oh my, well he is a life guard at one of the resorts there and I met him about 2 years ago. Since then I have been to jamaica too many times. The amazing thing is I have a phoiba of flying but it is amazing what love will let you over come.
You can assure him that you love him no matter the distance or time. That this is simply a process and paperwork. Take it one form at a time and one payment at a time. See him as much as you can and from time to time find a way to surprise him!