Maybe he was embarrassed because he didn't have enough money at that time and didn't want to admit it. I know sometimes men feel pressured to be the "provider" and depending on his (and your) cultures, maybe he didn't want to admit that at the time, he was financially unable to file.
Or, maybe he just wasn't quite ready to file and didn't want to hurt YOUR feelings so he stalled a bit.
Whatever the real reason is, he's filed it now and you can either move forward together or you can confront him with your doubts.
Good luck with everything.
With all the lies that have already been told and are being prepared to tell there is nothing but trouble ahead.
Do the right thing, and the smart thing, and tell the truth from the beginning.
When she is caught with all the lies, she will have a lifetime ban to US entry.
So, be stupid and live together outside the US. Or, be smart and you can live in the US.
From what I've read, if you receive food stamps, under your name, not hers, that will come back to haunt you when you apply for her permanent residency. That's when you have to be above poverty and they will look into all your finances. Fiancé visa is easier than perm resident. Going to hawaii and being on food stamps isn't looked at when you're a citizen, but when applying for residency you will be questioned hard.
I have two jobs to save save save before my fiancé comes so we have some savings. I know how much he eats... He will triple my food bill lol. However, my fiancé is also working hard so he can help when he comes. We are doing a small cheap cabin honeymoon, with an extra week off work to spend in our apartment. We are saving for our one year to be lavish. Mainly because hopefully we will save enough for our dream trip to, Hawaii. So I know it's a want... Boy do I know... But sometimes, its better to wait and be lavish when you can be sure your finances will be secure post trip.
Besides, so many couples go on lavish honeymoons, and don't make it to a year. Celebrate your anniversary in style... So very many never get to. It seems more special to enjoy an event more people miss out on.
Do what you want, but that's my suggestion.
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