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Thank you so much for your understanding and support. I am afraid that your assessment of the situation is quite accurate. I am hoping beyond hope that this transition will be as trouble free as possible, but am prepared for the worst. I just feel bad for my poor child being caught in the middle of this mess. I wish my ex would see how this type of behavior does nothing but hurt our child.
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A big thank you to everyone for your feedback, it was helpful to hear all different opinions and experiences to get a good idea of how to proceed with this very difficult situation.

Thank you so much for your understanding and support. I am afraid that your assessment of the situation is quite accurate. I am hoping beyond hope that this transition will be as trouble free as possible, but am prepared for the worst. I just feel bad for my poor child being caught in the middle of this mess. I wish my ex would see how this type of behavior does nothing but hurt our child.
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A big thank you to everyone for your feedback, it was helpful to hear all different opinions and experiences to get a good idea of how to proceed with this very difficult situation.

Um, last time I checked, the US government doesn't issue visas to felons and drug users.
Why was my ex allowed to move someone into their home without even telling me and all of a sudden I am supposed to jump through hoops to make them feel good and secure when the tables are turned. We have nothing to hide, but I don't think the ex has the right to pry without any cause except irrational fear.
Last thing you want to have to worry about and deal with when arriving here is a angry, controlling and jealous ex spouse.

I was looking for anyone who has had experience with the legality of these demands being made by the ex, not just opinions. I should have been clear in my initial post.
I already understand how these fears arise and why.

Um, last time I checked, the US government doesn't issue visas to felons and drug users.
Why was my ex allowed to move someone into their home without even telling me and all of a sudden I am supposed to jump through hoops to make them feel good and secure when the tables are turned. We have nothing to hide, but I don't think the ex has the right to pry without any cause except irrational fear.
Last thing you want to have to worry about and deal with when arriving here is a angry, controlling and jealous ex spouse.

I was looking for anyone who has had experience with the legality of these demands being made by the ex, not just opinions. I should have been clear in my initial post.
I already understand how these fears arise and why.