fight4love

Get a copy of the report (if you can), what you're looking for is a finding stating either you are or are not a danger to yourself & others.

From your post in the other thread you incident was some time ago and not repeated. You even indicated that the recover process resulted in a stronger better you which if conveyed to the Psych professional is a very good indicator that the incident is behind you and no longer is a problem.

Thank you so much for your response. I'm just really concerned about the fact that I denied the real reason the first time merely because I was so afraid that it could affect my process and of course being with the man I love. During the evaluation the doctor offered me a chance to restate the real reason as he was not buying my alibi. I apologized several times and said I did not mean to insult or offend anyone and that I was only afraid that my past will be a hindrance to my future. I began telling the doctor that it was way back in High School and inflicted that on my self because I was lonely and wanted a better attention from my mom. I told him that when my mom saw my wounds 2-3 days later we talked about it and the relationship improved slowly. The doctor asked if I repeated it and I said no...and I really didn't On the information sheet, it was clear that I am a functioning member of the society and worked in few of the top BPO companies in the Philippines and had been a supervisor and shift manager.

I know I'm not insane (lol) but I am concerned about the initial denial. Also, after my statement of the truth, I cried as I repeated my apology to the doctor for denying the facts and that I was just really afraid of how this could affect my dream, future and being with the man I love.

Will this affect my interview? Please all your responses will be highly appreciated. My interview is only in a few days.

why u had that same test i did..? that's only their procedure and no one failed on that eval. unless the patient is really insane

Thank you so much for your response. I'm just really concerned about the fact that I denied the real reason the first time merely because I was so afraid that it could affect my process and of course being with the man I love. During the evaluation the doctor offered me a chance to restate the real reason as he was not buying my alibi. I apologized several times and said I did not mean to insult or offend anyone and that I was only afraid that my past will be a hindrance to my future. I began telling the doctor that it was way back in High School and inflicted that on my self because I was lonely and wanted a better attention from my mom. I told him that when my mom saw my wounds 2-3 days later we talked about it and the relationship improved slowly. The doctor asked if I repeated it and I said no...and I really didn't On the information sheet, it was clear that I am a functioning member of the society and worked in few of the top BPO companies in the Philippines and had been a supervisor and shift manager.

I know I'm not insane (lol) but I am concerned about the initial denial. Also, after my statement of the truth, I cried as I repeated my apology to the doctor for denying the facts and that I was just really afraid of how this could affect my dream, future and being with the man I love.

Will this affect my interview? Please all your responses will be highly appreciated. My interview is only in a few days.

Hi Everyone,

What will be the indications that one failed his/her psych evaluation? I was advised to call 2-3 days for the for the results.

First of all she doesnt have to declare that she had an abortion. thats intensly private and frankly none of their business. She can simply say she was in hospital/had an operation for gynae reasons. They wont ask any more. There was nothing illegal and you both shouldnt worry. Its not up to the consular officer to make a moral judgement call anyway. They are concerned with 3 main things; a) that your relationship is genuine b) that there is nothing criminal in your past and c) that there are no infections , sexual or otherwise that may prevent you from being admitted.

They dont check medical records. the medical is just to determine whether the applicant has disease or alcohol/drug issues. there is no reason to ever have to declare an abortion. They wont ask about it. It would be wrong of them to do so.

Hi. I'm reading this thread with hope of finding some information about my current situation. I read your response and would like to seek the best advice if you can. I was requested to undergo a Psych Eval due to the scars on my wrist. I denied the true reason with the first doctor (Physical Examiner) because truthfully, I panic and was not expecting that it will be questioned or even seen (very small scars). And so, I went to my scheduled Psych Evaluation and told the doctor the same story but he refused to accept it because the scars dont match my story. I knew it was wrong to lie and chose to just come clean with it. Besides, it was way back in High School and dumb cry for attention from my mom but I was not hospitalized for it those we're very shallow cuts. However, given the circumstance, I wouldn't change it because it made me a better person. The doctor then calmed after me telling the truth and he said "Don't you just feel better when you tell the truth?" And I know, I acknowledged my mistake and told him that I did not mean to insult or disrespect anyone and I was just afraid. I was not ordered any other tests but I'm still afraid this will affect my interview (which is coming very soon). I dont intend to lie at my interview and will just tell the truth about what happened and acknowledge that what I did was wrong. I also believe that nothing is worst that lying so do you think I have a chance to redeem myself and get an approval? If not, what could my fiance and do? Would it help if he comes here, resched and go to my interview with me?

Len Ben,

Did you proceed with your interview? How did it go? I hope all is well. My interview is soon too and I could use your help.