Dumb Question...how do you know if passed Medical?

[ccndyeth 0]

Sorry to hear that.. I've been to that same road and I know it's not easy, but we just support each other, and as always the end of the tunnel is the sweetest.. Good Luck to the both of you!!

Thanks....ccndyeth

I am going to research it.....see how long and how many times...she will need to go thru this....

you are right is has not been easy from the start....and we hope it all being worthed at then end.

I think just once if her sputum culture turns out to be negative. however if it's positive it will be a 6mos medication and another 2 mos sputum culture.

[PhiLandShiR 18]

Oh Wow... I am so sorry to hear this...

There is very little I can say that will make either of you feel better.

I will say that both of you need to take a deep breath and collect yourselves. This journey is not over for either of you and can very well end up just as you planned.

Your SO has NOT been denied!! This is the important thing.

If you can get there, go visit her. I know it will make both of you feel better. And I would guess, almost insure an approval when interview time comes. What better proof of a relationship than being together in your time of need??

You are not done yet. No one ever said this process is easy. Many others have been in your shoes and many others will follow after you. The woman you plan to marry needs you now. Show her that she made an excellent choice!!

Everyone here grieves with you but to plan a funeral is a bit premature!! Take a deep breath and move on! I know you both can complete this!!

-P

Sorry all....I got BAD news instead.....

That is why she would not tell me.....

She has to go back on SEP 14th for another SPUTUM test.....and passport was given back to her...

I guess...this JOURNEY never ends.....I don't know how long she can hold it together....it is really testing both of our patience.

I was hoping for a good news...

what I got instead is an Hysterical girl crying.... I have tried to make her relax but not sure i am helping much...told her I will be with her and support her thru all the steps....

Sorry all...I am just as SAD as she is....

[qp24113 0]

i am so sorry to hear that ErosandSally... I pray that soon you'll get a 360 turn. keep your faith and don't forget HIM in any journey you're in.

mark & ann

Edited September 2, 2009 by qp24113

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

Thank you all for your kind words....

Sometime I wished I Learned TAGALOG because sometime our words get lost in translation......sometime.

What is confusing to me is that she has to return at SLEC on SEPT 14, to me that means it should be the results of SPUTUM culture...right?

From what I researched, SPUTUM culture results are given after 2 weeks, and Sept 14 is 12 days away from her second day at SLEC.

I really did not want to press her with additional questions since she was so sad and depressed...so maybe I be able to get additional information as she returns home.

She is a wonderful person and I really don't like to see her so sad....it break my heart...

[sasha414 0]

Thank you all for your kind words....

Sometime I wished I Learned TAGALOG because sometime our words get lost in translation......sometime.

What is confusing to me is that she has to return at SLEC on SEPT 14, to me that means it should be the results of SPUTUM culture...right?

From what I researched, SPUTUM culture results are given after 2 weeks, and Sept 14 is 12 days away from her second day at SLEC.

I really did not want to press her with additional questions since she was so sad and depressed...so maybe I be able to get additional information as she returns home.

She is a wonderful person and I really don't like to see her so sad....it break my heart...

i assume she was asked to return sept 14 for a 3 day sputum test. then there will be a doctors evaluation, if her sputum smear is negative, she will have to wait 2 months for the culture result. if after 2 months, her culture results come out negative, then she can proceed with the immunizations and then the interview. just hang in there, the waiting is not easy. been there, done that. all i can say is, whatever happens, there will always be light at the end of the tunnel.