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  1. Well Hello Everyone...Old Friends New Friends too. I have not been here for a while... I've been on a voyage. When Prince came I was putting time into so many places that I realized that I needed to put more time into us. Our Voyage has strenthened us and we have a bond that I knew we could have has husband and wife. Has it been perfect...Heck no! LOL it's been beautiful and trial by fire all at once but we are dedicated to stay together no matter what comes our way. We did send o...

  2. Well Hello Everyone...Old Friends New Friends too. I have not been here for a while... I've been on a voyage. When Prince came I was putting time into so many places that I realized that I needed to put more time into us. Our Voyage has strenthened us and we have a bond that I knew we could have has husband and wife. Has it been perfect...Heck no! LOL it's been beautiful and trial by fire all at once but we are dedicated to stay together no matter what comes our way. We did send o...

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      LAGOSLOVE

      We did send off our Removal of Condition...got an RFE...sent them off again...got an interview. AHA! well we went and it wasn't anything we thought... we where in and out in 20 min and that includes sitting down. The interviewer asked basic questions, looked at pics wanted to hear our story and gave us the 10 year visa. Now he's studying for Citizenship... I am now armed with a wealth of information to share... Well Hello again and I hope to hear from everyone! Big shout out t...

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  3. Ooooooo I'm so late....Congratulations to you both. I had no idea your hubby was home...Welcome to America Souleymon!!!!

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Souleymon...stay true to your roots...don't allow America to alter your notions. If you need to talk..find like brothers...who are married and can teach you what they have learned. HY...you have us married women here to bounce things off of...if you find anyone negative..send them away. We are all about staying married

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  4. Ooooooo I'm so late....Congratulations to you both. I had no idea your hubby was home...Welcome to America Souleymon!!!!

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Aya820 and I had our husbands come in around the same time...if there is one thing we know is that you have to love thru it..communication, listening, being quiet so that you can hear... like I said...a new love is growing. The romantic Nigeria..long wait is passed on..Now for the realness of that love. It will grow into a new respect and stronger.. .

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  5. sorry haven't posted in awhile, stressing, adjusting for both of us has been extremely hard

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      LAGOSLOVE

      It's what you don't say that makes them listen and ready to compromise.

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  6. sorry haven't posted in awhile, stressing, adjusting for both of us has been extremely hard

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Adjustment is hard...stressful and can overwhelm...practice patience and talk it out... been there...so I know how difficult it can be...there is a new love growing between you two. Allow it room for mistakes and retakes. Even though husband has been with me almost two years we still have to push thru...work it out...even when it may seem doubtful..there is God's love that reminds us that we can pull it together. If you don't have the words..silence works wonders...sometimes it's...

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  7. We say thank you Jesus, my hubby's visa has been approved. We can now start our life together and he will finally meet his baby girl face to face. God is good!!!! Best of luck to everyone here waiting to be reunited with there loved ones. Keep the faith and God is always on your side.

  8. You have a beautiful story, it makes me feel very hopeful and positive about me and my hubby.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      You should feel very inspired Mrs.Omogbai... If you have negative people around you then they will kill your dream..cut them off or regulate them. Your happiness with your husband is paramount to what anyone else may think or even have the ability to understand. Look to God for your sources and I'm always around to make sure I give back to our community here on VJ I'm sorry it took me so long to respond...been in the hospital..Just got out yesterday... Happy to have met you.

  9. God grant me the courage to change the things I can!!

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      LAGOSLOVE

      And he will and has...you are a wonderwoman in so many ways....see your power, know your power. use your power for good and never for evil and your power will always serve you well... Super Woman and my Friend.

  10. Good Luck!! Recuerda trankilidad total q Dios tiene el control y veras q todo saldra bien!! Keep us posted we'll be looking out and sending prayers your way. :)

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      Hi there friend..how is everything in your camp?

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  11. Well the time has surely passed by so so fast...we are about to send in the I751 Removal of Conditons. I'm putting documents in order, making compies , checking and rechecking to make sure I send enough to show that we are stil going strong. This takes me back to when we first filled the I 130 and the stres it caused..whoa...this is a little less stressful...he's with me..we're doing it as one together and now I have friends here in charlotte who can guide us thru...Who else is re...

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Hello LaUnica.. I'm doing alright.. been working so much and so dang tired and now back dealing with USCIS...It's good to hear from you.. what's going on in your camp?

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  12. Hey Lady! I'm just stopping by to say, "Hi!" I pray that all is well with the family!

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      CALL ME..WE GOTTA CATCH UP..PLUS I HAVE SOME GOOD NEWS

  13. Reputation Points hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe!

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Change can be a great thing..sometimes it's needed to freshen up things..bring a new life to a situation that is drab. I don't so much mind the change but popularity among grown people who have so much riding on the ultimate decision of the consulate is over the top. We are here to bring together families, lovers and friends not to see who can win... the only winning I'm into is VISA IN HAND, PLANE TICKETS, POE'S, ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS, REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS AND CITIZENSHIP...N...

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  14. Reputation Points hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe!

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      LAGOSLOVE

      I was wondering if this was maybe some 12th graders exit project so they could graduate..No real adults would rate other adults based on having enough downtime to post all day and night. So since it's so close to graduation...Congrats and have a blessed future out in this big ole world...Maybe you'll find love in the journey.

