goldenlady

My husband here on K1 visa, married within 90 days of his arrival, but now it's one and half year haven't filled for the adjustment of status yet, we trying to gather all the information to file it, is there goin to be any issues if we do it now..please help me ...

1 There is a supplement A with form I485 does these form need to be submitted with the package?????? i've big question mark on this. plz say yes or no?

2 There is also a I864A (sponsor contract with household) is this also be filled with the original form I864 though there are other members alongside with me at home....

Yes indeedy! Its a process but we will get there.....one teaspoon at a time.

Again, I totally understand how you are feeling because I too am in your shoes from time to time. Sometimes my husband can stand to be a little more affectionate. Sure my husband is the sweetest man I know but he's also reserved. He doesn't show much emotion. Example: my husband recieved his US drivers license two weeks back and he had told me that he was elated yet his face showed no emotion I thought that was very interesting. So as I am learning my man B) I am adjusting. Being American doesn't help either because here we are very emotional creatures and we express ourselves on every level. I can identify with your feelings.....its not about public deplays of affection its the small things that make us feel appreciated. I am teaching him these things one teaspoon at a time because its a process but its the end results that I am focused on. So your on the right paths...jus continue to show him...little by little.....as he adjusts he will come around. In the mean just visualize him doing these things that you love.

My husband is from Bangalore. I Haven't visited this site in a while so I haven't had time to update our profile but we filed for the k1 visa last year and his visa was approved last December. He arrived in late January and we got married. Now he has his ss#, he also has his drivers license and he was fortunate enough to have met some nice peole that gave him a car. Wow! Thats still surprising to me. We plan to file for adjustment of status before June. Please help to understand because I don't know all of the abbrieviations ....What does AR stand for?

Hi,

My husband arrived from (Bangalore) India in in January of this year. He had never been to the U.S. prior to his arrival. Although he knows quite a bit about American culture, its different when u actually experience it. Its refreshing to see this topic being discussed because I too felt the same as you at once. I wanted more affection from my husband and I slowly began to learn the differences in our cultures. I accepted the fact that in his culuture it is frowned upon when one displays public affection(holding hands even). While over here in the U.S. its the extreme opposite. That's perfectly fine with me because my husband makes up for it when we are alone. I definitely agree with the others when they say that it is part culutre and partly the way one has been raised. Why,I remember when my sweetie sent for me to visit him last year this time and we would go to festivals and I would see men holding hands together ( I thought it was sweet)...and these men were hindu while men here wouldn't be caught dead holding hands together....at least not the heterosexual men. So I gathered that it was okay for men to show public affection to each other but no neccessarily the opposite sex.

My husband and I are both muslim but its culture that makes things different. My husband knows how needy I can be so he's learning how to be more affectionate. Its definitely not an overnight thing so please just be patient ( as I am doing the same) and just continue to reach out to him. He'll see how important it is to you and hopefully it"ll bring some of his affection to the fore front.