jingros

Call Dominos and crack a cold one ... I think this is about to become even more interesting!

You've got a lot invested in the relationship at this point - financial and emotional. I understand letting go and walking away from the table is difficult to do. None of us will have to endure the consqequences of your decision so you have to do what you think is right. I'm just warning you that the aftermath of a wrong decision could be worse than you can ever imagine. The 'no rights until after marriage' speech is one of several huge red flags you have mentioned, and given your short and uneventful face to face time prior to bringing her here, I suspect the red flags dwarf whatever green flags you're seeing. Anyway, your life, your decision. I hope it all works out the best for both of you.