cherry469

My husband and i have been married since november 2006,today we are sepated and i finally moved out of the apt we shared because i was dying mentally. we have had alot of issues that we haven;t been able to solve and the trust has dropped to zero,the love disappeared, around the end of last year each day was filled with sadness, i could speak for for myself my head was heavy on my shoulder all the time,felt unhappy,un loved,uncomfortanble,unsafe,worried ,worried as the marriage didn;t seem to mean much anymore,my husband lived a single life even when legaly married to me, i believe he cheated on me though he strongly denies but according to what i have seen there's no denying ,it happened. I reached a point where i had to accept the fact that it was over and he didn;t want me anymore so i decided to move on,he knew i was moving out of the apartment, i told him about it......he had several times asked me to leave when i questioned him about the women he was talking to or creeping with..........one sad thing is the thing he was most concerned about when i was leaving was the KEY....he asked me to Leave the key behind even when i still had my things in the apartment, to keep peace i gave him his keys.....so now i can hardly access my own marital home....took my cellphone from me...........Generally i feel he broke my heart,and told too many lies
The biggest question is. I believe many of us out there have gone through such situations with our loved ones---those that we head over hills fell in love with only for it to turn into a nightmare it's Sad! ,Now that am separated living away from him,can i file separately to remove conditions from green card which is due this Nov 09 without filing for divorce or i have to file for divorce as soon as i can. Divorce yes is not the best altrnative but for my paperworker to be processed i may need it since we dont live together anymore,Also considering the fact that he's still as sturborn as before and even worse since i moved out.
Another question: Considering our situation married to a US citizen through marriage is he liable to paying spousal support as i don't make much....i live in new york and would appreciate some insight on this matter.
Lastly, we don;t have any bank accounts jointly because His financial situations wasn;t the greatest and shared less with me in regards to monetary issues which also caused friction in our marriage, he never wanted to share anything with me.........he prefered us having separate accounts, however, i do have a few documents like tax returns,insurance cards, and beneficially forms,pictures, a few purchase made jointly,a car in both our names,a utility bill in our names(home phone) that;s about it. would that be good enough to show our marriage was entered in "GOOD FAITH"?
thank you.
hope to hear from you.