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    TCarey reacted to hamtaro in The full truth about mental health issues   
    I got my visa with no issues. I went through hell though in the run up to it. I received much conflicting information about whether I would be eligible. I had lots of people online doubt I was eligible. I went through extreme panic. I had the embassy helpline itself (the expensive one) tell me I needed a freaking hardship waiver. None of this was true.
    I am diagnosed with a lifelong mental health issue which is caused by a brain disorder. I was raised by abusive parents (father's abuse, mother's fear of it causing her to turn a blind eye) who couldn't deal with it. I left home to marry an abusive and alcoholic man who couldn't deal with it. The doctors throughout my life didn't listen to me, they listened to my parents and ex husband. It's like I wasn't there. My medical records were therefore terrible, full of complaints of erractic, aggressive behaviour on my part. No mention at all of provocation or abuse. I left my ex-husband and since getting involved with my American husband I have had no outbursts of anger, no depression, no self harming. I have held down a steady job for 2 years.
    It was my express intention to avoid USCIS seeing my medical records because a large bulk of it was hearsay from other people and the behaviours were in fact a result of abuse. I was convinced of this because having removed said people from my life the behaviours ceased 100%.
    I have seen a visa lawyer and a private psych and if you feel you need similar help please PM me and I will pass on the details of those professionals who helped me.
    This is a guide for others in a similar bad situation so they stop worrying. I didn't have any such thing. I said I would write about such a thing if I got through this. I got through this with flying colours.
    First off if you have a mental disorder and you do not harm yourself or cause harm to others and you went to USA in the past and ticked "no" on visa waiver and ESTA you did NOT COMMIT MISREPRESENTATION. The guidelines for ESTA (and you can find them on the site) specifically state to only tick yes to this question if there is CURRENT harmful behaviour. So even though the question states simply "Do you have a mental disorder" and you ticked no, RELAX. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE CHARGED WITH MISREP IN THE PAST WHEN YOU DO YOUR FINAL VISA INTERVIEW.
    Second off, on the question forms you send in at NVC there is a question which asks "Do you have or have you had a mental disorder which causes or may cause harm to self or others." It's confusing and can trip people. The correct way of interpreting this question is "Do you have or have you had a mental disorder which may cause harm in the future." In fact if you check the newer online application form used by Canada and other countries they have actually reworded this question to be explicit as to this fact. So RELAX. If you have had a condition which caused yourself to harm in the past, and you are confident you are stable now and will stay stable, relax. You can tick no.
    If you have a medical history which is bad for reasons such of lack of diagnosis, poor treatment, wrong medication adminitered whatever and you feel it reflects terribly on you, here's how to avoid disclosing as much of it as possible. I'm not telling you to lie. Only tell the truth, but don't disclose anything you aren't asked. I have seen a lawyer about this. I came armed with my full history. The lawyer advised me that because a lot of the history was third party accounts that I could likely persuade my doctor of this and I could get help from them. Yep, the history looked bad. Here's what I did.
    I got good character references from my boss and acquaintances. I gave them to my doctor. Still experiencing a little resistance I persuaded my mother to come see my GP and admit the past abuse in childhood. It was updated to my file. My doctor then became a lot more ameniable. They wrote me a great account for the visa medical. They mentioned my diagnoses, but not the hearsay and not the guesswork (what psychs had guessed I had pre final diagnosis. Some of it was bad. Some of it (personality disorders) would have meant ineligibility.)
    I paid to see a private psych, I gave them my full history, I gave them details of my recovery having left my ex. I got them very much on my side. I got a SPARKLING good account from them to give to the doctors at the visa medical.
    When I attended said medical I brought the GP's letter (It also said I had never been treated in inpatient psych care, voluntarily or otherwise - important if you can claim this too), the psych's letter, and the good character references from my boss and superiors, as well as tax returns for 2 years showing stable employmemt.
    I was told at the medical they required no more information, that what I gave them was very helpful in their decision and that they were passing the results to the embassy.
    At the embassy I was told I had been passed as "class B" - a managed mental disorder. I passed my interview and got my visa with no issues.
    This is definitely what you need to hear if you are going through the terror I went through in the lead-up to getting this visa.
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    TCarey reacted to Jarrod&Vicky in Medical Exam Argentina   
    Hi! If the exam is the same as for k1 holders, you don't need to fill out any form. Just make sure you bring all your vaccines records and the doc will be the one filling out the right form. On the first visit he'll send you to have a chest x ray taken (cheap way to check for TB) and a blood test (just checking for stds, only Sifilis if I can recall correctly). On the second visit he does a basic physical exam and hands you an envelope with the results. No gynecological exam, no urine... You've been reading way too much VJ! Lol
    Nothing weird, relax. If you're going to see Dr. Kelly, he's great!
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    TCarey reacted to mjrussell in Question about whether translation is needed for NVC   
    Thought I'd give this thread a little more closure, I sent an email to SantiagoImmigration@state.gov regarding this translation, they replied back that no translation is required for the police records (Certificado de Antecedentes). They didn't address my comment about uncertainty of exactly what needed to be translated, but that the one document I specifically was wondering about does not.
    Maybe someone else will find this info useful, thanks everyone!
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    TCarey reacted to mjrussell in Question about whether translation is needed for NVC   
    I've seen a little bit of conflicting information on this, so I thought I'd ask specifically about it... We just a couple of days ago received the police certificate for my wife. It's from Chile, so it's in Spanish. I've read a couple places that for documents going to the NVC to accompany the DS-230, they don't necessarily need to be translated if they're in the native language of the country where the beneficiary will have his/her interview, but wanted to check to see if I misinterpreted that (if it's true). This document should be an easy one, she's never had any trouble so there's nothing really to it, but I don't want to spend the money and hold up the process if it's not necessary to translate it.
    I appreciate any insight on this!
    Michael
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    TCarey reacted to Gosia & Tito in Labeling pictures on the G-325   
    Yes, in pencil or soft tip marker black in the back of the picture (unless specifically noted to put in the front); also, date when it was taken; Should the pictures become lose and shuffled, that is the least you should do to help finding the matching petition.
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