turboman

I don't know if it's the fact that I'm pregnant and have raging hormones or what but you seem to be a jerk to me. You tell her you want to hold off on the visa cause she didn't say Happy Valentines day to you. She sent you a gift it was the florist fault you did not receive it. To me that's a threat, telling her you do as I want or else I will hold this visa over your head. That is probably how her parent's see it also, the threats are already starting in their eyes and like any parent they want to protect their daughter.

Then you find out she is in the hospital, and you question her father how can some little argument do that to her, but then you end up in the hospital over all this and get mad at her cause she is not jumping at your side calling none stop etc. Seems to me you are just as immature as she is.

Moving and leaving everything you know and love is not easy for anyone, no matter the age. Some ppl do have very close family and family is a big part of their lives, some ppl can not handle it other's manage to make it through but it is not done over night.

Again this is how I see it from your post.

I somehow I agree with you except the "u re a jerk" thingy..lol... but all d same... u shdnt ahve aborted d visa process...cox it z much more like a threat to her... and for her to unfriend u on fb... den I kinda see it as a more serious stuff dt needs both parents involved..if she still loves u though... and if not... den i guess... u gotta save ur interview, medicals, police report money.. and notify USCIS of ur decision... however, lemme make it clear dt..whateva decision u ll make in d visa process will always be remembered by both ur ex and USCIS...

Good luck...

We were approved!!!!!! (Details to follow tomorrow due to internet issues)

Very quick....only a few questions. All that ####### I lugged to Nigeria was not even looked at!

Thanks to all....I'll post in lots more detail tmrw...just wanted to satisfy everyones curiosity! LOL

Congrats on ur approval.. so happy that 2 VJ members were approved on da same day... Admire was also approved... congrats once again.. Ours will surely come someday...

\bye...

Hello my pple• Glad to let u know our visas were approved today

I hope to fill u in on how it went later, just thot I'ld share this first•

I can't believe it's over•

Debbyandseyi how was it?

Omg... congrats ... I m so happy for you guyz... as our case is kinda similar to your own case as well... We thank God... and I hope ur hubby is still In 9ja..as dere z so much joy traveling together... Please Kindly fill us on the details of the interview, including past AP processes that you have encountered...

Thanx and congrats once again...

Cool! The same day as us! maybe we'll even see you at the Embassy! If you check out my photos on VJ, you'll be able to recognize me and my husband Best of luck to you both!

Good luck to you and ur husband as per ur interview tmrw.. may the Good Lord be with you.. and may u be highly favoured with the CO.

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Awwwww, mine is at 1pm! all the best to you two.

Good luck to you as per ur interview tmrw, Best of Luck with you...

Me and my wife are happily married. I have a friend that has just arrived on a K1 fiance visa and she is worried that her boyfriend won't marry her because she said he has changed a lot since being together here. He is giving her altimatums. If she does not get married within the 90 day period what can she do? She wants to stay here and work. Will she need to return back to her home country? Can she stay here and speak with immigration to see if she can stay?

If she is really desperate to stay and work here, then she can as well stand all odds and go ahead with da marriage, go tru the hardship it entails..and after some few years...divorce...just an advice though..but dt z if she z really desperate...other than dat...deni guess she ll have to go back to her country...because even if she goes back home, it will still be on her record ...and if she eventually sees her true love IN THE US AGAIN, then her last wound would show up on file...

Awesome! Congrats!

Awesome! Congrats!

Hi, why were you placed under AP and twas for how long, as I am under the same conditon too for my wife, and what do i do during this period?

THanx

If you are about to go to directly deployment to a combat zone, by all means send the consulate a copy or your orders.

AP could really mean anything, back ground checks etc. Sadly, Lagos is an excpetionally difficult consulate to deal with.

Good luck

Thanx canadian, but the Lagos IV doesn't accept attachments, but I have already sent them an email, stating that I have to go on deployment by next year July.

Thanks a lot.

AP is popular recently. They are trying extra hard to make sure they check things out. If you look at the number of fraudulent marriages that slide through some consulates it isn't a surprise. Unfortunately we all pay the price. Out of Lagos and with a female beneficiary it is usually 2 weeks - 2 months.

Hmm... thanks a lot though, I m still trying to console my wife, as I will be travelling home next week, thinking that we will be coming together, but it is well though... thanx a lot once again.

Hi maam.. i m also in the same issue as yours, but my question is that, has your husband been approved? if yes, then how long was the AP?...

hello fellow members,

Thanks for all your post and comments, my wife had her second interview today, she was initally told to provide my marriage certificate from my previous marriage, and when she went to the US embassy in lagos, she was just issued the AP slip, saying that they will contact her.

My question is that, ..is it an AP on my behalf, or AP on her behalf... I mean.. is it an investigation on my behalf, or on her behalf? what generally happens in the AP process? I m currently serving in the US military, - Navy, i was thinking of emailing the US consulate because I m about to go for deployment next year, will that really help?

Thanx...