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  15. OH MAN I was so out and undone when I signed in and they've changed the format...gotta get used to this..what do you guys think about the new format???

  16. I just noticed VJ has reputation points...You have got to be kidding me! A person can have thousands of posts filled with nothingness and lies and get hundreds of points for that to have an "excellent" reputation rating. Can we say middle school or better yet that section of the high school yearbook? Voted Most Likely To Lie. Reputation points my foot!

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      LAGOSLOVE

      I guess the more sympathy you seek the more points you get..so post away...screaming and laughing out loud..see I wrote something. That mess is ignorant who in the life thought of this idiot behavior point system. I guess if I wanted to post fictitious delusions of grandeur I'd have 50000 rep points...lol

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  17. Wow I can't believe they changed Visa Journey :-/

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      THAT'S WHAT I SAID...IT'S STRANGE I HAD TO GO FIND MY STUFF LOL

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  18. Na Wow it's been a long time since I've been on VJ ....LIfe is happening. So what's going on! What's new...new newz? and most of all Who's new to this process?I I've been learning about my lupus and I've been walking and strengthening.Husbands working. He's been here almost two years now...It seems like just yesterday. For anyone who's husband just arrived.ask away! .

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Hello akshamore1 very nice to meet you. Thanks for the compliment...I love your pic as well. This journey is tedious like you've stated but if you have good people surrounding you and sound information to follow all of us will be well on our way to the happiness that God promised us we can have. I love telling my story but I love giving out information to help get couples under one roof better...hey keep in touch!

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  19. People are quick to question the genuineness of their foreign spouse and the spouses of others. When people venture onto the Visa Journey and this site, there is enough angst and stress in the natural course of things that present doubt and misunderstanding. You hope to find others for comfort and guidance. Some never think that perhaps they need to question the realness of the American poster. For months on end, their status updates and posts read like The Young & The Restless and Day...

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      when the entire story is a lie. As always I'm here with the best I can offer.

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  20. People are quick to question the genuineness of their foreign spouse and the spouses of others. When people venture onto the Visa Journey and this site, there is enough angst and stress in the natural course of things that present doubt and misunderstanding. You hope to find others for comfort and guidance. Some never think that perhaps they need to question the realness of the American poster. For months on end, their status updates and posts read like The Young & The Restless and Day...

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      I agree totally.Because of the stressfulness this process bring to the forefront there is absolutely no need to make up fictitious stories that may deter or confuse others in need of true and real advice. This journey is so difficult and long I feel that each and every one of us who reaches out for help should get the very best not "your story" instead show where to read, teach how to research but be a listening ear. It's good to see the best come from a situation but it's bad...

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  21. OMG I miss you all, but I have like 2 minutes before I have to go around and pick the entire crew up to head home once again. I finally got to clean my house after four months of running this past Saturday! Talk about a mess. I almost opted to burn it down and start all over! LOL, praying all of my friends are well and adjusting nicely. I'm missing you all and hope to be more settled soon. If I could just teach this man to drive and get him his own car....I think I'd have it, ...

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Hey there...well I promise you when you can teach him..lol lol lol it's going to try your nerves and fear will take over your entire body..but when he get's the hang of it and passes his drivers test..and in his own car you will be sooo happy! Prince still has me holding on the hand rail and praying cause he thinks he can stop the car on a dime but I can go take care of my biz and he can go do his and we can meet happily in the middle. So go on...teach him.. good hearing from you ...

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  22. Na Wow it's been a long time since I've been on VJ ....LIfe is happening. So what's going on! What's new...new newz? and most of all Who's new to this process?I I've been learning about my lupus and I've been walking and strengthening.Husbands working. He's been here almost two years now...It seems like just yesterday. For anyone who's husband just arrived.ask away! .

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      KAL I took the liberty to look at your timeline..wow you have offically stared. That's the fist big step. Keep yourself busy between the paperwork. I started working on my house..changing it from mine to ours lol. Times gonna start going so fast before you know it..interview time. Keep your head up and know God is good! Have any questions..inbox me. I like to keep it private..if it's private. Congrats and thanks for your prayers!

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  23. A major part of adjusting is allowing the other person to JUST BE. At some point you'll realize who you courted online/over the phone and met in person is not who you married (both parties may feel this.) You can overcome this, but you both have to want it. Watch your spouse sprout their wings in self-discovery and you do the same.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      I so agree. It takes time..and the will to want to make your marriage work. It's easy to jump into an unwarranted argument, get mad and point the finger...but wouldn't we rather learn,listen and learn not just from our spouses but from our own internal growth line. Then we can love and that's the end result we all want.

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  24. Happy Thursday everybody. Storm Nemo is coming, lol. We're central Jersey so I am hoping we do not get slammed. UGH, winter PLEASE GO AWAYYYYYY.

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      LAGOSLOVE

      Hi Jill..I know long time.. Keep safe during that storm! We had snow last weekend..not much but it was Prince's first snow.. I was so excited and he was like a child..running to get dressed to play in it.. I loved it. I wish we would have one more snow.. so send us some.. lol

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  25. how do you report a fraud marriage

    1. LAGOSLOVE

      LAGOSLOVE

      Sis...What is going on? Is this for you? I'm praying not! But for who ever needs the advice they need to contact ICE and report it and they can tell that person what to do next...Inbox me please

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