happywife

Yes but being born in China involves more paperwork to become a USC. Most importantly right now the environment is not good in China, so best to not be there to avoid the pollution.

I do have a return flight and intended on returning as planned, but now the situation changed. We didn't come here to have a baby, we came here to spend time with our family. Now this has came up and that is why I'm on this forum, to seek advice.

I can't legally work here on this visa. My husband could find a job here, that is not a concern. The reason we are no this forum is to see our options and do the right thing legally. I'm asking for advice on which route to take as mentioned in my first post.

If anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated. We know decisions need to made asap.

i guess you do not really konw how easy to get an US passport for an usc's child who born in china. it is very easy!

at least i know 3 people they had dicided to marry their bf before they came here on b2 visas. all in sudden? i do not believe it.

a friend of my came to USA on a K1, 2years after married her husband sent out AOS document without I-130 and got 10 year GC.

If she wants to please him.. she doesn't need creams.. she needs to stop controlling how he spends the money if he is not even wasting it

He is not complaining about her buying creams.. he even bought her a ticket for her to go and visit her family..He is complaining that he can't turn the heat on (IN WINTER) because she thinks that that is a waste of money... but she gets to spend the money in whatever she wants.

SO i guess that spending money on creams is not a WASTE of money but paying your bills is a WASTE OF MONEY (Money he makes anyway)

But if you think like that is ok!!

I guess she could use her way to try to please him, it is her business. she went back to visit family what's wrong with it? do not say he buys her a ticket, that their money not only his. do you know what the temperature is? they live in a warm area, even in winter it is not cold. save money not only for herself, it is for the family.

I'm not saying that she is as perfect as you are, I said they "both" need to change.

Then read twice his post before saying he said things that he didn't say..

I'v read three times and I could tell he is complaining that she doesn't want he to spend money and she spends LOTS OF MONEY on her eye-cream. Is that right meaning?

I just want to say he is misunderstanding about her. She does so only wants to save money and want to keep young to please him and she loves him want to spend more time with him. there are lots of culture issue there, what I read wrong or I post wrong?

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Please someone correct me if i am wrong?? He is not asking for personal advices..he has his friends and his family that know him and her and the situation better than visajournet members.. the only thing he wants to know is what to do in case he wants to divorce her!!

And I think he is right.. i am from another country too .. I got here 4 months ago.. and the first months were hard because i missed my family and friends so much...but I am adjusting little by little now..I got new friends.. I made friends with my husband's friend's wives.. and other people from other countries.. she should be happy to find people from the same country to make friends with..I haven't found anyone from Argentina or anyone who speaks spanish yet.. still i am not being such a b####..I love my husband and i know he does everything he can to make me happy because he knows that i am far away from my country, he knows i don't have family or friends here, he knows my English is not perfect.. and my culture is different..and he does everything he can to make sure i am happy.. so because of that i put a little effort and i respond him the same way..

Why are you guys talking about him not wanting to spend his money on her??.. he just said he recently payed for her to go and see her family..he is not saying that she can't spend his money.. he is saying that he let her spend his money in everything she wants.. but when he wants to spend money to pay bills like..she doesn't let him...

YOU are absolutely right，the only thing he wants to know is what to do in case he wants to divorce her!!

And I say right back to you. Using your logic. Who wants to know your story here?

I have an idea. You post what you want. I post what I want. Everybody posts what they want. Let the mods sort it out.

