mjlassi

I feel the same. My husband has been here a year and life sucs most days. They say it takes 2 years to adjust to america but I do not think I can handle another year

Have you guys talked about why he's unhappy? Is it just the major cultural difference or is there something deeper? Perhaps some marriage counselling would help. Best of luck to you!

Thank you for the reassurance EABBAS I really need all the positive thing's to look at right now am such a reck not knowing what is going on or even who I can contact to get any information. I call the dos and the embassy and they really tell me nothing the dos staff are so rude it's unbeleivable I had a women hang up on me today she was talking over me and wouldn't even take the time to hear what I had to say I am so upset. I am worried something is wrong with my name the consula...

Sorry it is taking so long, have you tried to call a Senator or anything for assistance?

if we don't hear something this week we will contact the senator.. we didn't want to get them involved unless we really needed too

Thank you for your post...but I am so sorry you are having to go through this... it has been 13 months for me and my husband..and when we got our approval I started my name change...so now I don't have a passport...and if I change it...I'm afraid it will mess up his case..and I started a new job 6 months ago and can't start counting vacation till after a year... so we are stuck...may I ask...did they give your husband a piece of paper at the interview saying "Congratulations, ...

I changed my name while we were in nvc stage they just had me send a copy of my new id showing that I changed my name along with a letter stating that I had changed my last name to my husband's name.. no they did not give him a paper saying congrat's.. my husband ask is everything ok and they say yes you are approved and to come back in two day's to get your visa..when he come back they say we will contact you by email when your visa is ready I called the DOS to find out what was ...

well is it worth having a congress man involved in the case??? can he pressurize embassy's ppl???

many ppl say yes it help's.. I have not sent anything to the senator yet we decided to wait a little bit longer before taking that step

it is good to know we are not the only one's though.. ty

admin review is part of AP. It basically is when they look at your file, documents or info you gave them and review the work in front of them but its still part of AP.. think of AP like an umbrella and all these little things like review, document requests, field investigations (for some) etc are all part of the underneath of AP. Wishing you luck!

not only males r in AP (

salamu alaikum sis, congratulation!! but approved on what? on the interview?? lool i know i sound dumb right now but i wasn't on this site for almost a month so i lost track of everything May Allah bless u and I'm looking forward to hear from u.

oh sorry I have not been on vj for a long time.. we was approved with nvc.. my husband had his interview oct. 31 but still no answer on their decision we don't understand what is going on it is taking forever.. I called the embassy in Tunisia and they couldn't tell me anything just to wait they have not made a decision yet.. it's horrible what you have to go through to be able to be with your loved one when you are from other countries..

you are not alone. Everyone from June 16 forward is in the same mailroom dilemma. We hope USCIS send shipment any day now.

We was approved 6/21/2011 I called nvc on 7/22/2011 and they had just entered our case in the system so I got my case number but they did not have an invoice number for us yet. So now we wait for them to notify my husband by email and send the invoice number by email so we can pay the bill's and send our document's! everything is a waiting game I can't wait to get this step done! I know I am not alone everyone feel's the same way as I do.. good luck to everyone and God...

Asslama sis, I just wanted to check and see if u got updates on ur case. Wish u the best of luck. May Allah make it easy for u guys!!