i have written a bit of a rabbity section in our 'about me' about me and rei's relationship, if anyone's interested. though it will probably touch you on that little bit on the back of your tongue that makes you want to vomit!!
thanks peeps! i appreciate the well wishing i'm just compiling a little filing system for all the paperwork needed - my kingdom for a document checklist! lol. congrats uklover, and super good luck to you too uk2nyc!