cherry469

Hullo, NArocks, thanks for your kinda reply, No. the divorce papers haven't been filed yet.i spoke to an immigration lawyer who said there's no need to file for divorce yet as it is a personal choice between my husband and i.Also do i really need an immigration lawyer to file this paperworker, if doing by myself is fine it would save me a whole lot of money.

My husband and i have been married since november 2006,today we are sepated and i finally moved out of the apt we shared because i was dying mentally. we have had alot of issues that we haven;t been able to solve and the trust has dropped to zero,the love disappeared, around the end of last year each day was filled with sadness, i could speak for for myself my head was heavy on my shoulder all the time,felt unhappy,un loved,uncomfortanble,unsafe,worried ,worried as the marriage didn;t seem to mean much anymore,my husband lived a single life even when legaly married to me, i believe he cheated on me though he strongly denies but according to what i have seen there's no denying ,it happened. I reached a point where i had to accept the fact that it was over and he didn;t want me anymore so i decided to move on,he knew i was moving out of the apartment, i told him about it......he had several times asked me to leave when i questioned him about the women he was talking to or creeping with..........one sad thing is the thing he was most concerned about when i was leaving was the KEY....he asked me to Leave the key behind even when i still had my things in the apartment, to keep peace i gave him his keys.....so now i can hardly access my own marital home....took my cellphone from me...........Generally i feel he broke my heart,and told too many lies

The biggest question is. I believe many of us out there have gone through such situations with our loved ones---those that we head over hills fell in love with only for it to turn into a nightmare it's Sad! ,Now that am separated living away from him,can i file separately to remove conditions from green card which is due this Nov 09 without filing for divorce or i have to file for divorce as soon as i can. Divorce yes is not the best altrnative but for my paperworker to be processed i may need it since we dont live together anymore,Also considering the fact that he's still as sturborn as before and even worse since i moved out.

Another question: Considering our situation married to a US citizen through marriage is he liable to paying spousal support as i don't make much....i live in new york and would appreciate some insight on this matter.

Lastly, we don;t have any bank accounts jointly because His financial situations wasn;t the greatest and shared less with me in regards to monetary issues which also caused friction in our marriage, he never wanted to share anything with me.........he prefered us having separate accounts, however, i do have a few documents like tax returns,insurance cards, and beneficially forms,pictures, a few purchase made jointly,a car in both our names,a utility bill in our names(home phone) that;s about it. would that be good enough to show our marriage was entered in "GOOD FAITH"?

thank you.

hope to hear from you.

we had joint account then we closed it but still have record. now it's impossible for us to get statement. soo anyone get approve without sending bank statement?

Just use your IRS Tax returns and w-2 forms if you have any. that;s what we used.and also fill out an Affivadit of support.

we had joint account then we closed it but still have record. now it's impossible for us to get statement. soo anyone get approve without sending bank statement?

Thank you all, i really appreciate you kind words.

be blessed.

Doesn't matter what your immigration status is, your husband should be putting down that he is married because he is.

Thank you misa...that's what i thought too.but he has been telling his bosses ask him not to since i don;t have a social secuty number yet. if feels funny to me.

may be his bosses have nothing to do with it misa, but he figures out i wont be able to call his bosses and ask so he uses it as an excuse.......that;s part of my thoughts to...

Doesn't matter what your immigration status is, your husband should be putting down that he is married because he is.

Thank you misa...that's what i thought too.but he has been telling his bosses ask him not to since i don;t have a social secuty number yet. if feels funny to me.

may be his bosses have nothing to do with it misa, but he figures out i wont be able to call his bosses and ask so he uses it as an excuse.......that;s part of my thoughts to...

Who knows why he would do that. Perhaps you should ask him yourself. All we can tell you is that if his boss really told him he can't file taxes as married because you don't have a SSN or Green Card yet, his boss is talking b*llshit.

Thank you, i have asked but i don;t get any answers all i get is like.... why are u fussing over it kind of reaction....it makes me feel like am forcing him to do it, but on the other hand makes me think that even though am married to this man he has not fully accepted me as his wife...something like that.,may be may be not...since he even puts his goddaughter as his beneficiary. b;se it.s unnatural for one to claim single when married...he;s educated enough to know this....but i will take your idea and have another 1 on 1 talk again.

It sure is funny, especially considering its generally of benefit to be married when filing taxes because you get a much large deduction and thus pay less taxes. I told my employers to put me down as married before I got married (because I knew I was getting married that year), so there is no limitation as to when you do so.

I appreciate your response all, does anyone think there;s a strange reason why he's doing that? b'se it;s not making me happy at all.May be he doesn't want his employees or anyone at his job to know he is married...c'ld that be the reason. i don;t know am just trying to find answers coz' like i said it's funny.....i want the whole world to know am married but i guess he doesn't want people to know he's is.

It sure is funny, especially considering its generally of benefit to be married when filing taxes because you get a much large deduction and thus pay less taxes. I told my employers to put me down as married before I got married (because I knew I was getting married that year), so there is no limitation as to when you do so.

I am looking for some assistance here. My fiancee (she is a Canadian citizen) and I (I am a US citizen) plan on getting married in two weeks in Toronto. One website I read states that I need to document to prove my marital status. I am single and I have never been married before. What can I use to show that I am single?

Hi i don't think there is any document that proves your single...all you have to do is fill up all the necessary paper and USCIS will do it's background check on. if you have never been married your records will show. just enter you marital status as single on all the paperworker you are filing for your fiance.

goodluck

Doesn't matter what your immigration status is, your husband should be putting down that he is married because he is.

Thank you misa...that's what i thought too.but he has been telling his bosses ask him not to since i don;t have a social secuty number yet. if feels funny to me.

He can not claim he is single when he is married.... he should have things amended as soon as he can... he should be filling his tax as married...

As for your request for a copy of the NOA2 just include a copy of the reciept showing you have applied for one...

Good Luck

Kez

Thank you so much Kez.

be blessed.

cherry

Hi everyone....i came here last year in september 2006 on a K1 Visa.My husband and i got married in november same year. After a few months he got a new job and still filled up his work related paperworker as single...when i found out i kind of questioned it and he told he was advised that due to my legal status here he's still considered single we haven;t fully adjusted my status....i still have doubts about this and recently he got another job and still told me his boss told him to fill his paperworker as single and not married.

My question is: Since i came here legally as the states advised us all. Aren't my husband and i considered married regarding all the paperwork that requires him to show his status including IRS?

Another question that i have is this..... last week but one we were about to send in my adjust of status package when we realised my husband didn;t recieve a copy of my k1 visa approval notice from the USCIS,all they sent him was a copy from NVC...when i called USCIS customer care they checked and said they had sent it to him on, if i can remember 6th of june 2006,he didn;t change address so i guess it must have got lost somewhere. But any way they told me to apply for form I-824 for a duplicate which they are not sure how long it will take to receive,they said probably 6months(we applied and sent it last week saturday). they said they will send us a reciept within 15days...Is there anyone out there who has had a similar situation who can tell if it;s ok for us to go on and send in our paperwork with a copy of the receipt to show that we have applied for the duplicate of the approval notice or it may be rejected.

Please help.

Anyone out there with answers please fill free to mail me on cherry_kats@yahoo.com.

thank you

God bless. :