I do realize that the advice not to plan a wedding is all over this place, and I'm not looking for sympathy. I haven't put down any money that I will lose. We have a free venue. I'm not that upset IF we have to change the date. The date honestly isn't the big deal... it's the NOT KNOWING!
I did realize my honey needed the card. I thought he took it with him. He didn't.
He really did think he had received an approval. He never told me he received a paper until a few days ago. Miscommunication, yes. He isn't the one reading all over this site and knowing what to look for and what to be aware of. He didn't realize what administrative processing meant the way I knew what it meant.
What I really want to know is:
Why does AP take so long?
How do we know if we really ARE in AP?
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