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  1. Having fun playing Super Mario Bros w/ both of my babies......my husband and daughter. :)ing big! :) Hope you guys are too! It's the weekend! :)

  2. Let me start by saying anyone married to a Nigerian man has probably experienced that their sense of humor can be a little off, but there are times when you can throw them for a loop...lol

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      LAGOSLOVE

      YOU'VE GONE MADD! Lord have mercy what the what! Yall better stop playing! you know how far this could have gone!! but you are some kinda crazy..lol

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  3. HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND EVERYONE!

  4. Who knew that it's possible to fall in love all over again?? Seeing my husband @ the airport made my heart drop and jump! :) But being beside him, makes the heart skip a few beats. :)

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      LAGOSLOVE

      CONGRATS! I CALLED YOU BUT I SEE YOU BOTH ARE ALL "TIED" UP! LOL...HAVING A GET TOGETHER DEC 23 AT MY HOUSE...ALL THE GROUP WILL BE THERE..WE WANT YOU AND HUBBY TO COME DOWN AND JOIN US....COME ON PLEASE

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  5. My lady bug had her 2 month check up...weighing in at 9lbs 8oz and 20.25 inches long...go lady bug...do your thing...such progress on her part...Mammy loves you

  6. My lady bug had her 2 month check up...weighing in at 9lbs 8oz and 20.25 inches long...go lady bug...do your thing...such progress on her part...Mammy loves you

  7. The secret to having hope for your future is remembering what God has done in your past!

  8. UPDATE: It has been one year today Nov 19 that Prince has been in the United States. Boy time goes fast. But in all that time there was so much growth. I...mean Marriage is definately taking care of one another. We've gone thru one huge surgery, sicknesses. Loss of employmemt, struggles to keep going...however we've gone thru gainful employment, two new cars, nursing eachother thru illnesses learning to communicate effectively, how to deal with anger and how to love boundlessly and al...

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      LAGOSLOVE

      truth is if your husband or wife is here now in the states reality has kicked in and life is coming at you hard. Now it's time to put in the real work of being married...for better or worse :)thank God for patience and love.

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  9. I want to send a SPECIAL SHOUT TO Ryan H who walked me through this ENTIRE process and feel my Petition was APPROVED according to his "guidance." LAGOSLOVE & my girl Olomi_811. I APPRECIATE YOU GUYS

  10. NIGERIAN PARTY CELEBRATION.....OWERRI PARTY NOV 23 1102 DOWNS ROAD STE-A PINEVILLE NC 28134 SPECIAL INVITATION ....PARTY STARTS AT 9....WE WILL MEET AT 10PM. REAL CHARLOTTE HOUSEWIVES OF AFRICA REPRESENT... AFRICAN ATTIRE IF YOU HAVE IT...IF NOT DRESS OR DRESS CASUAL SEXY :)

  11. Six months in and last night he verbalized "...I want to do my job as your husband." Two months ago this might have impressed me. Today it just pisses me off.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      So I'm in training to trust. but watching the money too...I aint no fool. Willingness, to try despite all odds with adjustment in self refection and teaching by showing...not always "you need to..." because it just shuts them down. Be pissed off but see if he owns his statement...then own yours..let's see..but not give up just yet...I know I know I know...and I love you sis. whew this was long!

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  12. Six months in and last night he verbalized "...I want to do my job as your husband." Two months ago this might have impressed me. Today it just pisses me off.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      I am afraid to spend...and you know he has no trouble with it. My brother said to me...you must trust your husband with the finances..I looked at him like his head fell off and rolled down the hall. Prince was all up in the chest like "yea!" My brother looked at him and said she will trust you but if one bill falls behind...the s#!! is on you and you better be damn sure you can handle it.

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  13. Six months in and last night he verbalized "...I want to do my job as your husband." Two months ago this might have impressed me. Today it just pisses me off.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      You must lead and teach by example though you must be ready to be led...Lord help us all with this one. Especially if you feel the leader is not ready for the task. My brother mediated a disagreement with Prince and I...

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  14. Six months in and last night he verbalized "...I want to do my job as your husband." Two months ago this might have impressed me. Today it just pisses me off.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      with each passing day I find out something I love about him just like he find something he loves about me...flip the script and the same applies to what we hate about each other and in the middle of it all....we find a way to to mesh both the likes and dislikes. It's a hard road dealing with the culture imbalance. What is even harder is change...yea we never what to lose ourselves in change but in Marriage, there must be some transformation and some sacrifice..(more yes more)sacrifice and...