Felt the need to comment, it's only fair you see the other side of the story too, first of all yes it's good to save money, you never know when you can get sick or something happens and you need it, from my experience soo far american people live on credit, they never save. Second, you going around the house in a tshirt during winter is not acceptable, put a coat on and turn down the heating, yoru bill should not be more then 100, I imagine where you are is never more less then 15 C, at this temperature here in Ro we hardly turn on the heating. You are 47, in my country paying a mortgage at this age is considered you are a looser, you did not do anything with your life, in communist countries or ex communist countries all people own a place, no matter how small it is, 4X4 room, they call it home and it's theirs, google and see in what countries people rent more, here everyone owns, in USA probably only 50 % own a house.... I guess she wants to change this by better budgeting your money and what it goes on. Next, she is a mature woman, in my country you won't see people over 40 in clubs and bars, they party at home with friends and family. Next, she does not want to meet people from her country, so what I don't want that either, some tend to be bad and have hidden reasons for wanting to meet you, better to make american friends, people from communist countries tend to be mean, selfish, jalous, she is better without them. You are 47, I assume your mom is 70 or close to it, who wants to stay with a mother in law that is 70 years old? She married you not your mother, are you a mama's boy? it's different when you go to friends, that's protecting her territory, she wants to be with you then because she loves you and she is concerned you might meet someone there, at your mom's house you are not going to meet anyone. She spends money on make up and eye creams, I have news for you, she is 41, she wants to look good for you or you might pick up a K1 20 years younger then you. She is right, you don't understand her at all, it's like you haven't been married before and for sure you don't love her if you are ready to divorce her for such stupid things, help her get a job, get out of the house, meet colleagues, go on holidays together not with friends, in her country people with debts don't go on holidays, they work to pay the debt, she loved you very much trust me if at 41 she married a man with no house, no big bank account and she is not interested in spending your money on expensive holidays, jewlery and a private bank account in her country...eye cream are you serious, really? Really? What is next she asked you money for a pair of pantyhose as well? WOW you better divorce her then for sure...You should be happy you got such a responsible woman, she respects you, she does not cheat on you, she takes care of you, you are 50 and still a party boy you were not ready to settle down...question, do you spend money on your car? Do you spend money on your drinks in the club? 100 each time? She gives 50 on an eye cream that lasts for 6 months....you are the problem here, not her, if you really love her this can easily be solved...good luck

this is the exactly what I want to say. too much misunderstanding about her. you both need to change and make efforts.

Any updates?

hope to hear a good news soon.

you can go back to your home any time, no one could stop you. but divorce needs time to finish. you can divorce him in usa or in europe.

you and I in the same situation. I came US on K1 too and adjusted my status. when I had my visa interview the VO told me that the K2 case would keep for a year. any time in a year I want K2 to come to US just e-mail them and they would send P3 to the address I gave them. then K2 would get an interview and have a visa.

after divorce, she could remove the conditional GC straight way and do not need to meet the 2 years requirement.

you do not need NOA1. you will need NOA2 after you come into usa file for AOS. if you have any copies or the document saved in computer,it works.

went to china visiting her 3 times in 8 months and visa approved.

i think you can do this:

after getting a K1 visa,you hold a tradional wedding ceremoney in Egypt and do not register in the government office. this will not break any law. not sure if her parents would accept it. when she arrives USA then register a marriage in USA.

i read this post and am thinking about it in the other way. you love your fiance to death and he loves you too. you can not get a visa, why not just ask him to move to your place and live together forever. where there is love where is heaven.

I-134 do not need to be notarized.

if your fiancee lives in mainland of china the only interview location for K-1 visas is Guangzhou

Congratulations！！！

got approved Apri 5th. it took 4 and half month since P1.

hi, we filed in November 11, 2010. Still waiting for our NOA2!

check here http://www.visajourney.com/timeline/monthly_filers.php?visa=1&form=1&scenter=1&option=1&sortby=2

you can see many our VJ menmbers got approved within 4 months even people whoes P1 in Jann and Feb got approved more than the people whoes P1 in Nov,

if i'm wrong i do not think K2 has extra application fees when you two apply the visas together.it means pay for K1 and get k2 free.(k2 only pays its phyisical checking and interview),AOS has to pay seperatly.

if i were you i would just leave withour getting married.

I have the same question. We sent our document to Texas and was then sent it to California Service Center. I do not understand it either.

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