Met through a friend August, 2008
Jan 25, 2011.Sent an Engagement ring
Met first time in person in London July 22, 2011 (spent a week together)
Met 2nd time in person in London December 17 - 29, 2011(spent 2 weeks together)
Jan 20, 2012 NVC Received
Jan 26, 2012 NVC Left
Jan 31, 2012 packet sent to London Consulate
Feb 08, 2012 packet arrived to Lagos consulate.
go to the Africa/ Nigerian forum or look at the VJ Homepage under embassy/consulates, enter lagos and click on find/search then read the reviews people posted there. congrats and all the best!