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Caryh,

You hit the nail in the head..its about learning & adjusting you are right.

Hello there,

I've been reading your post since last night & tge responces from our fellow vj members.First off you are the only one who can answer your thoughts why she cried like unbelievable,I did not come here to judge You or here I just wanna share what's in my guts,what exactly what happened can you please define the "what kind of snapped u did to her?"are you certain that you just snapped at her?we women are very sensitive sometimes specially during the period of adjusting our lives here in usa,its very hard.if we get hurt emotionally we just stay silent and hide and didn't want to talk.

Now I didn't say I don't believe your story I'm just saying what exactly the snapped thing happened?Think possibly how deep you hurt her feelings?

For those filipina fellow said she just used him...come on give me a break we don't know what exactly what happened do not conclude. you guys have to hear the two sides of the story.we did not hear her side...I am not depending her as I don't know her.

I don't say move on...but contacting uscis is best bet..God bless you...and think hard of every decision you ganna make

Caryh,

Your doing a great job!I wish all of those spouses has same atitude like you do.We need some emotional support during these time not push away or"send him/her back home" what your doing is showing love,understanding,sacrifice & mature one....

Congrats!!I am confuse you said you have a husband meaning you are married but why you have "CENOMAR"?

Me too..I am very nostalgic.we live in san bernardino wish we r just kapitbahay.we can stil talk, chat and make frends pm me.

Yep she need to renew her Philippine passport.Go to Philippine consulate near your place & have her passport renewed.It would take less than a month.But they won't renew her passport without reporting your marriage.They do it all together for less than a month.

Shin shin,

You got a nice idea there posted by sandranj.If you want to face any trouble & doubt at all during re-entry as your main concern then you should think about every decision you ganna make.for the meantime take a break maybe we can chat sometimes to lessen your pain I am filipina too.pm me & relax.

If you don't want to face trouble or doubt I mean*

Hello,

So sorry about your situation.From what I've read if you've gine for more than 6months uscis will remove or revoke your GC.I've heard a lot of stories about USC reported their wives because marriage ddnt work or their wives cheated or whatsoever.If your husband reported you sure uscis will ask for proof that you entered to thus country just to have a GC.

Now if he doesn't have any legal proof against you what the hell is the uscis ganna do with it.Don't be scared about his threat.He is just mad & trying to kick u out of this country.Let say e is not happy anymore to be with and simply send you back home.You are not a washing machine once he purchase & ddnt work he will bring you back to store and simply says ddnt work let me I'm taking my money back.

Start looking for a job,continue your life & next time be careful of chosing a man.No body doesn't have a right to control us,Don't let your life to be controlled.Live free with pride.If you want to see your family go ahead & bring all your paperwork with you...God bless you...think positive

Hi,

You will need ssn & valid 1-94 as well.if you go to dmv somewhere in victorville they don't issue you w/o a green card.

Masipag

Seems like your approved but its just a waiting game.

Hi,

I'm sorry to hear your pain. which part of california are you in?maybe we can talk,hang out & visit each other during the time of"boredness":)I feel the same way girl your not alone

I hope you are looking for a "dude"not dudette..just kidding.

Never eard this travel agency but you can "google" their name and see what's their feedback.good luck

Hello,

If you guys can't fix or go marriage counselling to save marriage then get divorce.I've heard these situation many times here in visa journey seems like all their concern is "how to stay"rather saving the marriage.anyway we don't know what's really the reason and its not our business.I think just get divorce and let the immigration make a decision if its possible to remain in us.as long as you have tons of evidence and that you enter in a good faith I don't think why not.the green card is not worth to sacrifice your life & happiness..ugh......

Hello,

I understand your situation but I gotta tell you someting,life is too short we have given a chance to live in this world.if you aren't happy then DON'T STAY!!!if you feel that you were stuck don't think that way because your NOT.

If he is going to take your name out of"joint bank account"then so be it.that's only a money you can earn it later!!!!I think your husband is insecure & not trusting you.insecure because seems like he doesn't want you to be independent & earn your own money.not trusting you because he might think if you have enough money you will leave him.that's most of the men biggest FEAR.....

if you want to be trusted show some reason that you are trusthworthy p

Hello there,

I would say use fedex to send documents,BUT NOT for package like gadget and stuff like that.

My fiance used fed ex from cali to iloilo took 3 days.amazing is they called first make sure I am.hime isn't that special?)

Home*

Hello there,

I would say visit her,her family & learn her culture.Observe and take time to know each other...I am also a filipina married to a US cit.learning from differences is a big factor in relationship..build a strong relationship then decide which is the best for you or suitable for you guys.

For me the best route is K-1 that way you dont have to hurry in marrying,give u a time to know each other specially in times of "hard time"then it will give you 90 days to decide to get married when she gets here.let's see what she feels about the life in america together.Living in the same roof is A LOT different than life over the "net" its easy to say those words.now living together is like waking up in reality.

Wish u all the best:)

Lbc try no been dealing with them reliable sila trusted p.

Try nio I mean

Hey,

They aren't going to deport you for having a problem in your name.go to immigration.office & bring your bcertificate & all necessary docu's.

ofcourse we used middle name FIRST NAME,MIDDLE NAME & LAST NAME.

you need to match all your name & spelling when applying for SSN,GC,STATE ID,PASSPORT,BANK ACCNT NAME so you don't have to problem in the future...

Good luck

Guys,

How do you count the household size the joint sponsor has one kid which is already 21 yrs old living with her mom & working in the hospital and the original sponsor living with wife & dad in the same roof.how many household size shud she put?we are both confuse..

And how about the income shud the joint sponsor & original sponsor will combine the income??thank you once again

Thank you very much for the info.have a bless day!!!!

2.does her husband stil sign and fill out the 1-864??

Good morning vj members & friends out there....

I have a question regarding my girlfriend situation.she is going to apply green card she is already here in us.but her husband income is not enough.

1.she had joint sponsor not living their to their house what forms does her joint sponsor need to fill out???

2.how about her house does he stil fill oit the 1-864?

Thank you in advance

It depend but mostly the manila embassy ddnt accept co-sponsor on k-1 visa applicant. I've heard one story a friend of mine she was

approved having co-sponsor bcoz her fiance is student,early 20's not making enough money bcoz he is going to school & just started his financial stability..for some other case if your fiance let say 50years old up retired just living with low income,(from pension) unfortunately its impossible to get approve with co-sponsor.

Is your ssn is under middle name???if so u can.go back to ssa office and bring your marriage certificate to put your name change but stil you will have the same number.you will only have same number for the rest of your life.

regarding the restriction on ur ssn card you can talk to them and show them your gc to remove tge restriction into allowed to work.

Maiden name I mean not middle name