Live together as common law spouse in the PHL for 18yrs.prior his coming to america last 2009..We have 5 kids together..He become a u.s citizen in 2010..he filed I129f for me and I130 for our kids..still waiting for its approval..We receive RFE for our kids..dont have the written notice yet..We havent seen each other for 3 yrs.now..But am praying and hoping that everything would be just fine..We miss him so much...