring yet because I do not want to walk into a store and purchase one. I want to have one made by choosing the diamonds and band that defines our love and marriage for each other. We will then get married in front of my family and have it videotaped for her family in Thailand to see our bond as we begin our journey in life together.
