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There was more but my status was cut in half...

Continued... I am awaiting military enlistment (my original plan). Life is so much simpler without having to sacrifice like I was... I finally accepted she didnt diserve it. If worth it I give my all, but she wasnt worth it. I party, dating, hobbies, partying, family, friends, working, etc. I am myself again. Best wishes in your journeys, this is my VJ closure. I will visit every once in a while. Hopefully I will meet some of you one day.

Oh, thanks for your support... it would have been so much more difficult without you... I was going through this pretty much by my lonely self... and its harddddd, thank God its over, the outcome is a lesson to be learned. So long my friends... Love you!

Yea. I've been seeing a lot of crazy unorganized things come out of DR. They better get it together. I want my interview day by late Oct!!

i'm doing a CR1 but i hope to make it for october scheduling. good to know that you got an october date. i was hoping they did continuous scheduling!

congrats...long time coming!

Finally... thanks for your support

If she has family and you wont go to Boot Camp Untill 2012 you are more than ok . Are you going To Lackland airforcr base? Just some Imfo I was ARMY from 1989 to 2008. good luck

I believe yes I am going to Lackland... we spoke again and she says she agrees if thats what I want...

I wonder how often she can live with me... I know she can more or less follow me under certain restrictions... hopefully we wont be separated for a long time... deployment is understandable... but other separations, uffff

@angela I think the holiday is tuesday.

@ana si es verdad pero a veces lo celebran el lunes...pero creo k escuche k lo celebraran el martes lol asi k tienes razon

SI lo celebraron martes en el consulado... pero que cosa... hace un mes que recibieron y no me mandan ni un email... alguien fue recibido una semana antes (antes del 15 de julio)y ya sabe todo... y hasta tienen el paquete osea... eso de esperar el 15 de cada mes me tiene bien furioso.

It seems like they normally assign interviews the 15th-20th of each month so hopefully by next week you should have a date.

agree with ana....they will more then likely be no date until after the 15th of the month, and no noa2 until after interview date is given....put you mind on a october date

agree with jaz. from what we went through, we waited 1 month and 12 days Just to get a Date, and THEN wait another 2 months for our interview. all i can say is its crazy, and EVERY case is different.

all i can say dont hold back, do what makes you feel better, call them every day until you get your Date hun!

Continue to call the visa specialist often (I called every day). One of these days they will give you the happy news of your interview date.

Do you already have an interview date? Listen they gave me my interview date. I am going to call them this month to see bat packet 4. I am going to call almost every day until I am told if I want to pick it up. Have patience you are almost there.

Patience is a virtue, I have waited 9 months so far

http://santodomingo.usembassy.gov/k1-k2_instructions.html

I am gonna do both... I already emailed requesting early date and packet 4... BUT as soon as I get that date... I will email to request earlier date... also, call a few times (maybe twice a week)

are u still going thru w/process?

Too bad for me it arrived just after the 15th so i guess it moves back one full month right? Yes, Armancio we are...

In the end we want to be together... and its all good. This process is hard and stressful.

To get to him 2 weeks, to get to me 4 weeks

I mean from Consulate reception

If it's been sent to dr call visa specialist the 202 number. Like Alex said they have been releasing dates after the 15 of each month. I waited a month for a date

But why wait that long...thats almost a whole month for me

It can take them almost 3 months to give u a date. I waited 4 months from noa2. U r looking at october nov. They seem to have already released september dates

Im sorry that you guys have broken up. After all that waiting, wow!!

but keep in mind, your relationship cant just revolve around this Visa process...think about how your conversations are now...are you keeping the fire burning or just visa focused?

visa focused and fired is definitely burning usssss... pretty much a dead relationship some people say we nead "space and time" we havent not spent a day without talking on the phone or seeing each other since we met... and she says she is suffocated and done

there's probably pressure of moving too fast. a piece of 2 cents...in your conversations refrain from talking about the visa...only start to talk about that "business" when you get closer to interview time but u still have like 3 months....focus on the pleasure not the business...and ask her maybe she wants to think about it more and do the process later...now isnt really the time to be unsure about what she wnts to do when ur so close to the end so i'm on your side there...s...

did you call nvc? this is the way to have an update. Call them

call NVC 603-334-0700; press 1 and then 5. Give the operator your USCIS # and she will let youknow if they received the petition. If they have the petition they will give you a case #. You can also send an email NVCINQUIRY@state.gov

I have been calling them almost daily... nothing on the screen, thats what I am told... it may even be at embassy and Im not aware of it