TimAndRitchel

Ritchel made it through the embassy interview. Now we wait for the visa to be delivered. She could be here in a couple of weeks!
Yeeeee Haaaaaaw!!!!!
Tim

I see what you are saying. Being a relatively new poster here myself I know how trying it can be. We've been waiting for over six months now. But when someone who's filed and waited a few weeks starts whining about how unfair it is to have to wait that long, I keep thinking that they need a taste of reality. Perhaps it's the US attitude of I want it now, but they need to know that things might take a long time.
So telling someone to just stop the ranting and wait is really not a harsh thing to say. It's more of a wake up and smell the coffee statement.
Trust me, I can feel their pain, but some of them are just stiring things up and trying to get others stirred up about something that is really out of all our control.
Just my opinion.

At three months I had the patience of Job. At four reall anticipation. At five it could happen any day. Now after six I am getting antsy. Seeing people get fast approvals does bother me. Hearing people complain that they've been waiting weeks bothers me. It all goes to fanning the flames of resentment for unfairness in the universe. Wait another three months and you will see what I mean.
But to be fair, it's just the people that have waited a few weeks and are complaining that really bothers me.

I see what you are saying. Being a relatively new poster here myself I know how trying it can be. We've been waiting for over six months now. But when someone who's filed and waited a few weeks starts whining about how unfair it is to have to wait that long, I keep thinking that they need a taste of reality. Perhaps it's the US attitude of I want it now, but they need to know that things might take a long time.
So telling someone to just stop the ranting and wait is really not a harsh thing to say. It's more of a wake up and smell the coffee statement.
Trust me, I can feel their pain, but some of them are just stiring things up and trying to get others stirred up about something that is really out of all our control.
Just my opinion.

I see what you are saying. Being a relatively new poster here myself I know how trying it can be. We've been waiting for over six months now. But when someone who's filed and waited a few weeks starts whining about how unfair it is to have to wait that long, I keep thinking that they need a taste of reality. Perhaps it's the US attitude of I want it now, but they need to know that things might take a long time.
So telling someone to just stop the ranting and wait is really not a harsh thing to say. It's more of a wake up and smell the coffee statement.
Trust me, I can feel their pain, but some of them are just stiring things up and trying to get others stirred up about something that is really out of all our control.
Just my opinion.

I see what you are saying. Being a relatively new poster here myself I know how trying it can be. We've been waiting for over six months now. But when someone who's filed and waited a few weeks starts whining about how unfair it is to have to wait that long, I keep thinking that they need a taste of reality. Perhaps it's the US attitude of I want it now, but they need to know that things might take a long time.
So telling someone to just stop the ranting and wait is really not a harsh thing to say. It's more of a wake up and smell the coffee statement.
Trust me, I can feel their pain, but some of them are just stiring things up and trying to get others stirred up about something that is really out of all our control.
Just my opinion.

I see what you are saying. Being a relatively new poster here myself I know how trying it can be. We've been waiting for over six months now. But when someone who's filed and waited a few weeks starts whining about how unfair it is to have to wait that long, I keep thinking that they need a taste of reality. Perhaps it's the US attitude of I want it now, but they need to know that things might take a long time.
So telling someone to just stop the ranting and wait is really not a harsh thing to say. It's more of a wake up and smell the coffee statement.
Trust me, I can feel their pain, but some of them are just stiring things up and trying to get others stirred up about something that is really out of all our control.
Just my opinion.

I see what you are saying. Being a relatively new poster here myself I know how trying it can be. We've been waiting for over six months now. But when someone who's filed and waited a few weeks starts whining about how unfair it is to have to wait that long, I keep thinking that they need a taste of reality. Perhaps it's the US attitude of I want it now, but they need to know that things might take a long time.
So telling someone to just stop the ranting and wait is really not a harsh thing to say. It's more of a wake up and smell the coffee statement.
Trust me, I can feel their pain, but some of them are just stiring things up and trying to get others stirred up about something that is really out of all our control.
Just my opinion.

You just filed in February and are already agitating to speed things up? How will you feel after a few more months? Some get approved quickly, but the majority have something of a wait. It might be a little early to get so up in arms. Just be thankful you are not going through the Vermont Service Center.