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  15. Six months in and last night he verbalized "...I want to do my job as your husband." Two months ago this might have impressed me. Today it just pisses me off.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      In my mind I thought my husband should still be that sweet talking, ever soothing my soul and almost perfect man he was when we were on web cam or when I was in Nigeria. Truth is neither one of us truly know how to be a husband or a wife because we are learning each other first.

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  16. Six months in and last night he verbalized "...I want to do my job as your husband." Two months ago this might have impressed me. Today it just pisses me off.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      It dawned on me the other day after having a powwow with Prince that being a husband and being a wife is a continuous learning project.When he got off that plane he in "his mind" he thought he knew what a husband is supposed to do and how to act and mostly what me as a wife should be doing and or not saying...

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  17. I hope everyone had a very blessed Thanksgiving Day...for those still waiting...hang in there and "lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh your help"...God's got it!!

  18. NIGERIAN PARTY CELEBRATION.....OWERRI PARTY NOV 23 1102 DOWNS ROAD STE-A PINEVILLE NC 28134 SPECIAL INVITATION ....PARTY STARTS AT 9....WE WILL MEET AT 10PM. REAL CHARLOTTE HOUSEWIVES OF AFRICA REPRESENT... AFRICAN ATTIRE IF YOU HAVE IT...IF NOT DRESS OR DRESS CASUAL SEXY :)

  19. I hope everyone had a very blessed Thanksgiving Day...for those still waiting...hang in there and "lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh your help"...God's got it!!

  20. The one evening I show up unexpectedly at his job and he happens to be working overtime and he is no where near doing his job description...lol! Now I see firsthand!!

  21. Ooo lawd I just watched him drive the jack at work...damn that was sexy!!

  22. Coming up on 1 year anniversary for my honey's arrival to the good ole' USA...hmmm should we celebrate or save it for the real anniversary (#5) in July 2013 and do it up big?

  23. All Nigerian Friends and Family, please keep Christine Clausen in your prayers. She lost her mother and her two children in a car accident this past weekend. Her husband has an interview next month. Pray fervently he gets to come home to her right away, she needs him here now more than ever. Christine, her children and her mother all lived in the same home. God bless this family. In Jesus Name.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      GOD IS FOREVER FAITHFUL. HE WILL BE HER COMFORTER IN THIS TIME OF NEED. I KNOW THAT OUR LORD JESUS IS GUIDING HER RIGHT NOW AND HE WILL MAKE SURE THAT HER NEEDS ARE TAKEN CARE OF. HER MOTHER AND CHILDREN REST IN HIS CARE AN RIGHT NOW IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST I CLAIM THE VICTORY FOR HER HUSBAND. THE ENEMY HAS NOT WON...JUST LIKE JOB LOST EVERYTHING..FOR HE DID NOT LOSE HIS SOUL. SATAN YOU TAKE YOUR HANDS OFF THIS FAMILY AND I COMMAND YOU TO GO BACK TO HELL WHERE YOU BELONG. I PLEAD THE BLOO...

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  24. UPDATE: It has been one year today Nov 19 that Prince has been in the United States. Boy time goes fast. But in all that time there was so much growth. I...mean Marriage is definately taking care of one another. We've gone thru one huge surgery, sicknesses. Loss of employmemt, struggles to keep going...however we've gone thru gainful employment, two new cars, nursing eachother thru illnesses learning to communicate effectively, how to deal with anger and how to love boundlessly and al...

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      LAGOSLOVE

      WELCOME EVERYONE. I appreciate all the well wishes. In my updates I like to keep them open and honest because Marriage is a living action. I goes over hills, thru valleys, it has highs and lows...Love is so amazing but it is work. I try to encourage everyone to keep working keep pushing...laugh when you want to argue, argue when it's truly worth the fight. And in the calmness enjoy your lives.

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  25. UPDATE: It has been one year today Nov 19 that Prince has been in the United States. Boy time goes fast. But in all that time there was so much growth. I...mean Marriage is definately taking care of one another. We've gone thru one huge surgery, sicknesses. Loss of employmemt, struggles to keep going...however we've gone thru gainful employment, two new cars, nursing eachother thru illnesses learning to communicate effectively, how to deal with anger and how to love boundlessly and al...

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      LAGOSLOVE

      because culture shock is insane!!! LOL. HAPPY FIRST YEAR TO MY SUPER SUPPORTIVE HUSBAND... I LOVE YOU!

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