Very true about why soon afterwards. We were of course friends so she listed that on the DS-160 B2 application since 'lovers' is not a politically term I suppose. She was to come here, visit, then go back, then we would have got engaged on the phone.
I will ask her to state it that way. Also, me going twice a year to visit her for over three years now will help I suppose. I enclosed all the photos and boarding passes etc for the Bahamasair airline and hotels
Thanks for the advice
David