Do you truly ever know someone??? I dated my first husband for 4 years before we married and immigrated to the US. He was a tall muscular cowboy..loved to work on cars and work on the farm...I pack up and move here and I am not here 6 months when he has something to tell me.. He casually says he is a man trapped in a womans body!!! Did I see that coming..not in a million years..needless to say I divorced him but not before he legally changed his name to a female name...try explaining to USICS why you have divorce papers that indicate you were married to a female...just a little embarrasing not to mention difficult...
I can laugh at my experience now but at the time it was devasting...We all make mistakes..all you can is learn from them...the first question I asked when I started dating again was are you comfortable being a man...The looks I got were Priceless!!!