hisandhers

This has the potential to be the best pity party I've ever attended.

I think that perhaps people come here to share their hurt about the wait because they have an expectation that others here will understand their frustrations where our friends and families don't (for the most part) understand the difficulties we're all going through.
I'm surprised at the amount of time someone here says "What is going on... why is it taking so long... I'm frustrated" and they're met with sharp tongues and rudeness or a bit of belittling because they haven't waited the amount of time others have deemed acceptable to complain. I complain all the time to my fiance about not being together yet. I knew the wait time going into this but I still get little frustrations out because he understands and feels the same way. So do we all here. I like reading the posts about people being frustrated because it reminds me that I'm not alone in how I'm feeling.
I agree with the above comments, it's not one of us over another - long waits or not - it should be more about supporting each other, not "My wound is bigger/more important than your wound." We're all hurting here while we're in the wait.

I think that perhaps people come here to share their hurt about the wait because they have an expectation that others here will understand their frustrations where our friends and families don't (for the most part) understand the difficulties we're all going through.
I'm surprised at the amount of time someone here says "What is going on... why is it taking so long... I'm frustrated" and they're met with sharp tongues and rudeness or a bit of belittling because they haven't waited the amount of time others have deemed acceptable to complain. I complain all the time to my fiance about not being together yet. I knew the wait time going into this but I still get little frustrations out because he understands and feels the same way. So do we all here. I like reading the posts about people being frustrated because it reminds me that I'm not alone in how I'm feeling.
I agree with the above comments, it's not one of us over another - long waits or not - it should be more about supporting each other, not "My wound is bigger/more important than your wound." We're all hurting here while we're in the wait.

I think that perhaps people come here to share their hurt about the wait because they have an expectation that others here will understand their frustrations where our friends and families don't (for the most part) understand the difficulties we're all going through.
I'm surprised at the amount of time someone here says "What is going on... why is it taking so long... I'm frustrated" and they're met with sharp tongues and rudeness or a bit of belittling because they haven't waited the amount of time others have deemed acceptable to complain. I complain all the time to my fiance about not being together yet. I knew the wait time going into this but I still get little frustrations out because he understands and feels the same way. So do we all here. I like reading the posts about people being frustrated because it reminds me that I'm not alone in how I'm feeling.
I agree with the above comments, it's not one of us over another - long waits or not - it should be more about supporting each other, not "My wound is bigger/more important than your wound." We're all hurting here while we're in the wait.

I think that perhaps people come here to share their hurt about the wait because they have an expectation that others here will understand their frustrations where our friends and families don't (for the most part) understand the difficulties we're all going through.
I'm surprised at the amount of time someone here says "What is going on... why is it taking so long... I'm frustrated" and they're met with sharp tongues and rudeness or a bit of belittling because they haven't waited the amount of time others have deemed acceptable to complain. I complain all the time to my fiance about not being together yet. I knew the wait time going into this but I still get little frustrations out because he understands and feels the same way. So do we all here. I like reading the posts about people being frustrated because it reminds me that I'm not alone in how I'm feeling.
I agree with the above comments, it's not one of us over another - long waits or not - it should be more about supporting each other, not "My wound is bigger/more important than your wound." We're all hurting here while we're in the wait.

I think that perhaps people come here to share their hurt about the wait because they have an expectation that others here will understand their frustrations where our friends and families don't (for the most part) understand the difficulties we're all going through.
I'm surprised at the amount of time someone here says "What is going on... why is it taking so long... I'm frustrated" and they're met with sharp tongues and rudeness or a bit of belittling because they haven't waited the amount of time others have deemed acceptable to complain. I complain all the time to my fiance about not being together yet. I knew the wait time going into this but I still get little frustrations out because he understands and feels the same way. So do we all here. I like reading the posts about people being frustrated because it reminds me that I'm not alone in how I'm feeling.
I agree with the above comments, it's not one of us over another - long waits or not - it should be more about supporting each other, not "My wound is bigger/more important than your wound." We're all hurting here while we're in the wait.

I think that perhaps people come here to share their hurt about the wait because they have an expectation that others here will understand their frustrations where our friends and families don't (for the most part) understand the difficulties we're all going through.
I'm surprised at the amount of time someone here says "What is going on... why is it taking so long... I'm frustrated" and they're met with sharp tongues and rudeness or a bit of belittling because they haven't waited the amount of time others have deemed acceptable to complain. I complain all the time to my fiance about not being together yet. I knew the wait time going into this but I still get little frustrations out because he understands and feels the same way. So do we all here. I like reading the posts about people being frustrated because it reminds me that I'm not alone in how I'm feeling.
I agree with the above comments, it's not one of us over another - long waits or not - it should be more about supporting each other, not "My wound is bigger/more important than your wound." We're all hurting here while we're in the wait.