mrsGORE

You can always LEAVE the US. There is nothing stopping you and it will not hurt your clean record. The problem is how to re-enter the US if you leave without the proper documention--i.e. GC or AP. If you leave before the GC or receiving AP you wil be like anybody else from the PI and have to prove strong ties to the PI in order to get a tourist visa. You could also get a spousal visa or should you get a divorce from your current husband, you could try for a fiancee visa. You might want to wait until you get the GC or AP and then go to the PI for a while and see what the future brings. You have the stress of a new country, a new husband, and the whole immigration process. It is not easy. My wife and I have had our troubles during the process, but we are committed to the relationship and each other. It is a shame in today's world that we throw marriages away at the first sign of trouble or conflict. A marriage is WORK and requires BOTH parties to be involved for it to survive. Your age has nothing to do with it. It depends on how you feel about your husband and how he feels about you. Sounds like the two of you need to sit down to dinner and have a nice long heart-to-heart talk about your future.
I wish you well,
Dave

Each individual is different,what you consider wrong or inappropriate others think is ok. It's about choices and freedom.
"It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences".
(Audre Lorde)

You'll be fine...be positive this month you'll get greened
Mine is Sept 10 yaaayyyyy.....if the IO have doubts about us I will invite her/him to stop by at our home

where is your local office?? mine filed June,Bio July 9 then Inteview notice Aug 7....
i think it depends on the local office..L.A is really slow though..

The OP just asking for suggestion given what's on his hand to have this thing possible. I know exactly how his kids feel as I grew up with a nanny too. And as a parent-to-be, the peace of mind to leave your kids with person you already know.
Yes, it's not impossible as it is not forbidden in rules but how the rules set-up makes it impossible as you need to prove eligibility.

, so many many things have said! I said I need suggestions and thank you for those who who support my cause and really have the right ideas about going through this process. So, since this a Filipino thread allow me to explain my side in the language: Una, napagtanto ko na yung iba dito ay talagang di nagbasa o walang alam sa senaryo ng pagkuha ng katulong o yaya sa Pilipinas...sadyang matalas ang pananalita na wari mo yung nagtatanong eh wala talagang kaalam-alam. Gaya ng nabanggit ko, marami akong nabasa at ako'y naguluhan kung ano ang pinakamabuti at pinakatamang gawin. Humihingi ako ng payo hindi pagkutya. Muli, Maraming Salamat sa mga nakaintndi sa aking pakay.
Una, puwedeng kumuha ng yaya sa Pilipinas sa pamamagitan ng H1B or yung mga binanggit ng iba dito na au pair. At talagang kailang namin ng yaya para para kaming makapaghanap-buhay.
Pangalawa, kaya kami kukuha ng yaya para sa baby namin ay dahil MAY PAMBAYAD kami.... common sense naman...kukuha ka ba ng katulong na walang pambayad? unless human trafficker ka.....
Pangatlo, yung yaya na kukunin namin ay yaya pa ng aking asawa at dalawa niyang kapatid sapul pa noong 1980's- naging pamilya na siya at hanggang ngayon ay skiya ang tumatao sa bahay-bakasyunan ng aking biyenan.
Pang-apat, nami-miss siya ng tatlong magkakapatid kaya gusto rin nila siyang makapunta na dito.
Talos ko po at aral ko po na ang Labor Dept ng Amerika ay hindi basta-basta nagpapahintulot ng pagkuha ng trabahador sa ibang bansa kung yaman din lang na marami ang kwalipikado dito. Kung kailangan mo talagang kumuha ay kailangan mong magpaliwanag sa Labor.
, sa madaling sabi kaya ako naglagay ng topic na ganito ay para makakuha ng iba pang ideya, ng mga karanasan para sa prosesong ito. And lastly, I posted this to Philippine thread not to be bashed or to be mistreated by a fellow-Filipino........ If you don't want my topic please save spaces for those who want to share. Thank you,

congratssssss!!!

yes but still haven't received my EAD yet
I thought I'm the only one dreaming bout it lol....and in my dream I was approved lol
lest pray and hope for you notice soon....