Adriene H

Sorry if this is a bit off topic, but was hoping some UK folks might know this one ...

My husband and I married in Lancashire, UK in June 2011. When we stated our intentions to the Register's office, he said he'd never been married before (because he didn't have the £££ to send away for a copy of his divorce decree from a previous marriage). He now wants to divorce me. Will his earlier declaration cause him problems now?

Could a British citizen who's been deported from the USA mainland back in 1996

for meth possession:

Get a tourist visa to the US Virgin Islands?

Congressman Chris Van Hollen (Maryland's 8th District)

http://vanhollen.house.gov/contact/

Looks like there are several ... not sure what district you are in

Might want to do some research starting here ...

http://www.inis.gov.ie/en/INIS/Pages/WP07000024

My ex-mother-in-law is Canadian, has lived in Canada all her life, has access to Canadian healthcare. Has had cancer several times over the years that seems to come back up, and she keeps beating it into remission.

Her last bout ... she went just over the border from San Diego into Mexico ... and got her chemo treatments in Mexico for like 7 weeks. I remember her mentioning years ago that while the healthcare was excellent in Canada ... it took ages to get an appointment to see the kind of doctor she required

The alternative to the MMR is to get blood titres showing that you have immunity to measles mumps and rubella, but of course it is easier to just get the shot.

Careful on that one ... when we called my husband's GP here in Lancashire, they were not familiar with the term 'titre test'

Now he is on his way to hospital in an ambulance.

About 15 minutes after he woke up today, he started having

immobilizing pain in his man parts region. He was doubled

over and having to lie on the floor.

You are in a tough situation. It's good that you have realized that you need to do something about and get out. It sounds like you have done all that you could. If he's unreasonable there is nothing you can do about it. He's responsible for what he says and does, not you. He's trying to lay a guilt trip on you. Don't let him. Stand your ground and stand up for yourself. You deserve better. And I wish you the best for the trying times you are facing.

He's told me more than once that he thinks 'emotional responsibility' is a bunch of 'psycho-babble BS'

This was after an argument with him telling me I made him miserable and the sound of my voice is

making him suicidal

I'm grateful beyond words. Thank you for listening. Thank you for showing me that I'm not

being unreasonable in my desire to be responsible.

The biggest obstacle in my mind I think is the question of where I will go once I get back.

My closest relatives are aunts and cousins related to my step-father. I feel like I've

always been the black sheep of the family, but I have a friend who says she'll do whatever

she can to help me when I return. I don't want to ever overstay my welcome with her and her

family, and I was researching public/affordable housing in the area I used to live in the

other night. There were some with only a 2-3 month waiting list so I will be posting letters

asking to be placed on their lists.

I'm starting to notice that it's less painful thinking of a plan to get back, than it is

thinking of solutions to the issues I am facing. I feel like my husband's put up an

emotional/mental brick wall and I slammed into it @ 90 mph when he said what he said

about his lack of willingness to use protection during this phase in our lives where

we're barely able to support ourselves. I've never been very adept at spotting 'red flags'

in my personal relationships ... but this one just makes me a little sick inside.

Getting the pill hasn't been easy the past few years. I need to keep my blood pressure in

check with beta blockers and I'm 36. I'm a pretty highstrung woman and I could stand to lose

a few pounds and doctor's are wary of letting me use them anymore.

But his disregard towards my reprodutive wishes just leaves an emotional rock sitting in

my stomach that I'm unable to digest.

I'm having a very low period lately. Please go under 'View My Content' and find my last post on the topic 'Birth Control'

Please

I've started formulating a plan for a smooth return back to where I came from.

I'm hoping to avoid a quick pack-n-dash exit and the stress that would come

with that.

Putting myself on waiting lists for public housing/affordable apartments so

I can try and have a place to go once I touchdown at the airport.

I don't know how to explain the different levels of pain I felt when he said

he doesn't enjoy sex enough to wear anything. I feel ostracized for trying

to be responsible. I've been told I am evil and being disrespectful to my husband

when I try to talk to friends. They think I'm bashing him. I'm just trying to get

different perspectives and approaches, because I can see that the ones I'm

using Aren't Working. Nothing is working ...

Everyone has asked me 'Why don't you just talk to him?'

I have tried to talk. Over a year. He either tells me 'I'm sick

of pandering to your insecurities!' or 'These are Your issues! You Deal with them!'

We'll have terrible arguments. He acts all loving the next day.

I really can't think or talk about this stuff without crying and shaking,

and I know this isn't healthy, but I just don't know what to do anymore

So if there's anyone out there listening, please talk to me. Fear is clouding

my judgement on just about everything. I'm sorry

Hiya ...

I just received back the info I requested regarding my husband's deportation from the US back in 1996.

I'm having a bit of trouble deciphering what the info means.

If anyone has a few moments, can I please email a few scanned pages to take a look at?

@Wishin-n-hopin, that's the same thing my fiance is experiencing.. they have no clue what it is he needs and looks at him like he's crazy . I'll pass this along for him to request. Thank you so much!!

You're not alone .... we called my husband's GP not long ago and they'd never heard of a titre test

Had another talk with my husband last night, who shared with me that he 'doesn't like sex enough to bother using a condom'

He also has started telling me that I'm making him feel suicidal.

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Just received an email saying that I-30 Petition to Alien relative was transferred to another office what does it mean? they don't even mention where is that office at..anyone?

Maybe they transferred it to your local office?

Congratulations!

Is it normal to wait more than a month for the nvc to give a case number? The first time we called they said they did not have it, and to send them a scanned copy of the NOA2 to their email address. I sent 3 emails overall to NVCResearch@state.gov and NVCINQUIRY@state.gov. I get no response either from this.

I read other people say to ready myself that it might take a month for NVC to give a number, but in this case it has been more than a month. How much longer do we have to wait? I am holding my patience here because I honestly thought waiting for the NOA2 was the worst part of the fiancee visa process.

We received our NOA2 on June 5 and NVC is still not showing us in their system yet

I believe you must be a permanent resident in order to purchase a gun in the US. Unless someone else has any suggestions, consider checking with the Game Dept in the state you would like to hunt and see what their requirements are.

Check things like the Game Dept, Dept of Fish & Wildlife, etc

2. parents of USC are deported all the time - zero statistical data in this statement

My husband is the father of an 18 year old USC.

He was deported from the USA in 1996 for misdemeanor possession of meth.

The mother of his child ran off tweaking the first 2 years of the child's

life and the grandmother cared for the child. He hasn't seen his child

in person for 16 years.

Does this change your 'statistical data' any?

Out of curiosity, how are you supporting yourself?

I'm guessing taxi driver, courier, food delivery .... something that requires a DL

Hi Guys,

Anyone with an I130 in CSC got recently approved and NOA2 ?

What PD do you have? Please post it here.

I am looking for PDs with Sep/Oct/Nov/Dec 2011 to comment if they received NOA2 or not yet...

It seems CSC is really slowing down (playing a game to catch up with VCS's 1 year processing...)

thanks

Our priority date is August 31, 2011 .... our NOA2 was finally received June 5, 2012

Congratulations!

are you sure she did really file it? kinda sound fishy for me...oh well just don't mind me lol anyhow just file it again...AND make sure she will give you a receipt#...if not, i will go to my guts and she up to something...goodluck!!!!

how can they expedite if theres no file in the record???

If USCIS cashed their first check/money order, and they can show

bank statements reflecting the deduction. I bet when they re-send

the I-129F, they can submit the proof ...

My case is in NVC today, wonder how long to wait to get a case number?

Maybe another 10 business days or so? Hopefully it's sooner!